By Tricia Berwick
In a few weeks, school doors will open for another academic year and kids will be busy with homework assignments and extra-curricular activities. Some children will resume interests from the previous year and others will find new outlets to channel their creativity or athleticism. If your child has expressed an interest in participating in either dance or gymnastics classes, it’s important to research the best facilities and to talk to your child about the responsibility involved. At first, it may seem very exciting to wear pretty pink tutus and form-fitting leotards, but how do you know for sure that these activities will benefit your kids? Enrolling in one of these schools is a huge commitment of your time as weekly classes are usually required from September through June. And, it has to be financially feasible for your family since all schools require registration fees, monthly payments, and additional costs for shows or recitals. However, if your child has a sincere interest in one of these activities and you can manage the money and get your child there every week, area parents and school directors say signing up for dance or gymnastics lessons is worth every penny and the time spent in the car shuttling the kids to and from lessons.
If you feel that your child is ready for this type of challenge, it’s imperative to research and choose a facility to meet the needs of your individual child. When beginning a search, there are a few important factors to consider.
First, spend a lot of time asking questions about the backgrounds of the teaching staff. Don’t hesitate to meet with the director and ask to see the credentials and the certifications of the teaching staff. For example, if you are researching a ballet school, take note if the instructors have danced with a professional ballet company or hold a degree in dance from an accredited college or university. Class size should also be considered. Make sure the classes are not too large so your child doesn’t feel lost in the shuffle. You want your child to receive adequate attention during lessons. Also, be sure to familiarize yourself with each school’s rules, procedures, and payment plans before your registration forms are completed.
One of the best way s to decide if the school is the right fit for your family is to visit several classes. Ask if you can attend a free trial class to help determine whether or not you would like to become a part of that particular school. Keep notes while you visit each school and then compare and contrast your results. It’s important to go with your instincts and register for a school where you and your child feel comfortable with the staff and the curriculum.
If you’re hesitant about whether or not to sign on the dotted line, don’t be because many children enjoy numerous positive benefits from one of these activities.
In addition to being a fun activity, dancing is a fantastic way for people to get in and stay in shape. It is an effective form of exercise and allows a child to learn self-expression though music and movement. It also increases an individual’s flexibility and endurance, builds strength, and creates opportunities to meet people. Dancing also helps to reduce stress and tension and provides and overall sense of well being.
Chrissy Starr, owner of Shore Ballet in Toms River, says studying ballet can provide your children with an invaluable experience.
“All kids gain from the arts,” says Starr. “It teaches them discipline and exposes them to music. Everyone is fitness consciousness these days. The kids are engaging in an activity and not just watching television.”
Mother Tracy Seitz agrees. Ballet has kept her daughter, Paige busy and happy since she was three-years-old. Paige just performed in her fourth recital this past June and has loved every minute of her Shore Ballet experience.
“I love how dance keeps my daughter active,” says Seitz. “She really enjoys the social aspect, also and has made some great friends through classes. The recital at the end of the year provides the children with a goal which is a terrific way to build confidence. It’s very satisfying to work towards a goal over a period of time. I hope she continues to dance for a long time because I think it will provide her with a nice foundation for other things that she might want to pursue later in life, like trying out for the school play.”
Janel McAteer, mother of five-year-old Julianna, strongly believes that dance can build strong social skills and improve one’s self esteem.
“My daughter always has tons of fun when she attends dance classes,” says McAteer. “She goes with some friends and always meets new kids, too. I think it’s very important for her to be a part of a routine and to gain experience listening to instructors and following directions. I’m really happy that she enjoys it so much. As long as she loves it and enjoys what she is doing, I will continue to register her for classes.”
Similar to dance classes, gymnastics classes promote fitness and help to develop coordination, flexibility, strength, and self esteem. It also teaches the importance of discipline and hard work and provides important skills to enhance other sports.
Before you make a commitment this fall, research the facility online, ask for referrals from other parents and drop in to visit a ballet school or gym without an appointment to see how their classes are run. They should have a friendly, open-door policy and be able to answer all of your questions in person. Ask about the instructors, the class sizes, and the cleanliness of the school. Also ask your child to come with you. If he or she is welcomed by the staff and feels immediately comfortable, then you just may have found the right place.


Thinking of a fun affordable activity for your child this fall? Then you should consider the Shore Ballet School. Approaching their 35th season, the most recommended dance school in the Toms River area is dedicated to the highest quality of instruction. With a great curriculum arranged specifically for boys and girls of every age group, their programs are rated #1 by parents and students alike.
This season Shore Ballet will be offering a variety of styles such as Tap, Lyrical, Broadway, Hip Hop and Tumbling. In all classes teachers focus on technique, choreography and having fun. Parents love their stellar curriculum, convenient class schedules and reasonable prices. Shore Ballet is known as a non-competitive school. That means, students won’t be asked to sign up for extra practice workshops or dance competitions. At Shore Ballet all the magic happens each week right at the studio!
Chrissy Starr is the owner/director of the school and she is dedicated to making sure the school is a positive place. She is a certified dance instructor and her teacher training began in London, England where she graduated from the prestigious Royal Ballet School. It was there that she completed a professional dance teacher’s training program that concentrated on the fundamental teaching of classical dance. Upon retuning to the U.S. she continued her studies obtaining more teaching certifications while still performing in ballets and theater productions. Now as a respected member of the Royal Academy of Dance for more than 18 years, Ms. Starr holds the R.A.D. teaching certificate with Distinction. She is also a long time member of the American Academy of Ballet and holds certifications from the Imperial Society of Teachers of Dancing.
Shore Ballet is just minutes off Rt. 37 E. in Toms River near Vaughn and West End Avenues. The building was once St. Philip’s Episcopal Church built in 1880, and is listed on the State and National Register of Historic places. Still containing the seven original stained glass windows, the dance room itself is a spacious 56×30 feet with chestnut paneling and a small stage that once served as an alter. The dance room also has a vaulted ceiling, Harlequin dance floor, heat/air conditioning and a viewing window for parents to watch the dancers. The waiting area is comfortable with two bathrooms and baby changing facilities.
Shore Ballet classes are limited in size and parents are always pleased with the personal attention their children receive. Ms. Starr is dedicated to her art and she loves seeing her students grow one dance step at a time. Register today it’s fun & affordable! Shore Ballet offers sibling discounts and payment plans. Compare our prices. Major credit cards accepted. Sign up before classes are full!
Call: 732-270-1110 or E-mail: director@shoreballet.com. Visit our new website: www.shoreballet.com



Dance For Joy, located in Brielle NJ on Route 70, has been a part of the community for twenty two years! In the Fall of February 2007, Kimberly Kunkel-Houli became the new owner and Artistic Director. Kimberly Kunkel has been dancing since she was three years old. She studied Classical Ballet, Modern, Jazz, Tap, Lyrical, Choreography and Yoga. She attended Howell High School’s Fine and Performing Arts Center where she was recognized for her fine tuned dancing and creative choreography. She then went on to pursue her dance training at Montclair State University where she studied Ballet and Modern, and performed professionally with the Sebastian Sextet Dance Company. She finished her studies at Point Park University in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, one of the most prestigious institutions for dance in the country. She graduated with a degree in Dance Pedagogy which included studies in child, adolescent, adult and educational psychology, anatomy, kinesiology, and choreography, along with daily technique classes in Ballet, Modern and Jazz.
Kimberly has an incredible passion for dance, choreography, teaching and most importantly children; “I’ve had so many amazing and inspiring dance teachers in my life that have left me with a deep understanding of my own body. This connection is what dance is all about. The mind and body connection is what makes dance so addicting. To be able to define and interpret a thought, feeling, song, or even silence with movement, is the most honest form of expression I have ever experienced. The body becomes our finely tuned instrument, and what other instrument could possibly be so beautiful? This is what I hope to teach and instill in each student that walks through my studio doors.” ~Kimberly Kunkel
At Dance For Joy we strongly believe that ballet is the seed in which all dance stems from. There is nothing in the world that can teach grace, coordination, poise and balance better, and combine it in a more effective package than ballet. Students that learn and apply the lessons of ballet, almost subconsciously integrate what they have mastered into their life. At the very least, one can inexplicably see and sense the increase in confidence and self-esteem that will last them a lifetime. In a society where kids are growing up with constant instant gratification from all the wonderful technologies our world presents us with, ballet is a way to teach focus and patience with self. It allows the student to understand their bodies and the technique of dance while instilling perseverance, determination, and discipline.
Dance For Joy offers a variety of dance techniques including Classical Ballet, Pointe, Modern, Jazz, Lyrical, Tap, Hip-Hop, Contemporary, Teen Beginner Ballet and Yoga. It is a second home for some of the students attending, and it’s DFJ’s goal to create a safe and friendly atmosphere while inspiring and challenging the students in the art of dance. The studio isn’t just a place where students learn a dance; it is where they learn how to dance.
All of the faculty at Dance For Joy are highly trained and certified dance teachers who have dedicated most of their lives to the discipline of dance. Each teacher takes a special pride in passing on their knowledge, experiences and passion for dance to each student at DFJ.
Dance for Joy is located at 1025 Rt. 70 Suite 2,Brielle.For more
information call :732-223-5336 or log onto www.danceforjoynj.com
danceforjoy2@optonline.net



Downtown Dance Academy established in June 2009, is located in the “Downtown” area of Toms River in Downtown Plaza. Owner and Director Laura Stout is pleased to announce that DDA has moved from 25 West Water Street, Suite B1, to Suite A- to accommodate the growing student enrollment and allow for more comfortable accommodations for parents, including closed circuit television for continuous classroom observation.
Laura Stout has been dancing since she was a small child. During her education she studied Ballet, Jazz, Modern, Lyrical, and Tap. Later, Laura trained at Mason Gross School of the Arts, at Rutgers University, where she studied Modern, Choreography, and Ballet. She had been teaching dance in Monmouth and Ocean Counties for over ten years before establishing Downtown Dance Academy.
Dance has been an important part of Laura’s life for as long as she can remember and she hopes to spread the joy and passion she experiences in dance to the children she teaches; “I love to watch the students grow into beautiful dancers; see the look in their eyes when they get that step they have been working so hard on, and to witness first hand that I have passed on my love of dance to them.”
All members of the faculty at Downtown Dance Academy are highly skilled in their disciplines and have experience in both performing and teaching dance. The goal of the Downtown Dance Academy is to encourage every child to explore and expand their talent and abilities. The faculty pride themselves on providing each child with a quality dance education, while helping to build individual confidence and self discipline in a warm and caring environment.
Downtown Dance Academy offers a variety of dance disciplines including Ballet, Pointe, Tap, Jazz, Lyrical, Hip Hop, Stretch & Strength, Acro and Zumba. The Academy also offers performance and higher educational opportunities with Junior and Senior Dance Troupe.
Dance has many benefits. It is not only a mechanism for building muscle strength, coordination, and balance, but it is also an excellent way to develop self esteem, patience, listening skills, and the ability to work within a team. It is also fun!
The Academy has several students who spend many hours in the studio every week, not only to further their dance education, but also because they just enjoy being there. The Downtown Dance Academy staff strives to ensure that every child who walks through the door feels comfortable in the studio and leaves with a smile.
“The bond between dancers is unlike any other and we enjoy watching these bonds grow and mature into lifelong friendships.” -Laura Stout


Fun, Fitness and Feeling good about yourself are the most important ingredients to classes taught at Ocean Gymnastics Academy. Join a class this Fall and improve your balance, strength, flexibility and develop better body awareness.
We offer classes according to your age and ability level. Beginner and advanced gymnasts achieve success with new skills being taught every class. Our small class size allows for optimum individual attention. Teaching progressions are emphasized to ensure a safe and developmentally appropriate environment. Our instructors are Safety Certified by USA Gymnastics, which is the National organization that sets the standards for our sport.
The basics of gymnastics provide a solid foundation for other sports and activities. Classes are offered for children of all ages from Parent/Child through High School. We also are the home of Oceans of Fun Nursery School, a State licensed nursery school that offers a UNIQUE curriculum that combines academic readiness for Kindergarten along with pre-school gymnastics.
Every parent wants a well-rounded child. Sign up now and watch their confidence and self esteem grow!! Call us today at 732-270-4500 for our Fall
Schedule. Enroll before August 31st and get your first class FREE. We are celebrating 30 years of watching children grow in LEAPS and BOUNDS!!! Be a part of all the wonderful things happening this year at Ocean Gymnastics Academy and Oceans of Fun Nursery School.Join our TEAM at the Blue Claws game on August 14th for Gymnastics Night!!!