By Tricia Berwick

September and the start of a new school year may seem months away, but now is the time to research and select a preschool for your child.  Registration is usually held by March,  which means it’s time to create a checklist of what you are looking for in a preschool, visit a few facilities, and ask parents for their first-hand experiences.   The most important thing is to keep an organized list of the schools you are interested in and the questions you want to ask.

1.)Identify your priorities- First, decide what you want. Are you looking for a preschool near your workplace, or would one closer to home be more convenient?  Once you have decided on the best location for your family, it’s time to select a school.  One of the best ways to find a reputable program is to use the Internet.  Go online to find preschools in your area and then narrow down your search by referring to the NAEYC (The National Association for the Education of Young Children) and the National Association of Family Child Care web sites. Visit them for guidelines and contact information. NAEYC also has a searchable online database of accredited centers and preschools.  There is also information for students, teachers, and parents regarding school, resources for learning and appropriate books for the preschool crowd.

2.)Curriculum- Are you looking for a curriculum that focuses on creative, hands-on play or are you searching for a more academic environment?  The best preschools have daily allotted time for group and individual activities, crafts, snacks, reading, and free time or recess.  Preschoolers generally learn better while they are actively involved in play, so it’s important to make sure the preschool administers this philosophy.

3.)Consider the school’s reputation- Does the preschool have a welcoming, friendly atmosphere?  What are they known for? Do they offer a nurturing environment as well as a stimulating and comprehensive curriculum?  Parents with kids currently enrolled in the school will provide you with the best insight about what makes the school tick.

4.)Schedule an interview- Of course, getting current parents’ opinions about the school is a terrific way to find out information but you won’t get a sense of what a preschool is really like until you go there and meet the staff and director. Ask the director about everything from hours, fees, and vacation schedules to philosophies on childrearing issues such as discipline and nutrition.  Don’t be afraid to whip out a list of questions.  Taking the time to prepare your thoughts ahead of time will ensure that all of your questions and concerns will be addressed. Also, get a schedule of daily activities. This way, you’ll know exactly how your child will be engaged every day. This is the time to pay attention to your gut feelings about the place and how the director handles your questions.  Can you imagine your child attending this school?  If possible, try and observe a class.  Notice the way the teachers and students interact with each other.  Do the students generally seem happy?  If you see lots of smiles and happy faces, that’s an excellent sign.

5.)  Quality of the staff and teacher/student ratio- Preschool teachers should have at least two years of college, and a background in early-childhood development, CPR training and other emergency training.  It’s equally important for them to be caring, enthusiastic with the children, and prepared for the daily activities.  It should be obvious that the teachers want to be there and they are excited to see the children when they enter the classroom.  The preschool should have a large enough staff to give your child the attention and care he or she needs.   In addition to finding researching the educational backgrounds of the teachers, find out the school’s teacher-child ratio, too.  This is a very important factor to consider because you don’t want your child to get lost in a crowd of kids.  This is your child’s first experience at being separated from mom and dad and you want your child to receive the proper attention and care.  The general rule is that each teacher should not be responsible for more than eight kids at a time.  If the ratio is higher than this, chances are your child will not receive adequate care.  1:5 is ideal for 2- to 3-year-olds, 1:7 is ideal for 3- to 4-year-olds, and 1:15 is acceptable for 5-year-olds.

6.)Cleanliness and safety- A good preschool should also be clean and safe.  While you are visiting, make sure trash is not piled up in wastebaskets, the tables and floors are clean, and that the building has plenty of light and operates at a comfortable temperature year-round.   Ask questions about how the toys and play areas are cleaned on a daily basis.  Are they disinfected every afternoon to avoid the spread of germs?  Find out if the doors are locked during school hours, too.  Do you need to be buzzed into the building?  The building should be secure so that strangers off the street cannot just walk into the school.  Finally, check out the school’s outdoor play area.  Does the equipment look like its new and in good shape?  Is there enough shade for sunny days? Check with your local social services department to see if the facility has a current license and the proper credentials.   You can also check accreditation information and find answers to all of your early childhood education questions at The National Association for the Education of Young Children website, www.naeyc.org.

7.)Low staff turnover- If the teachers change every six months, it may be a good idea to continue your preschool search. Children crave consistency and need to form strong relationships with their caregivers, so you don’t want a preschool where teachers come and go.

During this preschool process, make sure to ask a lot of questions and find out as much information as possible about each school.  Also, make sure to listen to your parental instincts.  Ultimately, choosing a preschool is a personal decision.  If after visiting a preschool, you can imagine your child playing and learning there, then that is probably the best choice for your family.

Sung Star Academy Learning Center is a private school that services children from infancy through full day kindergarten and school aged for before and aftercare. This fall was the beginning of our fifth school year.  As the director let me share with you why we are so different.

We are a childcare facility that cares for our youngest children as well as creating an educational setting for every child.  Our curriculum is based on the best of several educational methodologies and Asian philosophy.

The focus has always been to develop the understanding of respect.  We begin with self-respect and then branch out to others, adults, grandparents, nature and the world around the child, as they know it.  The owners, Dr. Sung and his wife Yoon consistently expect that respect be taught and in return they offer their respect to the children and their families.

Our teachers have the ability to create an individualized classroom setting drawing from their specific areas of expertise and backgrounds while teaching our curriculum. Sung Star’s curriculum is designed without limitations so that our student’s can achieve individual success.

Dr. Sung and his wife Yoon insist that the school be created based upon academic excellence!  As a result our staff is extremely qualified.  Our director is an educational professor with over 34 years of educational experience teaching university/college and she is a retired school principal. Eight of our teachers hold a BA or a BS. Three have Masters Degrees and others are presently in graduate school pursuing a Masters Degree.  All of our paraprofessionals have a prior fund of knowledge in childcare and an enormous amount of background in life experience and skill.  Others have Associate Degrees, a C.D.A.’or college credits.  Any college students we hire pursue either a degree in education or a medical field.  Some have prior work experience as teacher’s assistants in the public schools.

The programs are all designed for our one year old through Preschool four with the same intent. Developmentally appropriate programs are taught consistently. Daily exposure to a multitude of classroom opportunities is key! We have created a curriculum that suits all our children of varying ages.   For example, if a child is learning at a more rapid rate than most of the children in the class, we encourage it!  Our teachers would take measures to escalate and embellish the existing program to keep the child interested.   Then appropriate supplies and materials to learn this advanced skill properly are provided.

During the entire day while your child is with us the teacher conducts daily observations.  The “Kid watching” process assists us in recognizing and fostering appropriate skill development.  In doing so, we are able to immediately recognize areas needing attention and applaud academic success!

The Toddler I & II, Preschool three programs share a common thread of curriculum that connects the programs.  It is a theme-based curriculum.  It spans fine and gross motor, social and emotional growth, self-help, speech and language, general knowledge and comprehension, readiness, basic reading, printing and basic math.

The education-based curriculums that are incorporated are foreign languages: Korean for Kindergarten; Spanish for children age 2 years/Kindergarten; exposure to Sign Language for all children.   Rhythm, movement & dance, music, art, Karate, and physical education classes are consistent activities in our weekly schedule.

We offer a private classroom for aftercare.  Our aftercare room is designed with a school aged students theme.  It is inviting and comfortable. The students seem to want to spend all of their time in there when they are not outdoors or at karate!

Our library is used by all of our children ranging in age from one year old to our aftercare students. It provides an additional reading experience outside of the classroom.  It also provides materials to embellish the curriculum or homework.  Quiet reading or partnering can be accomplished under our reading tent.  The children can enjoy privacy or shared reading.   For the independent reader, there are comfy beanbag chairs and rocking chairs available where they can snuggle up with a good book!

To create program parity to the public school full day programs we have designed the curriculum over a six-hour day.  The daily schedule includes Math, Reading, Language Arts, and Phonics, Health, Science and Social Studies. In addition we offer Art, Music, Karate, Library, Spanish, Korean, Sign Language, Rhythm Movement & Dance and a formal lunch and recess period. The classroom experience provides cooperative learning, small group instruction, learning centers, and individualized instruction when needed.  Our kindergarten students have a history of being extremely successful in the first grades they attend.

For the fall of 2011 Sung Star is investigating the possibility to open a first grade classroom.  It will be a small environment with support opportunities for creativity and endless possibilities.  Those interested can attend a general meeting in January 2011.  Call for details. (732-341-7500)

I consider myself very fortunate to be the director of the academy.  My thirty-four year background in education lends itself to a lifetime of teaching, learning and public service all of which I can use here.  I can’t think of a better way for anyone to spend a day. Come and see it for yourself!

The following activities are included in the tuition:

-Art

-Music

-Rhythm, Movement & Dance

-Kum Sung Karate

-Gentle Gymnastics

-Exposure to Spanish, Sign

Language & Korean

(Kindergarten  only)

-Winter & -Spring

Wee People Concerts

-Summer swim lessons

-Library

For an additional

fee we offer:

-Computer Tots

-Private Art Sessions

-Piano Lessons

*Kum Sung Karate Fall & Spring Karate Tournaments (off site)

Sung Star is located at KumSung Plaza

182 James Street, Toms River

732-341-7500

www.sungstaracademy.com

What is Classical Christian

Education at Ambassador?

Over 2,000 years ago classical education was started to develop young minds to be wise. John Gardner, an American novelist and classicist wrote, “at the time this nation was formed, our population stood at around 3 million, and we produced perhaps six leaders of world class-(all classically trained) Washington, Adams, Jefferson, Franklin, Madison and Hamilton. Today our population stands at 245 million, so we might expect at least 80 times as many world-class leaders- 480 Jeffersons, Madisons, Adams’, Washingtons, Hamiltons and Franklins. Where are they?”

What does classical education look like in the classroom?

The goal of developing young minds has curriculum that is adapted to the phases of a child’s development. In the elementary years, children are uniquely adapted to memorize. They can easily learn volumes of information put to song, movement, sign language and chants. They enjoy memorizing poetry, Scripture, history, geography, science, grammar, Latin, Spanish and math. They are given regular opportunity to recite in a group and as individuals developing a comfort for public speaking, (the number one fear of most adults). Their curriculum exposes them to world history starting in the elementary grades with literature integrated to the time period they are studying leading to greater understanding and retention. Time lines are introduced to give children the concept of the bigger picture and how the present relates to the past.  History comes alive as students place important historical events on a timeline with the artists, musicians, scientists, inventors and statesman of the same time period. Students at this age are excited about learning, and that excitement is kept alive in classical education with hands-on activities, projects, field trips, drama, memorization, drills and games.

Middle school students enjoy the challenges of being introduced to formal logic helping them to develop discernment and to satisfy their curiosity, and to debate. They continue the use of time lines and charts making their own individual time lines as they study the history of the world. They debate, write persuasive reports, role play, evaluate and critique, write research papers and enjoy field trips and guest speakers. Emphasis on grammar and writing produce students who can express themselves with the written word as well as orally. Science allows students hands-on experiences to explore and appreciate  God’s world. All learning is integrated with the morals, values and truth from the Bible, cultivating a Christian worldview.

Students (PreK through 8th grade) experience Spanish instruction and in the middle elementary add Latin to their schedule. Latin helps with developing English grammar and vocabulary skills, makes learning other romance languages easier, and is an advantage for professional careers of law, medicine and science. Latin students also score an average of 152 points higher on their verbal SATs. Art and music are vital aspects of classical learning through the grades.

ACA is the only private classical Christian school on the New Jersey shore with dual accreditation with the Middle States Association of Colleges and School and the Association of Christian Schools International. Classical education still works and when combined with the latest technology and science it happens that classical education prepares students better than any other form. ACA equips children with knowledge, encourages them to develop wisdom and provides opportunity for eloquence as they grow to be intelligent, thinking young men and women of faith and conviction.

At Oceans of Fun Nursery School, we believe that children thrive in our developmentally and age-appropriate, stimulating, fun, play-based program. Positive self-esteem and independence is encouraged by small class size and high adult to child ratio.  Thus, attention to different needs, interests, and development levels of individual children is accomplished. The love of learning is also instilled by discovering and exploring children’s questions and encouraging their curiosity.  It is also our belief that learning through active involvement and discovery is long lasting learning.

The objective of Oceans of Fun Nursery School is to educate the child socially, intellectually, morally, and physically.

Social: Opportunities for actions and interactions between and among children and adults. Teaching them courtesy, kindness, and friendliness toward all people.

Intellectual: Stimulating children through literature, discussions, pictures, and finger plays. Projects and activities that encourage curiosity, thinking, and problem solving.

Moral: Exercising positive role models for the children to emulate. Encouraging positive self-esteem through their success.

Physical: Gymnastics is offered each day to develop the children’s gross-motor skills. Reading readiness skills are also accomplished through the sequencing of the various circuits throughout our safe and inviting gym.

At Oceans of Fun Nursery children are respected for their feelings, supported for their desire to explore, and encouraged to feel powerful. Our goal is to help our children gain a sense of competence in all areas of their development. It is our intent that this learning will benefit our children not only during their school years, but hopefully for a lifetime of success as well.

December 4

Pancake Breakfast with Santa, Bay Head Fire House, 81 Bridge Ave. 9 am – 11:30 am. Sponsored by Bay Head Home School. $ Information: 1-800-422-9433 or www.bayhead.org – BAY HEAD

December 5

A Night in Bethlehem, St. Paul’s United Methodist Church, W. Lake and Bridge Ave. 3 pm – 6 pm. The streets of Bethlehem during the first Christmas will be depicted, talk with shepherds, shop keepers and Joseph and Mary. Hear festive music, nibble treats from a first century bakery. Create fun projects, encounter a census taker and listen to stories. Nativity with live animal. Information: 732-892-5926 or www.stpaulsbayhead.org – BAY HEAD

Lacey Christmas Parade, Lacey Road. 3 pm. Starts at Lacey United Methodist Church heading West to the Municipal Building. Information: 609-693-8223 or www.laceytownship.org – FORKED RIVER/LACEY TOWNSHIP

27th Annual Christmas in Island Heights Home Tour and Craft Shows, First United Methodist Church, 111 Ocean Ave., and Firehouse, Lake Ave. Craft shows 10 am – 4 pm, breakfast at church 8 am – 10 am, lunch at craft show sites noon – 3:30 pm. House tour, points of interest that also will be open the Cottage Museum; The Studio at the John Peto house; Ludlow Thorston Gallery; the Ocean County Artists’ Guild; and St. Gertrude’s Roman Catholic Church. Two tea rooms offering hot beverages and goodies($). Information: 732-929-0444 – ISLAND HEIGHTS

December 9

Light of Life, Southern Ocean County Hospital, Margaret C. Reynolds Arboretum, 1140 Rt. 72 W. 5:30 pm. Holiday tradition to place your memorial decoration on their trees to honor loved ones, then gather together to light the trees in a community-wide holiday celebration of music and light. Local choirs and musicians, holiday refreshments. Take a photo with old Saint Nick. Information: 609-978-3081 or www.sochfoundation.org – MANAHAWKIN

Dissection Workshop, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 11 am. Get your hands dirty dissecting a fish and squid and learn the differences between the two animals. Ages 12 and up. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

The Art of the Marimba, Arts and Community Center, Ocean County College, College Drive, off Hooper Ave. 11 am – 12:15 pm. Program that will include Rhapsody in Blue and selections from West Side Story and classic works. Guest artist Greg Giannascoli on marimba and Yukyung Kim on piano. Information: 732-255-0400 or www.ocean.edu – TOMS RIVER

Christmas Tea in the Victorian Tradition, Ocean County Historical Society Museum, 26 Hadley Ave. 1pm, 3:30pm Christmas tea will be served in the Victorian tradition at the historic decorated Pierson Sculthorp House $ Information: 732-341-1880 or www.oceancountyhistory.org – TOMS RIVER

December 10

A Patriotic Christmas, Brick Township Historical Society, 521 Herbertsville Rd. Noon – 4 pm. Cost includes tour of seven rooms of the Havens Homestead decorated in a patriotic theme, homemade refreshments and music. 12 years and under free. Information: 732-458-1710 or www.bricktwphistoricalsociety.com – BRICK

December 11

Chorale Christmas Concert, Marron Chapel Georgian Court University, 900 Lakewood Ave. 7:30 pm. $ Informaton: 732-987-2263 or www.georgian.edu – LAKEWOOD

Irish Christmas in America, Historic Strand Theatre, 400 Clifton Ave. 8 pm. Family-friendly performance features Irish ballads and holiday carols with lively fiddle tunes and thrilling dancing. $ Information: 732-367-7789 or www.strand.org – LAKEWOOD

December 12

Breakfast with Santa & Mrs. Claus, Barnegat Recreation Center, W. Bay Ave. 8 am – 11 am. Fundraiser for Our Gang. $ Information: 609-597-0553 or www.ourgang.org – BARNEGAT

A Patriotic Christmas, Brick Township Historical Society, 521 Herbertsville Rd. 6 pm – 9 pm. Cost includes tour of seven rooms of the Havens Homestead decorated in a patriotic theme, homemade refreshments and music. 12 years and under free. Information: 732-458-1710 or www.bricktwphistoricalsociety.com – BRICK

Pancake Breakfast with Vince Dantona and George with Santa, Uncle Vinnie’s Comedy Club, 518 Arnold Ave. 9 am – Noon. Pancake buffet breakfast, children’s comedy and Santa. $ Information: 732-899-3900 or www.unclevinniescomedyclub.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

13th Annual Jingle Bells 5k Run, downtown Toms River. Registration 1:30 pm – 3 pm. Run/Walk at 3 pm. Presented by the Rotary Club of Toms River. $ Information: 732-341-8737 or www.jinglebellsrun.com – TOMS RIVER

December 13

The Appetizer Show, North Dining Room, Georgian Court University, 900 Lakewood Ave. 7 pm. You be the chef, learn instruction, take-home recipes and eat what is created, with classically trained chefs from Georgian Court University. Reservations required. $ Informaton: 732-987-2263 or www.georgian.edu – LAKEWOOD

Court Singers & Flute Ensemble Christmas Concert, Marron Chapel, Georgian Court University, 900 Lakewood Ave. 7:30 pm. $ Informaton: 732-987-2263 or www.georgian.edu – LAKEWOOD

December 14

Toddler Make and Take, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 10:30 am. Make marine life crafts, listen to a story, and learn about some of their animals. This workshop is for children ages 3-5 years old with an adult. Pre-register. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

December 16

Ronnie Spector-Best Christmas Ever, Historic Strand Theatre, 400 Clifton Ave. 7 pm. Join for a holiday night celebration with beehive bad girl Ronnie Spector. $ Information: 732-367-7789 or www.strand.org – LAKEWOOD

December 17

A Christmas Carol, Historic Strand Theatre, 400 Clifton Ave. 8 pm. Charles Dickens’s immortal tale of Ebenezer Scrooge. $ Information: 732-367-7789 or www.strand.org – LAKEWOOD

December 18

A Christmas Carol, Historic Strand Theatre, 400 Clifton Ave. 2 pm & 8 pm. Charles Dickens’s immortal tale of Ebenezer Scrooge. $ Information: 732-367-7789 or www.strand.org – LAKEWOOD

Behind the Scenes Tours, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 11 am. Discover what goes on behind the scenes at their aquarium while you tour the building front top to bottom. Sneakers required. Pre-register. Ages 5 and up. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

December 22

An Evening of Readings and Carols, Central Regional High School Auditorium, Forest Hills Parkway. 7 pm. Readings and music for the holiday season. Presented by the Berkeley Community Arts Alliance Concert Band and Chorus. Proceeds go to Toys for Tots. $ Information: 732-814-4969 or www.berkeleyarts.net – BAYVILLE

December 26

Sea of Lights, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 6 pm – 8 pm. Walk through different holiday themed areas while viewing exhibits. Make a craft and bring your camera. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com/aquarium – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Exhibit: Model Train Show, Ocean County Historical Society Museum, 26 Hadley Ave. 10 am – 4 pm. Sponsored by the Ocean County Society of Model Railroaders. $ Information: 732-341-1880 or www.oceancountyhistory.org- TOMS RIVER

December 27

Sea of Lights, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 6 pm – 8 pm. Walk through different holiday themed areas while viewing exhibits. Make a craft and bring your camera. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com/aquarium – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Exhibit: Model Train Show, Ocean County Historical Society Museum, 26 Hadley Ave. 10 am – 4 pm. Sponsored by the Ocean County Society of Model Railroaders. $ Information: 732-341-1880 or www.oceancountyhistory.org – TOMS RIVER

December 28

Sea of Lights, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 6 pm – 8 pm. Walk through different holiday themed areas while viewing exhibits. Make a craft and bring your camera. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com/aquarium – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

December 29

Sea of Lights, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 6 pm – 8 pm. Walk through different holiday themed areas while viewing exhibits. Make a craft and bring your camera. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com/aquarium – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

December 30

Sea of Lights, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 6 pm – 8 pm. Walk through different holiday themed areas while viewing exhibits. Make a craft and bring your camera. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com/aquarium – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

December 31

First Night Ocean County, boardwalk. Noon – 5 pm. A family celebration with local businesses along the boardwalk. Information: 800-732-7467 or www.seasideheightstourism.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

By Tricia Berwick

If you and your family are thinking about visiting New York City this year for the holiday season, there are certain stops along the way that are not to be missed.

1.) The Radio City Christmas Spectacular—For over 75 years, this classic American holiday show has been entertaining audiences in the heart of New York City.  The Christmas show includes the world-famous Radio City Rockettes and a cast and crew of hundreds.  The show features a Living Nativity with live animals, a surprising indoor snowfall, fireworks, and Santa Claus flying high above the audience.  In addition, there is also a 3D movie which is one of the highlights of the Christmas Spectacular.  Santa and the Rockettes take the audience on a thrilling ride visiting New York City landmarks before arriving at Radio City Music Hall to start the show.  The show runs for ninety minutes and does not include an intermission.  The show is so breathtaking that many people never get up from their seats for the entire performance.  If you would like to order tickets for this year’s show which runs through December 30, call the Christmas Spectacular Hotline at 866-858-0007.

2.) St. Patrick’s Cathedral—Located on Fifth Avenue between 50^th and 51^st Streets in New York City, it is the largest gothic-style Catholic Cathedral in the United States.  As people enjoy the sights and sounds of the holiday throughout the streets of New York, some decide to stop in to say a quick Christmas prayer, attend mass, or light a candle.  For over 125 years, the Cathedral of Saint Patrick has provided a beautiful spiritual place for New Yorkers and tourists and visitors.  In fact, over five and a half million visitors come to the St. Patrick’s to worship and pray each year.  If you time and would like to learn more about the church’s origin and history, arrange to schedule a tour before your visit to New York City.  Tours can be conducted by appointment for groups of ten or more, Monday through Friday around the Mass schedule. For more information about St. Patrick’s Cathedral, visit their website at www.saintpatrickscathedral.org.

3.) FAO Schwarz—For almost 150 years, this company has been creating toys to delight children of all ages.  The world-famous FAO Schwarz Fifth Avenue store is one of the most famous stores in the world.  During the holiday season, many New Yorkers, and tourists from around the globe, line up to daily to see this children’s wonderland.  Upon entering the store, guests will marvel at the Grand Hall which is which is adorned with more that 20,000 computer-controlled colored lights, a giant dance-on piano keyboard (which was featured in the film “Big” with Tom Hanks), and “FAO Schweetz” which is a classic New York candy shop that features hundreds of sweet treats.  In addition, guests can view “The Muppet WhatNot Workshop” which is only available at FAO Schwarz.  Kids will also love the “Styled by Me Barbie” section, the “Middleton Doll Newborn Nursery,” and the “Madame Alexander Doll Factory.”  For more information about the store, call (212) 644-9400 or visit the store’s website at www.fao.com.
4.) Horse and Carriage Rides in Central Park- These rides can be found al year long lined up along Central Park South between Fifth and Sixth Avenues.  It is a terrific way to relax and see the beauty of Central Park, especially during the holiday season. A standard carriage ride through Central Park costs approximately $50, plus tip forthe first 20 minutes.  If you decide to extend your trip, it will cost $20 more for each additional 10 minutes.  Things seen on the tour include:  The Wollman Rink, Pond, Zoo, Sheep Meadow, Mall (statues), Dairy (tourist information center), the Carousel, and the Dakota (where the former Beatle John Lennon lived).  If you would like to see the sights and sounds throughout Central Park, while snuggling up next to your loved one, this is one activity not to be missed and is certainly a holiday treat.  For more information, visit www.centralpark.com.

5.) Wollman Rink—While in Central Park, lace up someskates and hit the ice at Wollman Rink.  As you are twirling around and practicing a few figure eights, enjoy the beautiful New York City skyline which surrounds the skating rink.  For more information about specific hours and rates, call (212) 439-6900 or visit their website at www.wollmanskatingrink.com.

6.) Christmas Tree at Rockefeller Center—The Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree, which is located at 30 Rockefeller Plaza, is a world-wide symbol of the holidays in New York City.  The tree is illuminated by 30,000 environmentally friendly LED lights on five miles of wire.  Sitting atop the Norway Spruce is a Swarovski crystal star.  The tree has provided Christmas cheer for the people of New York for over 75 years.  The tree is lit daily from 5:30 AM to 11:30 PM.   After your family has spent some time gazing at the beautiful Christmas tree, spend some time ice skating at The Ice Skating Rink at Rockefeller Center.  It is truly a magical and memorable experience to skate around the rink while looking up at the majestic tree and the dazzling urban backdrop.   The rink has room for only 150 skaters at a time which makes it an intimate experience.  However, since this is such a popular winter attraction, be prepared to wait awhile before you hit the ice.  If you are interested in ice skating, enter from Fifth Avenue (between 49^th and 50^th Streets).  For more information, call (212) 332-7654.  Before you leave Rockefeller Center, go underground for a quick bite to eat at The Concourse.  This underground city experience offers shops, fine restaurants, and casual places to get light meals.

7.) Chanukah on Ice at Wollman Rink–Come celebrate the Jewish Festival ofLights on Monday, December 6 from 6-9 PM.  Skate to Jewish music, light a giant ice menorah and have Chanukah treats.  For more information, call (212)-864-5010.

8.) Kwanzaa Events–Kwanzaa is an African-American holiday that has been celebrated since the 1960s from December 26th – January 1^st.   On December 26, head to the American Museum of Natural History.  This all-day celebration will honor the seven African-based principles of Kwanzaa with performances of song, dance, and spoken word presented beside an international marketplace.  This year’s event features a traditional “Second Line” parade led by the McCollough Invaders Band; empowering dance performances by Kotchegna Dance Company, Allen Liturgical Dance Ministry, and Gestures Dance Ensemble; and homage to the traditions of African culture performed by the Restoration Dance Theatre Company.  For more information, visit the museum’s website at www.amnh.org.

9.) The New York Botanical Garden—Come check out the Holiday Train Show which is on display through January 9.  Spend time gazing at all of the sights in the illuminated winter wonderland in the Enid A. Haupt Conservatory.  This show offers visitors a chance to see New York City in a completely different way.  There are 140 NYC landmarks along the tracks, including the original Yankee Stadium.  Take some time to check out Gingerbread Adventures in the Everett Children’s Adventure Garden.  Everyone will have a chance to learn about the plants that give gingerbread its distinct flavor and smell.  For information about tickets and hours, please visit their website at www.nybg.org.

10.) Holiday Windows–-No trip to New York City during the holiday season would be complete without some time admiring the beautiful windows in some of the city’s most famous stories.  Macy’s Holiday Window Displays always feature scenes from the classis Christmas movie Miracle on 34^th Street, in addition to other holiday-themed windows.  The Saks Fifth Avenue Holiday Window Displays are very popular with children because they are designed around a seasonal book and feature playful animations.  After you have visited the tree at Rockefeller Center, just head across the street to see the sights at Saks Fifth Avenue.  If you find yourself on Madison Avenue, be sure to check out the stylish windows at Barneys New York Holiday Window Displays.  If you have kids in tow, make sure to stop by the windows at Bloomingdales which are always family-friendly and interactive.

11.) Visiting Santa Claus—If you would like your children to sit on Santa’s lap and tell him all of their Christmas wishes, there’s no better place to see the guy in the red suit, than Macy’s Department Store.  Of course, be prepared to wait a little bit on lines as this is one of the most popular places to see Santa in the city.  In addition to having your child’s picture taken with Santa, your little one can visit Santaland.  While your child is waiting on line to get a picture taken, he or she will love looking at all of the dancing bears, lights, and animated displays.  After a stroll through Santaland, your child has a chance to talk to the big guy himself in his very own cottage.  You can enter Macy’s on 34^th Street at either Broadway or 7^th Avenue.  For more information, visit their website at www.macys.com.

November 5

The Hitman Murder Mysteries: Cruisin’ for a Deadly Bruisin’, White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. 6:30 pm. Cost includes Titanic II, cruise-ship buffet and murder. Information: 732-830-4242 or www.thewhitepearl.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

Paul Venier, The One Man Comedy Tornado, East Dover Fire Company #4, 629 Fischer Blvd. 6:30 pm. Cost includes comedy show and buffer dinner including beverages. Information: 732-349-8801 or www.mondonhs.com – TOMS RIVER

November 6

Six Flags GRAPE Adventure – A Wine & Food Experience, Six Flags Great Adventure, Rte. 537. noon – 5 pm. Eight NJ Wineries and Chefs from Ocean and Monmouth Counties battle for the “Jersey Shore Ultimate Chef Award.” Live music, Matt O’Ree. Sign up for custom safari tour and special wine tasting among the giraffes $ in advance, on-line use Promo Code WINE. Free parking, theme park closed. $ in advance, on-line. Information: 732-928-1821 or www.sixflags.com/greatAdventure – JACKSON

Annual Tea, Historic Strand Theatre, 400 Clifton Ave. 1 pm. In observance of the 65th anniversary of the end of World War II, music of the forties. Presented by the Lakewood Historical Society. $ Information: 732-276-7944 or twp.lakewood.nj.us – LAKEWOOD

Murder Mystery, White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. Murder Mystery Show. One Night Accommodations, Bottle of Blueberry Champagne, Cheese & Crackers Welcome Basket, Buffet Dinner for 2 catered by Caterer Jacques, free transportation to clubs in town, Valet parking for Hotel , Pearl Special Sunday Breakfast. Additional night can be added. Information: 732-830-4242 or www.thewhitepearl.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

Guided Tours of Museum Available, Ocean County Historical Society Museum, 26 Hadley Ave. 1 pm – 4 pm. Information: 732-341-1880 or www.oceancountyhistory.org – TOMS RIVER

Legend of the Jersey Devil Show, Albert Music Hall, 131 Wells Mills Rd., Rt. 532. Doors Open at 6:30 pm & music begins at 7:30 pm. Hear the famous legend of New Jersey’s “Jersey Devil” and be entertained by Pineland’s music style. Refreshments available. $ Information: 609-971-1593 or www.alberthall.org – WARETOWN

November 7

Six Flags GRAPE Adventure – A Wine & Food Experience, Six Flags Great Adventure, Rte. 537. noon – 5 pm. Eight NJ Wineries and Chefs from Ocean and Monmouth Counties battle for the “Jersey Shore Ultimate Chef Award.” Live music, Frankie Cicale & Bernard “Pretty”Purdie. Sign up for custom safari tour and special wine tasting among the giraffes $ in advance, on-line use Promo Code WINE. Free parking, theme park closed. $ in advance, on-line. Information: 732-928-1821 or www.sixflags.com/greatAdventure – JACKSON

November 8

Cultural Hybridization of Latin Literature, Technology Building Lecture Hall, Ocean County College, College Drive, off Hooper Ave. 9:30 am – 10:45 am. A story of three men and women affected by cultural hybridization. Information: 732-255-0500 or www.ocean.edu – TOMS RIVER

November 9

Revolutionary War In Ocean County, Herbertsville Firehouse, 601 Herbertsville Rd. 7:30 pm. Tim Hart of the Ocean County Cultural and Heritage Commission will give a presentation about five Revolutionary War incidents that took place in Ocean County. Information: 732-458-7507 or www.bricktwphistoricalsociety.com – BRICK

Toddler Make and Take, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 10:30 am. Make marine life crafts, listen to a story, and learn about some of their animals. This workshop is for children ages 3-5 years old with an adult. Pre-register. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

November 11

Veterans Day Parade, Downtown Toms River, Main and Washington Sts. 9:30 am. Patriotic parade. Information: 732-341-8738 or www.downtowntomsriver.com/ – TOMS RIVER

November 12

A Murder Mystery Dinner, Auditorium, Central Region High School, Forest Hill Parkway. 5:30 pm. Presented by Central Regional High School Drama Club. $ Information: 732-269-1100 – BERKELEY TOWNSHIP

Monsignor Donovan High School Performing Arts Department presents: Rumors, Monsignor Donovan High School, 711 Hooper Avenue. 7:30 pm. Farcical play by Neil Simon. $ Information: 732-349-8801 or www.mondonhs.com – TOMS RIVER

Rodgers and Hammerstein’s A Grand Night for Singing, Ocean County College, College Drive, off Hooper Ave. 8 pm. Presented by Ocean County College Theatre Co. Cost includes friends and family dessert reception and a ticket to the show. Information: 732-255-0500 or www.ocean.edu – TOMS RIVER

November 13

Annual Craft/Vendor Fair, Gym, Southern Regional High School, Route 9. 9 am – 2 pm. Hosted by the Southern Regional Home and School Association. Information: 609-597-4579 or www.srsd.net – MANAHAWKIN

Proud to be a Piney! Pinelands Appreciation Day! Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. All Day. Discover why the country’s first national reserve is so unique, invoke your Piney Power and be proud of the Pinelands. Included with general admission. Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Getaway with a Smile, White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. Comedy Show. One Night Accommodations include Bottle of Blueberry Champagne, Welcome cheese & crackers basket, Dinner Buffet for 2 catered by Caterer Jacques, free transportation clubs in town, valet parking, Sunday morning breakfast. Additional night can be added. Information: 732-830-4242 or www.thewhitepearl.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

A Grand Night of Singing, Arts and Community Center, Ocean County College, College Drive, off Hooper Ave. 2 pm. Music by Richard Rodgers and lyrics by Oscar Hammerstein II. Directed by Arthur Waldman. Presented by Ocean County College Theatre Company. $ Information: 732-255-0500 or www.ocean.edu – TOMS RIVER

Monsignor Donovan High School Performing Arts Department presents: Rumors, Monsignor Donovan High School, 711 Hooper Avenue. 7:30 pm. Farcical play by Neil Simon. $ Information: 732-349-8801 or www.mondonhs.com – TOMS RIVER

November 14

Mrs. Gould’s Ninth Annual Holiday Social, The Mansion, Georgian Court University, 900 Lakewood Ave. 3 pm. Hear the saga of Edith and George Gould and their seven children while celebrating the holidays in the early 1900s. Cost includes performance and tea luncheon. Informaton: 732-987-2263 or www.georgian.edu – LAKEWOOD

Blithe Spirit by Noel Coward, Little Egg Harbor Community Center, W. Calabreeze Way. 2:30 pm. Play about spirits. $ Information: 609-442-7957 or www.littleeggtheatreco.org – LITTLE EGG HARBOR

General Hospital’s Jason Thompson & Kimberly McCullough, Uncle Vinnie’s Comedy Club, 518 Arnold Ave. 10 am – 2:30 pm. Soap opera stars’ meet and greet. $ Information: 732-899-3900 or www.unclevinniescomedyclub.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Monsignor Donovan High School Performing Arts Department presents: Rumors, Monsignor Donovan High School, 711 Hooper Avenue. 2 pm. Farcical play by Neil Simon. $ Information: 732-349-8801 or www.mondonhs.com – TOMS RIVER

November 16

Mrs. Gould’s Ninth Annual Holiday Social, The Mansion, Georgian Court University, 900 Lakewood Ave. 11:30 am. Hear the saga of Edith and George Gould and their seven children while celebrating the holidays in the early 1900s. Cost includes performance and tea luncheon. Informaton: 732-987-2263 or www.georgian.edu – LAKEWOOD

November 18

High School Musical, OceanFirst Theater, 1000 McKinley Ave. 6 pm. Disney Channel’s smash hit musical comes to life. $ Information: 609-489-8600 or www.njstac.com – MANAHAWKIN

November 19

High School Musical, OceanFirst Theater, 1000 McKinley Ave. 7:30 pm. Disney Channel’s smash hit musical comes to life. $ Information: 609-489-8600 or www.njstac.com – MANAHAWKIN

November 20

Jersey Shore Auction, Island Heights Fire Company, 13 Lake Ave. 9 am preview, 10 am auction. Multi-state auction. Information: 732-341-0575 or www.JerseyShoreAuctionService.com – ISLAND HEIGHTS

High School Musical, OceanFirst Theater, 1000 McKinley Ave. 2 pm & 7:30 pm. Disney Channel’s smash hit musical comes to life. $ Information: 609-489-8600 or www.njstac.com – MANAHAWKIN

Behind the Scenes Tours, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 11 am. Discover what goes on behind the scenes at their aquarium while you tour the building front top to bottom. Sneakers required. Pre-register. Ages 5 and up. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Afternoon of Bagpiping, Christ Episcopal Church 415 Washington St. 2 pm, doors open at 1 pm. Featuring Duncan Bell, professional piper John Bradley, National 2008 Youth champion Andrew Tice and Gordon Bell professional drummer. Food available for purchase. $ Information: www.pipesanddrumsofbarnegatbay.com – TOMS RIVER

November 21

Junior Biologists, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – Noon. Ages 11-15. See and smell the aquarium from an employee’s point of view. Preparing food and feeding some of their residents. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

November 26

Santa Arrives by Coast Guard, Boat Ramp, 10th St. 7 pm. Santa greeting, tree lighting and caroling. Information: 609-494-9196 or www.barnegatlight.org – BARNEGAT LIGHT

November 27

Santa Visits Viking Village, 19th & Bayview. 1 pm. Santa arrives by Fire Truck, take your own pictures with Santa. Information: 609-361-7008 or www.vikingvillage.net – BARNEGAT LIGHT

Comedy Show & Dinner, The White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. Buffet Dinner at 6:30 pm, Show at 8 pm. Comedy night with Davin from Comedy Central, Joe “Foot” Currie, Radio’s “Opie & Anthony Show”, and Rich Carucci, Cablevision’s “Steam Roller”. Cost includes buffet dinner and comedy show. Information: or 732-830-4242 www.thewhitepearlhotel.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

Education is vital to our children’s futures. It will pave the way for our children’s development for the rest of their lives. Naturally, every teacher plays an integral part in a child’s accomplishments, but I’ve always wondered how important a specific teacher is to his success.  He has excelled so much in second grade. I have always liked and respected each of his previous teachers, but he seems to be even more inspired this year. He enjoys reading more, he is learning at a higher level, and his curiosity has exploded. Is it that Dak is just more receptive to learning due to his age, or has this year’s teacher encouraged his growth?

There has to be a way that we can pay a higher salary to the teachers who make a greater difference in our children’s education. There has to be a better system than pay based on longevity rather than merit.  Being a teacher is a special calling, and not everyone has the intrinsic ability to lead our children.  Not everyone can be a teacher; it is a special person who possesses the skills needed for this profession.  Being a teacher is hard work; you have to have the same energy at 3:00 pm that you do at 8:00 am, and you have much to prepare after the children have gotten on the bus.  I believe that Dak’s current teacher possesses the enthusiasm it takes to motivate students, and it shows by his progress.

There also has to be a way to dismiss teachers who are not living up to the standard that our children deserve. If you have just one teacher who does a poor job, then your child will be that much farther behind the next year. To reward this teacher with a new class and a higher salary the following school year while his/her previous students are trying to play catch up just is just wrong.  Granted, there are very few poor teachers in an elementary school setting, but would you want your child to get the one hinders their growth?

I hope that all of your children have teachers who inspire them to learn.  When you attend your parent teacher-conference, be sure to thank them for being one of the most influential people in your children’s lives.  Again, I think that being a teacher is one of the most difficult, respectful, and imperative careers in the world.  Without teachers, we would not have doctors.  And I think the best teachers are underpaid for the gift they give to our society.  I would just like to see the best get rewarded while the few who do not inspire our children to search for a different career.

By Tricia Berwick

Break out the pumpkins, costumes, and spooky decorations as Halloween is here.  Even though the haunted holiday is October 31st, there are a number of activities to celebrate the season, all month long.

Here are a few ways to make some Halloween memories with your family this fall.

1.) Hersheypark, Pennsylvania—If there’s a free weekend on your family’s calendar, pencil in some time to enjoy “Halloween in Hershey” which is a town-wide celebration. Activities are scheduled for the weekends of October 15-17, October 22-24 and October 29-31.  During these weekends, the park will feature more than 50 rides – including roller coasters and family rides – re-named for the season. “Ghost Runner” (Storm Runner) and “Wicked Racer” (Lightning Racer) will offer exciting nighttime coaster rides, while all guests will enjoy “Bats in the Belfry” (Kissing Tower) and “Night Mares” (Carrousel).

Tickets prices are available for about half the price of the summer season’s admission, so this is a great opportunity to save a few dollars.  Tickets are $26.95 for regular admission (ages 9 to 54), and $17.95 for junior (ages 3 to or senior (ages 55 and older) admission. Children 2 and younger are free.

One of the best features of “Halloween in Hershey” is the chance for your little one to dress up in costume and go trick-or-treating.  Guests ages 12 and younger can enjoy Hershey’s Trick-or-Treat Adventure that starts at Hershey’s Chocolate World visitors center, adjacent to Hersheypark, and continues in “Treatville,” a Halloween town inside the park where Hershey’s candy treats are offered at every stop.  My family goes to Hersheypark every year in October and trick-or-treating in Treatville is by far, the girls’ favorite part of the trip.  What could be better than getting a free bag of delicious Hershey’s treats?  As my daughters make their way through Treatville, they usually pick out a few treats to eat along the way.  The smell of sweet chocolate is so overpowering throughout the park, they just can’t help themselves!

Hershey’s Chocolate World will also feature a few special events, such as Halloween Storytelling, “A Spooky Night at Chocolate World.” In addition, the Hershey’s Chocolate Making Tour Ride will be decorated with sweet Halloween surprises and the Create Your Own Candy Bar attraction will include Halloween decorations to customize the chocolate bars.  Halloween Bingo will also be offered for kids to enjoy.

If your family is looking for more Halloween fun, spend some time at The Hershey Story, The Museum on Chocolate Avenue, where (for an additional fee) guests can make a spooky pin and take it home in a decorative box shaped like a black cat, bat or pumpkin. Guests also can make a Halloween mask and pose against a vintage Hershey’s chocolate advertisement backdrop.

Finally, on Friday evenings, Hershey Gardens will be illuminated by a “pumpkin glow” from uniquely carved, illuminated pumpkins. Children ages 12 and younger are invited to come in costume and collect Hershey’s candy treats.

Hersheypark in the Dark is open from 4 to 10 p.m. on Fridays, 2 to 10 p.m. on Saturdays, and 2 to 9 p.m. on Sundays For additional information, visitwww.HalloweeninHershey.com or call 1-800-HERSHEY (1-800-437-7439).

2.) Local Recreation departments—Many towns host special Halloween parties or activities for children.  For example, in Howell Township, on October 27, bring the kids out for a night of fun and goodies at the “Halloween Spooktacular” which will be held at Oak Glen Park.  There will be many activities for the kiddies including: crafts, pumpkin painting, games, and treats.

3.) Check out a pumpkin patch—Halloween is celebrated throughout the month of October at A. Casola Farms in Holmdel.  “Fall Fest” will feature many festivities and fun for the whole family.  There are events every day and in the evenings, also.  Your family can take a hayride to a haunted greenhouse, have some fun in a corn maze, pick pumpkins, watch a cowboy show or spend some time with the animals in the petting zoo.  A. Casola Farms is open seven days a week through October 31st.  On weekdays, the farm is open from 9am to 6pm and offers pumpkin picking, hayrides, a petting zoo, and pony rides.  There is also a Halloween Shop, bakery and light food available.  On weekends, all of the traditional Halloween activities will be available plus a corn maze, face painting, Wild West Show and extensive food items including Amish baked goods.  The night time haunted hayrides will be every Friday, Saturday and Sunday 7 p.m to 10 p.m. October 2nd through October 31st.  And, if you’re in the mood for a good scare, try the Jersey Devil Hunt every Friday, Saturday and Sunday 7 p.m. to 10 p.m. October 2nd through October 31st.

4.) Celebrate the Season at Allaire—The Historic Village at Allaire which is located at Allaire State Park, celebrates Halloween in a big way.  There will be a number of activities including: craft markets, festivals, haunted hayrides, concerts and classic Halloween events, such as “The Legend of Sleepy Hollow with Neil Hartley.”  Many of their events sell out quickly, so it’s advisable to buy tickets early for these popular seasonal activities.  For more information about these events and others, check out their website at www.allairevillage.org.

There are many outdoor Halloween events to enjoy this fall, but if your family is looking for something a little more low-key, get creative and have fun inside.  One idea is to bake pumpkin and bat-shaped cookies for a few special treats.  Then, rent the classic holiday special, “It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown” for family movie night.  Or, ask some of your child’s friends to come over for a costume party.  Be sure to have lots of holiday snacks and crafts for the kids to enjoy, such as decorating a pumpkin or bobbing for apples.

So, get your costume ready, carve a scary pumpkin for your front porch, decorate the house with witches and cobwebs, and make some holiday plans.   Halloween 2010 is here!

October 6

Celebrate Jersey Fresh Fruits: Pumpkins, Toms River Farmers Market, Huddy Park, on Water Street. 11 am – 5 pm. Rain or shine. 1st Wednesday of each month from June 9 – October 27. Enter to win a basket of Jersey Fresh produce! Farmers & vendors will feature the fruit of the month. Demonstrations & sampling by Downtown restaurants and businesses. Information: 732-341-8738 or www.downtowntomsriver.com – TOMS RIVER

October 8

9th Annual Columbus Day Parade and Italian Street Festival, Grant Avenue from Central Ave. to Boardwalk. 4 pm – 10 pm. Weekend of Italian specialties, arts and crafts, entertainment. Parade will be on Sunday at 1 pm with bands, floats, mummers and surprises on the Boulevard from J Street to Sampson Ave. Information: 800-732-7467 or www.seasideheightstourism.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

October 12

Toddler Make and Take, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 10:30 am. Make marine life crafts, listen to a story, and learn about some of their animals. This workshop is for children ages 3-5 years old with an adult. Pre-register. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

October 15th & 16th

October 22nd & 23th

Jenkinson’s Ascareium

“The Sharks of Shipwreck Cove”

6:00PM to 8:00PM

Arrrgh Mateys! A band of pirates have returned to the aquarium but their

treasure is guarded by sharks!  Come join the crew for some halloween        fun for all ages!

$6.00 per person (does not include aquariums daytime admission)

October 16

Lighthouse Challenge of New Jersey, Along the coast from Atlantic Ocean, to Delaware Bay and Delaware River. Directions and hours on web page. Open day and night at Absecon, Barnegat, Cape May, Sandy Hook, Tinicum and Tuckerton Seaport Lighthouses. Day only at East Point, Finns Point, Hereford Inlet, Ludlam’s Beach, Navasink/Twin Lights, and Sea Girt, and Barnegat Light Historical Museum, Cape May County Museum, and Tatham Life Saving Station. Souvenir pamphlet to be stamped at each site is $1. Information: www.njlhs.org – BARNEGAT/TUCKERTON

October 16

Basketry – Bread Basket Workshop, Meadowedge Park 550 E. Bay Ave. 10 am – 12 pm. Create your very own bread basket to take home and enjoy. Expert basket weaver Pola Galie will provide you with the knowledge and materials for this program. $5 fee for materials and appropriate for ages 9yrs and up. Limited space. Code #101610 Information: 609-698-0080 ext. 130 or www.ci.barnegat.nj.us/recreation/recreationoffice.html – BARNEGET

5th Annual Wingstock Festival, FirstEnergy Park, Cedar Bridge & New Hampshire Aves. 2 pm. Kansas will headline with additional acts performing. All day festival featuring a wing cook-off and vendor village, classic bike and car show tailgate party $1 from tickets will be donated to an Ocean County children’s cancer organization, Ocean of Love. Presented by 105.7 The Hawk and the Lakewood BlueClaws. $ Information: 732-901-7000 or www.blueclaws.com – LAKEWOOD

Behind the Scenes Tours, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 11 am. Discover what goes on behind the scenes at their aquarium while you tour the building front top to bottom. Sneakers required. Pre-register. Ages 5 and up. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com

- POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Toms River Pirate Festival, Christ Episcopal Church 415 Washington St. 9 am – 5 pm. Three pirate reenacting groups featuring Valhalla’s Pirates, Jack Sparrow, Band on the Rum and Pirates for Sail play music all day. Sword fights, gun duels, cannons, and more. Come dressed as a pirate or pirate wentch for a costume judging. $ 3 under free. Information: www.tomsriverpiratefestival.com

- TOMS RIVER

53rd Annual Show of the Ocean County Chapter: “Guys ‘N Gals in Harmony,” Toms River High School North, 1245 Old Freehold Rd. 3 pm. Featuring the “Oceanaires,” the Ocean County Men’s Champion Chorus and the “Jersey Harmony Chorus.” $ Information: 732-240-2571 – TOMS RIVER

October 17

Seaside Half Marathon and 5k Race, Spicy’s, Sumner Ave. & Boardwalk. 10 am. Flat and fast, out and back on the boardwalk and into Island Beach State Park. Ocean and park views. $ Information: 732-240-0198 or www.oceanrunningclub.org/

- SEASIDE HEIGHTS

October 20

Ocean County College Midweek Jazz Series: Frank Vignola Trio, Mancini Hall, Ocean County Library, 101 Washington Street. 8 pm $ Information: 732-255-0500 or www.ocean.edu – TOMS RIVER

October 22,23

Haunted Seaport, Tuckerton Seaport, 120 W. Main St., Rt. 9. 6 pm – 9 pm. Pirates and sea captains long lost at sea, stroll the boardwalk for a night of screams. Hayrides, phragmites maze, food, refreshments and a non-scary pumpkin patch for the little ones. Fun for the whole family! Cost included with admission. Information: 609-296-8868 or www.tuckertonseaport.org – TUCKERTON

October 23

New York Yankees Greg Nettles Meet & Greet, Uncle Vinnie’s Comedy Club, 518 Arnold Ave. 11 am. Meet & greet, photo ops, Q & A session, autograph signing. $ Information: 732-899-3900 or www.unclevinniescomedyclub.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

October 27

Free Demomstation, Ocean County Artists Guild, Ocean and Chestnut Avenues. 7 pm – 9 pm. Open to the Public. Light refreshments. Information: 732-270-3111 or www.ocartistsguild.org

- ISLAND HEIGHTS

October 29

Meadowedge Family Spooky Campfire, Meadowedge Park 550 E. Bay Ave. 7 pm – 9 pm. Bring the family for spooky fun and ghost stories around the campfire. Tour the park on a night time hayride with the Barnegat Fire Company. Hot cider & snack will be provide along with other scary surprises. Feel free to dress in your Halloween costume. No fee and registration is required. Code #102910. Information: 609-698-0080 ext. 130 or www.ci.barnegat.nj.us/recreation/recreationoffice.html – BARNEGET

Haunted Halloween: A Party to Die For, The Engleside Inn, 30 Engleside Avenue. 6 pm. Murder mystery dinner show. Information: 609-492-9477 or www.surflight.org – BEACH HAVEN

October 30

Getaway with a Smile, White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. Comedy Show. One Night Accommodations include Bottle of Blueberry Champagne, Welcome cheese & crackers basket, Dinner Buffet for 2 catered by Caterer Jacques, free transportation clubs in town, valet parking, Sunday morning breakfast. Additional night can be added. Information: 732-830-4242 or www.thewhitepearl.com

- SEASIDE HEIGHTS

Toms River Fire Company #1 Halloween Parade, Main & Washington St. 7 pm. Over 100,000 spectators, thousands of participants & floats. Information: 732-558-9216 or www.tomsriverhalloweenparade.com/ – TOMS RIVER

Breakwater Beach

Casino Pier, Seaside Heights, NJ

732-793-6488

Cenral Shore region

Starting with their new Toddler Area, it is ideal for the smallest member of any family. With safe, soft play throughout, your little one will slide and have a splashtacular good time.

They have something for everyone. Their Family Play Section is a totally interactive multi-level area for everyone from 3 to 103. With their water slides you will find a different experience with each twist and turn. Also, with hundreds of interactive play elements and dancing fountains you will not stay dry for long. All while having fun with your family and creating life long memories. Watch Out for the Tipping Troller, you may get thousands of gallons of water dumped on you (hopefully there won’t be any sharks). If after playing you are feeling a little chilly, jump into one of 2 new Hot Springs that will easily fit 20 people each.

For the brave at heart, test their Zero – Gravity Racer. This 6 Lane Racing Slide lets you compete against others as you plummet on a mat to the finish line. Forget relaxing in our LazyCrazy River … with cannons being shot off, bubbles coming from every direction and depth charges shooting you with water; you will never know what will be around the next curve. If you do want to relax, you can recline in one of our many lounge chairs throughout the park. Our other amenities include, bathrooms, lockers, changing areas, food
concession, and a gift shop for all your needs. As always, trained lifeguards are on duty to safely monitor all water activities.

This is only the beginning of a multi-year renovation to this new water park. Next year even more and exciting attractions will be added to what will be “The Best Water Park, On The Jersey Shore”

What’s New

Enjoy your day in your own private cabana where you can sit, relax, and take in the sun! Each cabana features 2 chaise lounge chairs, 2 beach-style chairs, 4 large bottles of water, a small locker rental, as well as food & beverage service right to you.

Cabanas are available for rent on a first come/first serve basis. Because of demand, we encourage advance reservations.

2010 Cabana Pricing

Cabana (all day) = $85 plus tax
Cabana (3 hour) = $60 plus tax

Please note that waterpark admission is NOT included with Cabana Rental. Admission into the waterpark is a separate charge. If you rent a cabana for the day, your admission wristbands must be valid for the entire day. Food, drink and gratuities are not included in cabana rental fee.

CoCo Key

Indoor Water Park

Mt. Laurel Marriott, 915 Route 73, Mount Laurel NJ

856-234-7300

Southern NJ

CoCo Key Water Resort, New Jersey’s ultimate indoor water park is located at the Mt. Laurel Marriott. CoCo Key Water Resort is an indoor water park. They have a  relaxing adventure river to  an incredible 40-foot slides, interactive play area, indoor/outdoor spa, state of the art arcade ! Wouldn’t it be great to be able to get away to the tropical islands any time you want without having to leave New Jersey? Now you can, at CoCo Key Water Resort, New Jersey’s Newest & Largest Indoor Water Resort.  CoCo Key combines the relaxation and enchantment of the islands with the wild excitement of a 55,000-sq. ft. indoor water park. Every day is a bright, sunny 84 degrees at CoCo Key, featuring a selection of signature attractions including:

CoCo Key Water Resort is seconds away from exit 4 of the NJ Turnpike, just 12 miles outside Philadelphia and minutes away from Adventure Aquarium and Cherry Hill Mall.

Hurricane Harbor

537 Monmouth Rd, Route 537, Jackson, NJ
732-928-1821

Central NJ

Six Flags Hurricane Harbor is conveniently located in Jackson, New Jersey.

Soak up the sun at the one of America’s best water parks — Six Flags Hurricane Harbor! This tropical island paradise offers a million-gallon wave pool, one of the world’s longest lazy rivers, nearly 20 water slides and a massive water playground for wet and wild fun!

What’s New

Tot Tornado whirlwind.  The Tornado, an enormous funnel-shaped water attraction, will offer guests the ultimate in tubing thrills all summer long when it opens May 29.

This exciting new water ride will blast thrill seekers down a 135-foot long vortex tunnel and into a 60-foot wide funnel.  During the journey, guests will blast into the eye of the storm, swishing from side to side by more than 5,000 gallons of water before being released into a calm and refreshing catch pool. Families can enjoy Tornado together in specially-designed, cloverleaf-shaped tubes that seat four.  Those not brave enough to take on this new thrilling adventure can ride out the storm from the observation platform which will feature a spectacular view of all the action.  The Tornado will touch down between the water park’s tube slides “Bada Bing, Bada Bang, Bada Boom!” and the speed slide complex “Jurahnimo, Cannonball & Wahini Falls.”

The Tornado will join a host of thrilling Hurricane Harbor rides and attractions including an enormous half million gallon wave pool, one of the country’s longest “lazy rivers,” a massive, two-story family water playground and nearly 20 high-speed thrill slides.

“We are excited to add a new dimension of thrills to our water park,” said Mark Kane, park president of Six Flags Great Adventure, Wild Safari and Hurricane Harbor.  “The Tornado’s innovative shape and enormous size will allow families and friends to experience the ultimate in non-traditional tubing, together.”

Sahara Sams

Indoor Water Park

535 N. Route 73, West Berlin, NJ

856-767-7580

Southern NJ

Imagine traversing a cargo rope obstacle course suspended over a rain forest lagoon, splashing your way through a 410 foot adventure river ride, having 1,000 gallons of water unexpectedly rain down from above, navigating through a wild maze of twisting and turning rapids with your family. Imagine experiencing it all indoors.
Welcome to Sahara Sam’s Oasis Indoor Water Park — New Jersey’s only freestanding Indoor Water Park and state of art arcade.

Sahara Sam’s is an innovative entertainment and activity experience that is a premier family attraction located in southern New Jersey just minutes from Philadelphia and accessible by major highways and bridges in New Jersey and the Philadelphia region. The $23 million venue offers nearly 58,000 square feet of water rides, interactive games, dining, party rooms and much more. Located in West Berlin NJ on a 13-acre parcel along Route 73, Sahara Sam’s represents the next step in providing affordable familydestination fun.

Sahara Sam’s Oasis Indoor Water Park features a wide array of exhilarating, state-of-the-art water rides and attractions, interactive games, and great ticket and party packages.

RETRACTABLE ROOF: One of the most unique aspects of Sahara Sam’s is its one-of-a-kind retractable roof, which opens up to let the outdoors in on sunny days.

TEMPERATURE CONTROL: Sahara Sam’s remains a warm 84 degrees of low humidity weather all year long thanks to a state-of-the-art temperature control system.

Pirates Cove- Land Of Make Believe

354 Great Meadows Road – Rt. 611, Hope, NJ
908-459-9000

Northwest NJ

For 56 years, the Land of Make Believe has been entertaining families from the tri-state area. Family favorites include our million dollar Action River Ride, a Roller Coaster, Buccaneer Pirate & Wading Pool, Tilt-A-Whirl, Civil War Locomotive, Hayride, Old McDonald’s Farm, Middle-Earth Theater, “Black Hole” #1 Rated Waterslide, Grand Carousel, Sidewinder, Pirates Fort, Pirates Cannonball, the Brand New Pirate’s Plunge, Jump Around Frog and Lots, Lots More.

As New Jersey’s Premiere Family Amusement & WaterPark, the Land of Make Believe features Safe and Wholesome recreation, entertainment and activities for real families like yours. You’ll find Exciting Rides, Shows, Attractions, Games, WaterPark, and Picnic Area on over 30 acres. The Land of Make Believe and Pirate’s Cove has been designed exclusively for an action-packed day of special family fun for parents and their children.

The Land of Make Believe is located in northwest New Jersey, 60 miles west of New York City, and 10 miles east of the Delaware River just off Route 80, exit 12. Nestled in the foothills of the famous Jenny Jump Mountains and State Park, the Land of Make Believe is a landmark in the historic town of Hope. Only one hour from the Lincoln Tunnel or George Washington Bridge, 90 minutes from Philadelphia or Scranton, PA.

Free Parking, Free Picnic Area and Free Water Park included with paid admission!

What’s New

Pirate’s Plunge,

Escape the pirates in this adventurous body slide. 42″ minimum height requirement to ride alone. Children under 36″ must ride w/adult.

New Jersey’s First Indoor Waterpark!

Splash Zone

3500 Boardwalk, Wildwood NJ

609-729-5600

Southern NJ

Mixing adrenaline-pumping thrills with family-style fun is our specialty. With more than 16 attractions, Splash Zone Water Park offers a variety of experiences for everyone. Adventure seekers can find super soaking thrills riding the white water rapids of The Beast of The East, the only 6-person raft ride on the east coast. Or roar through total darkness on The Midnight Run, a twisting, turning enclosed tube slide. Speed fans will enjoy testing their skills while soaring down the Speed Dominator. Giggle Bay offers an interactive water playground featuring our famous 1000-gallon bucket of water that crashes down, drenching everyone in its path. And the smallest water park fans can splash in Zoe Zone, a tiny tykes play area featuring a shallow pool of water, fountains, and soft play equipment. Everyone in the family can enjoy slides, body flumes, water blasters, or a meandering ride through the park on an inner tube in Adventure River. And when you’re not getting drenched in the water, Splash Zone offers sunbathing areas, a picnic facility and mouthwatering food at the Zone GrillFree Parking!

Mountain Creek

200 Route 94, Vernon, NJ

973-864-8444

Northern NJ

Mountain Creek Water Park in Northern NJ .The Park offers a variety of water-based activities for all ages and all swim levels.  Height restrictions are posted for all attractions and enforced.  Minors (anyone under the age of 18) must be accompanied by a parent or adult guardian. The parent/guardian is solely responsible for supervision of their minors. The park does not assume any responsibility or liability for unattended minors. The park cannot accept any responsibility for unattended minors. Children are the responsibility of the parent or guardian.

Only you know your own, your child’s, or anyone you are supervising level of swimming skills.  We strongly recommend all Guests under 48″ or who are weak or non-swimmers wear Coast Guard approved lifejackets where appropriate. In the wave pool, all guests under 48″ are REQUIRED to wear a lifejacket and be accompanied by an adult.  We insist that parents keep their children within arms reach for their close supervision on all water activities. Life Jackets are available Free Of Charge at Guest Information located inside the park.  When in doubt, wear a life jacket!

What’s New

Mountain Creek has a whole new twist on coming down the mountain. Introducing the Alpine Pipeline, a high-flying, two person Alpine express that goes from daylight to darkness in the blink of an eye. Come ride the new Alpine Pipeline and discover for yourself the unparalleled sensation of screamin’ down the mountain like a comet through a carwash.  It’s definitely NOT for wimps.

Keansburg Runaway Rapids

275 Beachway Ave, Keansburg, NJ
732-495-1400 Right across the street and just a few steps from The Keansburg Amusement Park is Runaway Rapids Water Park. You can purchase a two park pass so you can go to the waterpark or Amusement Park all day. Runaway Rapids has dozens of rides and interactive attractions. There is also a very nice sunbathing area surrounding the play pool areas. The park has been recently cleaned up a bit and some all  new features have been added to the waterpark.

Raging Waters-Morey’s piers

Morey’s Piers, 3501 Boardwalk, Wildwood NJ

609-522-3900

Southern NJ

Enjoy the thrills at Raging Waters Waterpark in Mariner’s Landing Amusement Pier located on Schellenger Ave. in Wildwood, NJ.  Morey’s Piers original beachfront waterpark offers the thrills and the fun things to do that you and your family have come to love on your family beach vacation.  Attractions include:

• Waterpark rides and waterpark attractions for all ages
• Two interactive children’s play areas
• Picnic facility for group outings
• Wreckers beach grille
• Raging Waters waterpark locker shop
• Central location – a great pier!

Ocean Oasis – Morey’s piers

Morey’s Piers, 3501 Boardwalk, Wildwood NJ

609-522-3900

Southern NJ

Ocean front water park. Kids of all ages will love Bonsai Beach, a 10,000 square foot interactive water play area. Several fun water slides the older kids will enjoy, also. While the kids enjoy the great rides, mom and dad can relax in the all new resort-themed atmosphere, which features include family cabanas and huts, hammocks, massage therapy, and plenty more! Beach Grille and Oasis Cafe are open all day to satisfy the entire family.

Clementon Splash World

114 Berlin Road, Clementon, NJ

856-783-0263

Central NJ

Cool off with over 13,000 square feet of splashing, sliding, drenching, beat-the-heat fun. This Polynesian-themed adventure includes 8 slides, 10 different play platforms and more than 125 sprays, jets, bubbles, streams, squirts, wheels and waterfalls. And high atop the 50-foot tall structure sits the big Kahuna himself—with a giant water bucket that dumps more than 422 gallons of water on the unsuspecting islanders below. Children under 6 years of age must have adult supervision. Some slides have a minimum of 36 inches, others have a minimum of 40 inches.

Thundering Surf Waterpark

8th Street & Bay Ave. Beach Haven (LBI), NJ

609-492-0869

Central Shore Region

Thundering Surf Water Park is definitely the place to spend a few hours with the entire family! We are located in Beach Haven on Long Beach Island, NJ. We have something for all ages! Toddlers can play in our BRAND NEW Kiddie Play Area called “Cowabunga Beach”. This area is designed specifically for ages 9 months to 5 years old. Our new “Dancing Fountains” are something everyone will love! Take some great pictures of your children trying to catch the fountains as they jump and dance around the kiddie area! Our 6 Giant Waterslides are designed for single and double tubes. Parents are able to slide together with a child! Experience our one-of-a-kind “Lazy Crazy River!” While the river is Lazy, cruise around with the current and relax. But don’t get too cozy…. when the river turns “Crazy”… be prepared as a small wave rolls through the river because you’re going to get wet! Along the river, parents and children can interact with others that are outside of the river with slap targets and super soaker water guns. So don’t think that just because you are standing on the interactive bridge that you are going to stay dry! And watch out for the “Giant Tipping Bucket” as you cruise around the river and under the bridge!

Come have some fun…. or just relax and sunbathe on our SunDeck located inside the waterpark so you are never too far from you children!

PLEASE  POST YOUR COMMENTS ABOUT ANY OF THESE FAMILY- FRIENDLY WATER PARKS. WE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR OPINIONS,TIPS AND INSIGHTS.

You know the saying, “I scream, you scream, we all scream for Ice Cream!”  Well, depending on what you order at The Music Man Singing Ice Cream Shoppe, in Lavallette, you may find yourself yelling, “I want some Hot Fudge baby this evening, and I need some Hot Fudge baby tonight!”  Take your family to The Music Man and enjoy some good old-fashioned ice cream with a twist!  The Music Man provides a friendly and warm atmosphere for the young and old, serving up vaudeville style performances and ice cream sundaes to your liking.

“Every show performed here is different and is basically done on the fly,” explained The Music Man owner Aggie Roberts. “You could come here seven nights a week and see something different each time you come, because each show features a different performer and group performances.”  One thing that is certain to stay the same, however, is the enthusiasm of the cast and crew, as well as the quality time you will spend with your family.

You will be treated to a menu featuring everything from “naked” ice cream in over fifteen flavors to delicious over-the-top sundaes, along with a nightly performance of Broadway and upbeat American tunes sung by performers who dance and sing their way around the entire shop.  You may even find them singing directly to you and incorporating you into their show!  “It’s a family entertaining experience that appeals to all ages,” says Aggie’s wife, Josephine.

Aside from the nightly Broadway Cabaret show, which begins every night this summer at 6pm, The Music Man performs Theme Shows are on Thursdays and Fridays.  On Thursdays you can make a reservation for “Hannah Banana” This show finds the Music Man Cast auditioning for the title, it’s Hannah Montana meets American Idol.  Fridays at 5pm guests can make a reservation for The GLEEful “Ice Cream Musical,” featuring songs that have been presented on the ever popular TV Show GLEE.

“Apart from our Broadway Cabaret and Theme Shows we have our Children’s Fairy Tale Series,” added Aggie.  “At 4pm Monday through Wednesday, we offer a Children’s Performance where each child is treated to an afternoon snack of one scoop of ice cream as our cast members either get into character as Pirates and Princesses, or bring alive some of their favorite storybooks.” Aggie explained.  On Mondays, bring your little one dressed up as his or her favorite Pirate, Princess or Super Hero as the cast and crew themselves get all dressed up along with them.  On Tuesdays a special Puppet Theater performance of The Little Mermaid is offered as well as a special guest appearance from The Music Man’s mascot “FRED”, which stands for Feel Good Every Day! Wednesdays, your child can experience one of their favorite storybooks come alive as the cast visually tells stories such as Beauty and the Beast, The Wizard of Oz, and Cinderella, and turns into character right in front of their eyes

Going into their 8th season, and serving over 40,000 patrons in the summer of 2009 is something that owners Aggie & Josephine are very proud of.  “My wife actually purchased this very building [the shop’s location] for my birthday present in 2003.  I was working in corporate America at the time, but had the desire to combine my love and experience in performing arts along with my wife’s experience as a digital artist and make us a career from that,” Aggie explained. Aggie took his experiences of working at Princeton’s McCarter Theatre’s Outreach Department, and also as a dessert theater performer in Hopewell, NJ, along with his educational background in Theater and Education, and the concept of “The Music Man” was born.  “From the start, Josephine and I knew this would not fail.  We had our hearts in it, and it empowered us as a couple to try something new.  This summer is our 6th and best season yet, and I have never once looked back on our decision” Aggie added.

The cast and crew have also completely bought into the concept and truly love what they do. They are the heart and soul of the ice cream shop, doing everything from performing daily to hundreds of patrons, to working hard at their individual production positions.  “We provide our cast with a complete educational program.  Not only do they perform each and every day, but they each hold a different production position, which gives them a well-rounded summer learning experience.  Some of the positions include company manager and box office manager.”  Aggie added that he and his wife have even set up housing for the cast for the entire summer, and their program has attracted performers from all over the country.

New to their menu this year is the Improv Comedy Bunch, new live show designed to make you laugh a lot!  If you like the show “Whose Line is it Anyway?” then please come out and support this new adventure at The Music Man. The Improv Comedy Bunch is a reservation show be sure to call ahead. Tickets are $8 and include a “bottomless” coffee cup.  Ice Cream and other treats are available at an additional price. Gratuity not included.   Our Morning Café opens at 7am when the phone starts ringing as our guest start planning their day.  And once the summer is over, be sure to ask about The Music Man’s education outreach program. You can have The Music Man and it’s cast brought right to your child’s school this winter to perform character education and leadership programs.  For further information and questions visit, www.njmusicman.com <http://www.njmusicman.com>  or call 732-854-2779.  The Music Man is located at 2305 Grand Central Ave (Route 35 North) Lavallette, NJ 08735

By Tricia Berwick

Eating cool, drippy ice pops on the patio.  Long walks through the neighborhood after dinner.  Trips to the park or to the beach.   Frolicking in the backyard grass sans shoes.   In summertime, the weather is warm and the sun sets later which gives families a lot of time to spend together outdoors.  Hectic school schedules and activities are also on hiatus.  This allows for more freedom to play and chances to strengthen those family bonds.   Whether you’re grilling up burgers on the grill or heading out to play in the surf, summer is a great time for making memories and establishing traditions.

Some families look forward to the start of summer so much, they have a yearly ritual to ring in the beginning of the three-month vacation from homework and soccer practices.

Katie Zebick of Brick loves the tradition her sister has started with her family.  She thinks it’s such a clever idea, that she may even use it with her own brood.

“After my sister prepares breakfast on the last morning of school, she jumps into the pool with her clothes on,” says Zebick who is a mother of three.  “It is her way of celebrating the end of the school year.  Her kids get a kick out of it and think it’s a fun way to start off summer.”

After the backpacks and soccer cleats are put away, families switch gears for a more relaxed, slower pace.  They also look forward to visiting different places and relatives or participating in activities that they may not have had time for during the academic year.  For families living at the Jersey Shore there are numerous places to go to enjoy the best of what summer has to offer.

The Burns family of Point Pleasant feels very fortunate to live in this area of the country.

“We do not travel much in the summer because we just love being at the Jersey Shore,” says Nancy Burns.  “A perfect summer day for our family would be to wake up and have breakfast together, get an early start to the beach and spend the day there.  The boys love the water and boogie boarding!  After returning home for showers and dinner, we usually walk to Hoffman’s Ice Cream in Point Pleasant.”

The Woit family, also of Point Pleasant loves to take in the sights and sounds on the boardwalk.

“We love to eat an early dinner at home and then go up to the boardwalk,” says Woit.  “The kids love to ride the rides and play with their toys in the sand.  It tuckers them out, and then we can put them to bed for a restful night of sleep.  You can also picnic there and watch movies on selected nights.  We love the summer!”

While it’s always nice to pop the kids in the car and head off to a different destination, sometimes the best memories are made right at home.

The Trench family of Keyport, recently traded in their huge gas grill for an old-fashioned charcoal kind.   The family enjoys standing around the fire and roasting marshmallows together.  The kids also love being in the backyard and having some water fun.

“We don’t have a pool, so I love turning on the sprinkler and letting them run around enjoying the simplicity of it all,” says Trench, who also likes to attend fairs and go to the boardwalk during the summer months.  “I also have a small plastic pool and I sit back while they splash around in it.  They always end up making mud pies.”

If your budget is tight and you can’t afford to travel, just use your imagination to create fun activities for your children in the backyard.  On a hot and humid day, they might like to cool off with a family squirt gun battle.  Maybe your kids want to try camping, but you’re not sure if they are up for the full experience in the woods.  How about setting up a play tent and lanterns in the backyard and tell them ghost stories inside their very own tents?  Since the school year is always jam-packed with things to do, slow down the pace and have a family game night and a family movie night each week during the summer.  Let the kids choose what they would like, including snacks for both gatherings.  Sidewalk chalk is also an inexpensive creative outlet which can be used on your patio or driveway.

Wherever you decide to go or whatever you do at home, just remember to have fun with your kids.  Enjoy this break from packing lunches, laying out school clothes, and working on last-minute projects.  Enjoy an ice cream, let the kids stay up a little later, watch some fireworks.  And remember to share a giggle and a smile with your children.  September will be here soon enough!