Your children have graduated from toddlerhood and are now of the age to take either dance or gymnastics lessons.  Of course, they seem very excited to wear pretty pink tutus and form-fitting leotards, but how do you know for sure that these activities will benefit your kids?   Enrolling in one of these schools is a huge commitment of your time as weekly classes are usually required from September through June.  And, it has to be financially feasible for your family since all schools require registration fees, monthly payments, and additional costs for shows or recitals.  However, if your child has a sincere interest in one of these activities and you can manage the money and get your child there every week, area parents and school directors say signing up for dance or gymnastics lessons is worth every penny and the time spent in the car shuttling the kids to and from lessons.

Chrissy Starr, owner of Shore Ballet in Toms River, says studying ballet can provide your children with an invaluable experience.

“All kids gain from the arts,” says Starr.  “It teaches them discipline and exposes them to music.  Everyone is fitness consciousness these days.  The kids are engaging in an activity and not just watching television.”

Brick mother Penny Chandler has all of her daughters involved in either dance or gymnastics lessons.  She strongly believes that these activities teach the girls worthwhile lessons about the importance of exercise and proper nutrition, too.

“All four of my girls are in dance classes,” says Chandler.   “One daughter is on a dance competition team, one takes ballet, and the twins take ballet, tap, jazz and hip hop.   My twins are on the north elite pre-team for USAG at Twisters in Lakewood and my three-year-old takes recreational classes once a week there, too.  These activities really give the girls a great sense of self awareness and a sense of self discipline.  Plus, they talk about healthy eating during their gymnastics work outs.  I’ll never forget the day when my one daughter said, ‘Mommy no more chicken nuggets!  Only baked chicken and vegetables!’  I was very surprised to hear her say this but very happy and pleased that this kind of information was being conveyed to my girls.  The mental concentration is also another way they benefit.  One daughter said to me, “Mom I have to really be careful not to fall off the balance beam.”

Howell mother of two, Colleen Murath decided to enroll her daughter in gymnastics lessons when she was three-years-old.   For the past two years, her daughter has thoroughly enjoyed all of her classes.

“I wanted my daughter to do an activity and get some exercise while also learning some new skills and building her confidence, too,” says Murath.  “Taking gymnastics is a great opportunity for her to meet other girls, so I really appreciate the social aspect of taking gymnastics classes, as well.”

Murath particularly enjoyed the end-of-the-year exhibition which showcased the skills the girls learned during the program.

“I couldn’t get over how much they learned throughout the year,” says Murath.  “All of a sudden, she was flipping over a parallel bar and I didn’t even know she could do that.”

If you feel that your child is ready for this type of challenge, it’s important to research and choose a facility to meet the needs of your individual child.   Therefore, it’s important to choose a school that will successfully educate your child in a specific discipline, but also keep them happy and safe.  When beginning a search, there are a few important factors to consider.

First, spend a lot of time asking questions about the backgrounds of the teaching staff.   Don’t hesitate to meet with the director and ask to see the credentials and the certifications of the teaching staff.  It’s also wise to see if it is clean and safe and make sure the curriculum being offered is something that matches the interests and the abilities your child.

Another factor to consider is class size.   Make sure the classes are not too large so your child doesn’t feel lost in the shuffle.  Be sure to ask about the teacher-student ratio, as well.  Also, chances are your child may get sick at least once during the class, so it’s important to find out if make up classes are offered.

Okay, so you signed your child up for the program, you paid your money and your child already took a few classes.  At first, she couldn’t wait to tell you all of the details about the steps she just learned and the new friends in her class.  But, then she breaks the news to you that she doesn’t want to go anymore.  What now?

Make sure to give your child at least a few months to get acclimated to this new activity.  Talk to her about whatever fears she may have and discuss her concerns with the teaching staff, also.  However, if after a few months, she still does not have any interest in attending the lessons, it may be a good idea to find another activity.

So, if your child seems interested in flipping over bars and doing forward rolls, then maybe gymnastics school is the way to channel her after-school energy.   Or perhaps your child wants to become a real ballerina.  If you’re hesitant about whether or not to sign on the dotted line, don’t be because many children enjoy numerous positive benefits from one of these activities.

Before selecting a program, research the facility online, ask for referrals from other parents and drop in to visit a ballet school or gym without an appointment to see how their classes are run.  They should have a friendly, open-door policy and be able to answer all of your questions in person.  Ask about the instructors, the class sizes, and the cleanliness of the school.  Also ask your child to come with you.  If he or she is welcomed by the staff and feels immediately comfortable, then you just may have found the right place.

Thinking of a fun affordable activity for your child this fall? Then you should consider the Shore Ballet School. Approaching their 34th season, the most recommended dance school in the Toms River area is dedicated to the highest quality of instruction. With a great curriculum arranged specifically for boys and girls of every age group, their programs are rated #1 by parents and students alike.

This season Shore Ballet will be offering a variety of styles such as Tap, Lyrical, Broadway, Hip Hop and Tumbling. In all classes teachers focus on technique, choreography and having fun. Parents love their stellar curriculum, convenient class schedules and reasonable prices. Shore Ballet is known as a non-competitive school. That means, students won’t be asked to sign up for extra practice workshops or dance competitions. At Shore Ballet all the magic happens each week right at the studio!

Chrissy Starr is the owner/director of the school and she is dedicated to making sure the school is a positive place. She is a certified dance instructor and her teacher training began in London, England where she graduated from the prestigious Royal Ballet School.  It was there that she completed a professional dance teacher’s training program that concentrated on the fundamental teaching of classical dance. Upon retuning to the U.S. she continued her studies obtaining more teaching certifications while still performing in ballets and theater productions. Now as a respected member of the Royal Academy of Dance for more than 18 years, Ms. Starr holds the R.A.D. teaching certificate with Distinction. She is also a long time member of the American Academy of Ballet and holds certifications from the Imperial Society of Teachers of Dancing.

Shore Ballet is just minutes off Rt. 37 E. in Toms River near Vaughn and West End Avenues. The building was once St. Philip’s Episcopal Church built in 1880, and is listed on the State and National Register of Historic places. Still containing the seven original stained glass windows, the dance room itself is a spacious 56×30 feet with chestnut paneling and a small stage that once served as an alter. The dance room also has a vaulted ceiling, Harlequin dance floor, heat/air conditioning and a viewing window for parents to watch the dancers. The waiting area is comfortable with two bathrooms and baby changing facilities.

Register today it’s fun & affordable! Shore Ballet offers sibling discounts and payment plans. Compare our prices. Major credit cards accepted. Sign up before classes are full!

Call: 732-270-1110 or E-mail: director@shoreballet.com. Visit our new website: www.shoreballet.com

Dance For Joy, located in Brielle NJ on Route 70, has been a part of the community for twenty one years!  In the Fall of February 2007, Kimberly Kunkel became the new owner and Artistic Director.  Kimberly Kunkel has been dancing since she was three years old. She studied Classical Ballet, Modern, Jazz, Tap, Lyrical, Choreography and Yoga. She attended Howell High School’s Fine and Performing Arts Center where she was recognized for her fine tuned dancing and creative choreography. She then went on to pursue her dance training at Montclair State University where she studied Ballet and Modern, and performed professionally with the Sebastian Sextet Dance Company.  Ms. Kunkel finished her studies at Point Park University in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, one of the most prestigious institutions for dance in the country.  She graduated with a degree in Dance Pedagogy which included studies in child, adolescent, adult and educational psychology, anatomy, kinesiology, and choreography, along with daily technique classes in Ballet, Modern and Jazz.

Kimberly has an incredible passion for dance, choreography, teaching and most importantly children; “I’ve had so many amazing and inspiring dance teachers in my life thathave left me with a deep understanding of my own body.  This connection is what dance is all about.  The mind and body connection is what makes dance so addicting.  To be able to define and interpret a thought, feeling, song, or even silence with movement, is the most honest form of expression I have ever experienced.  The body becomes our finely tuned instrument, and what other instrument could possibly be so beautiful?  This is what I hope to teach and instill in each student that walks through my studio doors.” ~Kimberly Kunkel

At Dance For Joy we strongly believe that ballet is the seed in which all dance stems from. There is nothing in the world that can teach grace, coordination, poise and balance better, and combine it in a more effective package than ballet.  Students that learn and apply the lessons of ballet, almost subconsciously integrate what they have mastered into their life.  At the very least, one can inexplicably see and sense the increase in confidence and self-esteem that will last them a lifetime.  In a society where kids are growing up with constant instant gratification from all the wonderful technologies our world presents us with, ballet is a way to teach focus and patience with self.  It allows the student to understand their bodies and the technique of dance while instilling perseverance, determination, and discipline.

Dance For Joy offers a variety of dance techniques including Classical Ballet, Pointe, Modern, Jazz, Lyrical, Tap, Hip-Hop, and Yoga.  It is a second home for some of the students attending, and it’s DFJ’s goal to create a safe and friendly atmosphere while inspiring and challenging the students in the art of dance. The studio isn’t just a place where students learn a dance; it is where they learn how to dance. This is what sets Dance for Joy a part from other dance studios.  The End of the Year Show is an option for all students enrolled at DFJ. Show rehearsal is separate from the student’s weekly technique classes, allowing students to take full advantage of their dance training.

All of the faculty at Dance For Joy are highly trained and certified dance teachers who have dedicated most of their lives to the discipline of dance.  Each teacher takes a special pride in passing on their knowledge, experiences and passion for dance to each student at DFJ.

Dance for Joy is located at 1025 Rt. 70 Suite 2,Brielle.For more

information call :732-223-5336 or log onto www.danceforjoynj.com

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We are a family that loves going on bike rides. My son was a bit late in having his training wheels taken off his two-wheeler. This year however, he was now ready to ride without that extra help and he took immediately to this no found freedom.  His first day he rode for hours. He cried out” look how fast I am going dad; I am really good. “ “Yes you are, but you have to be careful Dak.” I warned.

He was so confident, he now wanted to ride every day after school. He now wanted to go farther, so first we took back streets to Rita’s while Lisa, the dogs and I walked. He was now ready to go on an even longer bike ride. So we rode as a family to our friend’s house. The ride was probably over a mile and a half each way. He handled it easily, never complaining about being tired.

So on a Friday after school Dak and I went on a bike ride, Lisa was working and would be home in about an hour. The plan was to ride 2 miles to a park and have Dak play for a while and then ride home. As we started on our late afternoon adventure, the traffic was a lot more then I expected.

We were almost at the park when Dak fell down behind me. I looked back and saw that his knee and elbow were scraped badly.  With tears coming down his cheeks he screamed,” I want my mommy, I want my mommy.” I said, “ Buddy we have to get you home so we can take care of your wounds. I was annoyed with myself thinking what idiot takes his son on a bike this far from home and worst what fool forgets his cell phone.

After 10 minutes of walking his bicycle and not getting much closer to home, I said “Dak can you ride the rest of the way.” “I can try,” was his reply. Five minutes later he fell down again. A nice mother traveling with her children in the car saw Dak fall and pulled over to ask if I needed help. I said,” Could you please.”? We left the bicycles and she gave Dak and me a car ride to our house. I was very appreciative and touched by her kindness.” Dak’s wounds have now healed, but we’ll stick to riding around our house for the time being.

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The digital revolution has taken over photography.  Now it seems everyone has a digital camera and even more people own digital SLR’s.  So the number of amateurs with great cameras is growing and people are attempting to be their own professional photographer.  And why not?  You get instant gratification.  You know right away whether you captured the image you wanted or not.  But being a photographer means more than owning a good camera.  You must have skill in assessing the light, the environment and the dynamics of your subjects.  You need to have an innate ability to connect with those you are photographing coupled with technical know-how of your camera and equipment.  Here are some reasons why you should hire a professional photographer.

First of all if you want a family portrait, you need someone to take the photograph, right?  But I know many of you are camera shy and therefore only want to capture your children. However, I think it’s important to have a full family portrait.  As a professional photographer, I pay attention to details.  Through my years of experience I have learned how to pose families in ways that flatter everyone.  I can provide session tips and offer advice on clothing to wear.  These are reasons why you should hire a professional photographer.

Now that it’s July, many families want to get portraits taken at the beach.  This is my favorite thing to do!  The beach provides such a beautiful setting for a family portrait.  It has a perfect blend of natural colors from the sand, to the green dunes, to the blue water, and the white caps of crashing waves against the shoreline.  Dress yourselves in coordinating shirts in pastel shades or white with khaki pants and you have yourself a professionally designed portrait waiting to get hung on your walls!  Can’t you just “picture” it??  I like to take some posed portraits as well as candid shots.  Let me show you how to sit with your family in a posed manner, yet relaxed and natural enough to look as though you aren’t posed.  Let me capture your kids looking for shells,  splashing at water’s edge, or running with the waves.  I can illustrate how your family interacts with each other and show your true essence and your personalities.  These are reasons why you should hire a professional photographer.

Love some of the pictures you take, but wish you could make them better?  Professionals have the talent and the tools to enhance your photographs from touching up skin, hiding wrinkles, making colors more vibrant, optimizing lighting, removing distractions in the background, etc,  Wish those fly away hairs were gone?  Consider it done.  Wish your teenager’s acne wasn’t so distracting?  Consider those blemishes gone.  Wish you could open someone’s eyes since everyone else in the photo looks great?  No problem.  Wish you could take a head from one picture and place it in another?  Yep, I can do that too!  (actually way too often than I care to mention!).  These are reasons why you should hire a professional photographer.

Do you want to present your portraits as works of art in your home or showcase a wall-sized portrait over your couch or fireplace?  I have an

assortment of ways to do so.  Custom framing is a common option.  You want to have someone qualified to help you choose a frame and matting that will fit your home décor while simultaneously complimenting the style of your wall portrait.  Canvas gallery wraps are very popular.  Your photograph is bonded through an emulsion process to a textured canvas fabric and stretched over a wooden frame.  This provides a nice contemporary finished look, ready to hang on your wall.  Preparing any portrait for display in your home is best handled by an expert.  These are reasons why you should hire a professional photographer.

One of my most popular products is called a composite.  It is a digital collage where multiple photos are arranged and displayed on one printed surface.  These arrangements require design time and skill to create them in Photoshop.  Creativity and artistry can make an ordinary collage into a work of art. I can also provide other ways to show off a collection of your favorite images such as brag books, press printed coffee-table style photo books, digitally designed lay-flat albums and DVD slide shows set to music.  These are all professional presentations that aren’t readily available to the general public.  These are reasons why you should hire a professional photographer.

Some may wonder why anyone would pay such high prices for a 5X7, 8X10 or an 11X14 if you can get one at a fraction of the cost at your local pharmacy, Costco or even online?  The true cost really lies in the amount of time it takes to produce a professional portrait.  The cost to print may be minimal, but other factors must be considered when determining the value of your portrait. There are consultations, travel time, the session itself, uploading and backing up images, editing, printing proofs, client meetings, editing and enhancing prints for final order, creating any digital products, reviewing order from lab, prepping for delivery, etc.  Studies show that a photographer will spend an average of 13-19 hours on each client!  So please know that we are putting our passion, our heart and our soul into the process of building relationships with you, providing personal customer service, caring for your memories and producing photographic works of art for you.  These are reasons why you should hire a professional photographer.

Have you ever tried to do your own photo session with your children?  I know many moms who try to get a great shot of their kids every year so they can use it for holiday greeting cards.  Isn’t it stressful?  Why do you do that to yourselves? I know my patience is tested when taking pictures of my own kids; I’d rather do someone else’s. Ha!  Let a professional take care of it for you and make your life easier.  Don’t we all try to make our lives easier in various ways?  We hire people to paint our nails, cut our hair, prepare our meals, and clean our houses.  But all those things are temporary.  Why not pay a professional photographer to take your precious pictures for you and alleviate the stress factor?  You are guaranteed to get a great portrait that you can enjoy over and over and over again.  Your nail polish has chipped, your house is messy again and you consumed the meal you paid someone to prepare.  But portraits are a moment in time that live on forever. These are reasons why you should hire a professional photographer.

As demonstrated, there is a great deal of time involved in creating a custom photograph and offering a personal experience for the client.  When working with a studio, you are provided with great service, better choices and a high quality end product.  Professional photographers are dedicated to their craft and are constantly educating themselves so they can be better… for you!  Photography is an emotional business that offers an emotional experience and produces an emotional product.  Your resulting images are heirloom portraits to be treasured for a lifetime.  Do you need any more reasons why you should hire a professional photographer? I think not.

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One could say the Demeter family of Toms River was formed with a little bit of divine intervention.  Mom Janine met her future husband, Andy, when she took her white car for its weekly wash at the establishmentowned by Andy’s family.  After dating for about 18 months, they were married in June of 1994 at the Crystal Point Yacht Club in Point Pleasant.  “You never know where you’re going to meet the love of your life,” Janine quips.  She and Andy spent six years enjoying married life and getting settled, before they were blessed to become parents to son Drew, now 10.  Daughter Ally, age 8, and six-year-old son, Evan, round out this faithful family.

The family is “local to the core,” Janine attests.  Andy grew up in Brick and graduated from Toms River North High School. He works as general manager at Silver Bay Car Wash Express Lube, the business owned by his mother and stepfather, MaryLou and Vince Galati, for 22 years.  Janine says that although Andy’s work days are long, they are so grateful that he has been able to steadily provide for their family during this economic downturn.  Janine was born in Point Pleasant Hospital and raised in Brick, graduating from Brick High School, just as her parents, Allen and Pat Dey, had.  Allen even penned the school’s alma mater song!

Janine’s days are spent not only caring for her family and their home, but also serving as a volunteer for the Parent Teacher Fellowship at Ambassador Christian Academy in Toms River, the Pre-K through eighth grade school that the children all attend.  Janine explains that the academy, also known as ACA, is the only accredited classical Christian school in the area, and that ACA has “educated minds and hearts for over 31 years.”  Janine notes that she and Andy are most thankful for this schooling, as the family is built upon a strong faith in God.  Janine says her foundation as a mom is “faith, family, friends and fun,” and that the entire family is also active in their church, Bethany Bible Chapel on Church Road in Toms River.  Noting that the children are “the best of friends,” Janine adds that they are “fearfully and wonderfully made as unique individuals,” quoting Psalm 139:14.  She claims that the kids “understand we are a family, a unit and a team and work together as a whole.” Because of this philosophy, the family “does pretty much everything together,” noting there will be time for separate teams and activities later in life, but for now, they enjoy being together as much as possible.

YCT: Tell us a little about your family and the personalities of each of your children.

Janine: Drew is a history buff, especially anything having to do with the military.  He studies Latin and Spanish and has received honor grades all four marking periods this year.  He’s known as a great friend to all at school and enjoys participating on the school’s bowling team.  Since being introduced to archery at a Christian sleep-away camp he attends for two weeks every summer, he’s become quite a marksman; we even have a hunter friend give him lessons in the summer.  He’s also passionate about boarding – skateboarding, skimboarding in the ocean, and snowboarding in the winter.  I’d describe Ally as having a gracious heart and lots of friends.  She’s a wonderful blessing to me in this house full of boys.  She’s organized and loves to be in the kitchen with me.  Her favorite subject at school is math, and boy, does she know how to take charge, which is especially helpful on school mornings!  Now Evan is affectionately known as “Hank the Tank,” because he is all-boy and full of energy, energy, energy!  Given instruction and guidance, he can channel that energy to good use and has become a great helper in his full-day kindergarten class, and around our house as well.  If I ask him to weed the garden, he may stay out there for hours!

YCT: What is a typical day like in your home?

Janine: There is no such thing as a typical day in our home!  We are blessed to have a lot of family all here in Ocean County – both sets of grandparents, 13 aunts and uncles and 14 cousins to be exact – so there is always someone coming and going.  We often have people over for dinner or visits.  We try to take things as they come and go, and take life as it comes to us.  In the summer, my big rule is to get the chores done before the fun adventure for the day.  We enjoy the outdoors year round and we are so fortunate to have a large protected stretch of woods that abuts our back yard.  The woods will never be developed and we really take advantage of that for adventures and play time.

YCT: What activities do your children participate in after school?

Janine: After the kids complete their homework, they usually go outside to play and take bike rides.  We live on a small, safe street so the kids can ride their scooters and bikes, and play basketball without worry.  We’re the only family on our street that doesn’t have a dog, so the kids walk the neighbors’ dogs.  They know the names of all the dogs and their humans!

YCT: What is your favorite thing to do locally with your family?

Janine: We often go to Island Beach State Park in Seaside for fun and fishing and where we spot red foxes, instead of the old “yellow cars” game.  We like to go bike riding, especially at Toms River’s Winding River Park or on the Manasquan Bike Path. We also go hiking in Cattus Island Park in Toms River and Bass River State Park in Tuckerton.  For Evan’s sixth birthday in February, we had a hiking party for 17 people through the snow covered trails at Bass River State Park, then hotdogs and s’mores cooked over the fire pit in our backyard.  Last winter, during the snow days off from school, we had a major Olympics party in our back yard – I told all the moms to dress in layers, because we were going to be staying outside through it all!  The past few years we had season passes for Great Adventure and went often.  This year we decided on state park passes, which allows us to bike and hike all the state parks.  I thought this would be especially informative this year, as it will augment Drew’s study of New Jersey as a fourth grader in school this past year.

YCT: Do you have any favorite local vacation spots?

Janine: For the past three summers, we have gone to Pennsylvania for vacation.  We have climbed Bushkill Falls, an amazing waterfall system in the Poconos.  We have canoed the Lehigh Gorge and hiked Boulder Field in Hickory Run State Park.  The trips always conclude with a day at Camelbeach, a water park near our vacation spots.  But the best spot of all is the Jersey Shore.  We are beach bums when given the chance and take advantage of the local attractions like Breakwater Beach in Seaside and Jenkinson’s Aquarium in Point Pleasant.

YCT: Have you ever gone on vacation without the kids?

Janine: Since we’ve become parents, we have taken two trips without the kids.  During the years Andy and I each turned 40, we went away for a few days to relax in the sun & sand.  We are so lucky to have both sets of grandparents here in Toms River, when they are not staying at their other homes in Florida.  Therefore, we were able to go away with peace of mind.

YCT: Do you have a favorite family-friendly restaurant?

Janine: We try to go out about once a week to cost effective restaurants such as Five Guys, TGI Fridays and Friendly’s – all in Toms River.  It’s nice to incorporate a little education in the meal, too.  For instance, Five Guys offers potatoes from different states on a rotating schedule and the kids get a kick out of learning a bit about the state their fries have come from!

YCT: What is your favorite date night location and how often do you get to go out with just your husband?

Janine: Since Andy works such long hours, the kids and I always try to pop in for a car wash or to just visit.  We like to pull him away to dine at Surf Taco in Toms River or bring in a “picnic pizza” so we can eat together.  We feel that we are primarily ‘mom and dad’ to these young children, so we don’t go off alone too often.  However, I’m sure date nights will come back to us at some point.  We often reconnect at the end of the day sharing the day’s activities regarding children or business on our back deck watching the sun set and the moon rise.

YCT: What is your favorite non-mommy thing to do and how often do you get to do it?

Janine: Yay and yes!  I believe all moms should have an abundant amount of “gal friends” to give advice, laugh and cry, and having so many you always find one free when you or she needs it most.  I have an artsy side and when my friend, Karin Killian of 2friends hand-made ribbon, gifts and accessories, asked me to join her at local craft fairs, I jumped at the chance.  Together we attend about 15 outdoor craft venues a year from Long Beach Island to Monmouth County, including the Festival of the Sea in Point Pleasant, Brielle Day and the Toms River Sailfest.  It’s a great opportunity to promote her business, be outdoors and meet new people.

YCT: What is your husband¹s favorite non-daddy thing to do?

Janine: Andy is a different story – his friends all come to him, as he is a steady fixture at the Silver Bay Car Wash.  In his free time, he enjoys spending time in the yard and garden but is never alone as he always has six little helping hands.  He spends lots of time working – this is how our family is balanced right now.

YCT: Do you patronize any advertisers from our magazine?

Janine: Ally has gone to Sparkle Diva and we have celebrated the kids’ birthdays at the Jersey Shore Pirate Adventure and with Gamin’ Ride at our home.  We have had swimming lessons at Pied Piper Swim School. We make a platter once a year at  Color Me Mine and we frequent Bee Mine consignment shop in     Toms River.

YCT: Do you have any parenting advice that you would like to offer our readers?

Janine: Growing up I had a dear family friend named Katherine Mead who was a mother of seven.  She once told me to get up before the kids.  Of course, this was hard when they were babies but since they have been school age, this has become a wonderful habit.  I wake up one half hour before the kids to pray, meditate and be still.  Then I have my morning coffee and am ready for morning hugs and all that the day may bring.  I also think that being flexible and spontaneous works very well for us – to overcome stress and upsets during the day.  For example, sometimes we have a picnic dinner in our own living room, just for a change of pace.

YCT: What is your favorite part of Your Child Today magazine?

Janine: My favorite part is the ‘Focus on the Family’ feature.  I use the ‘Calendar of Events’ section over and over to find great local events for our spontaneous adventures!

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Another school year has come to a close which means it’s time to gas up the car, pack up the kids, and take a family road trip this summer.  Where will your family visit during the months of July and August?  If you’re stumped for ideas and not sure where to take the troops for a special vacation this year, check out one of Your Child Today’s “Top Nearby Family-Friendly Travel Destinations.”  All of the selected parks and resorts are outside of New Jersey, but luckily for Shore area families, they are all within a reasonable driving distance.

Smugglers’ Notch Resort, Vermont: This all-inclusive family resort, located in the picturesque mountains of Vermont, is well worth the journey north.   In addition to separate activities for kids and adults, there are plenty of events for the entire family as well.

While the kids are kept busy and happy in one of Smugglers’ many camp programs, parents can pursue some of their own hobbies and interests through guided hiking tours, kayaking, fishing clinics, garden tours, and other specialty programs.

Smugglers’ popular health and wellness workshops showcase aromatic herbs, essential oils, and spices this summer under the guidance of knowledgeable herbalists from Vermont’s Purple Shutter Herbs.  New sessions include Herbal Manicure, Bath Fizzies, Lip Balms and Energizing with “Zoom Balls,” a sweet treat made with herbs and spices that deliver an energy boost. Yoga, fitness walking, meditation and aromatherapy classes are also available.

If you would like to enjoy a taste of Vermont, a farmer’s market will be available every Monday morning at Smugglers’. Local farmers and specialty food vendors will offer a bountiful selection of goodies including fresh-from-the-field vegetables, locally raised meats, maple products, artisan cheeses, spicy condiments and wines.

If your family is adventurous and would like to see some of the sights outside of the resort, day trips are also available.   A new outing explores Vermont’s beautiful lakeside “Queen City.”  Resort day trippers have a new outing to choose from with Discover Burlington, which joins perennial favorites A Taste of Vermont and the Montreal Day Trip.   After a stop at a local coffee roaster, guests can head to the shops and boutiques on Burlington’s renowned pedestrian-friendly Church Street Marketplace, take in the waterfront of Lake Champlain and spend time in the lakeside ECHO Center, aninteractive science museum that all ages enjoy. The journey back to Smugglers’ includes a photo opportunity at a covered bridge.

What’s New: This summer, the resort is offering two vacation packages to increase family vacation choices. The Resort’s new SimplySmuggs Vacation Package offers flexibility to families who want to make a la carte selections from the Resort’s varied menu of award-winning children’s programs for ages 3 to 17. When registering for those programs prior to arrival, families will enjoy a discounted rate of 25 percent on the children’s programs they select. Vacation package rates for a family of four in a one bedroom mountainside condominium start at $1176 for a 3 day/3night stay on the SimplySmuggs Vacation Package in July (shorter or longer stays are available).  The Resort’s popular FamilyFest Vacation Package includes Smugglers’ award-winning daylong children’s programs, and offers the best value for families interested in a comprehensive package. Rates for a family of four in a one bedroom mountainside condominium start at $1395 for a 3 day/3 night stay on the FamilyFest Vacation Package in July (shorter or longer stays are available).  Camp activities for ages 3-17 include nature discovery, games, arts and crafts, and pool and waterslide fun.  In addition, children ages 7-15 may elect to concentrate on performance, arts & crafts, nature & hiking or adventure and games. The SimplySmuggs and FamilyFest Vacation Packages offer discounts for families interested in specialty camps focusing on outdoor adventure, tennis, skateboarding, and videography.  Both the SimplySmuggs and FamilyFest Vacation Packages include full-equipped mountainside condominium lodging, unlimited use of eight heated pools and four waterslides, daily guided walks and hikes for all levels of ability, two teen centers, mini golf, disc golf, and use of the skate park. Family programs and entertainment included in the package are: bingo, dance parties, a family magic show, and more. Nightly entertainment for adults is also included. Both packages feature unlimited use of the FunZone Family Entertainment Center- an indoor play center for all ages featuring climbing and bouncy inflatables such as a giant slide and obstacle course, plus a kids’ climbing wall, miniature golf and arcade games.  Package information is available by visiting www.smuggs.com or by calling the resort’s reservationists at 1-800-451-8752.

Sesame Place, Pennsylvania: On a really hot summer afternoon, spending the day at Sesame Place is a great way for your kids to get wet and stay cool.  Don’t miss this popular park in Langhorne which features characters from the hit television series and is only about an hour from the Shore area.  Your kids can splash around and frolic on one of the many water rides or they can stay dry and take a spin on the carousel, roller coaster Blast Off, Vapor Trail or Flyin’ Fish rides.  If you need to catch your breath and relax for a few moments, sit back and relax for one of Sesame Place’s interactive shows, like Big Bird’s Beach Party or the all-new Elmo Rocks! Rock n’ roll show.  Your kids will have a blast rocking out with Elmo, Zoe, Cookie Monster, and the loveable duo, Bert and Ernie. If you know your kiddies won’t be able to cram all of the fun into just one afternoon, purchase Elmo’s Any 2 Day Ticket (you can visit another day at no additional charge) and stay overnight at one of the area’s many hotels.

What’s New: Sesame Place is celebrating its 30^th Birthday this year!  There will be many events throughout the summer to commemorate this milestone.  Beginning July 9^th, middle school children are invited to one of the “Friday Nights –Summer Nights Series” events.  The pre-teens and teenagers are invited to an exclusive after hour’s DJ dance party from 6:30-10:00 pm at Sesame Place.  Kids can mix and mingle, enjoy water rides, enter dance contests and win prizes throughout the evening.   Mark your calendar for July 30th and celebrate Sesame Place’s 30th Birthday with a beautiful fireworks display, set to a Sesame Street sound track. Fireworks are at 9pm on Friday only and twilight admission is not valid.   Then, on September 5^th, celebrate Labor Day with fireworks at 8:30pm.  For the best view of the night sky, have your family watch from the park’s front plaza!  The fun doesn’t stop once the kids go back to school.  The park is still open on weekends with plenty of special events to entertain the little ones.  On September 18th and 19^th, treat your kiddies to a Hip Hop Harry Live Concert.  Characters from the popular television show from Discovery Kids and TLC network will perform on the Sesame Place stage for three shows daily.  Hip Hop Harry, a loveable dancing bear will teach kids about art, dance, language, and music all through the use of hip hop fun!  Reservations are required for these shows.  And, on September 25, the park is open just for 2010 & 2011 Season Pass Members from 4:30– 7pm, complete with a live DJ and kids’ dance party.  Finally, beginning on September 25th through October 31^st (weekends only), celebrate Halloween at Sesame Place with the Count’s Halloween Spooktacular.  For more information, call 1-866-GO-4-ELMO or visit www.sesameplace.com

Mystic, Connecticut: Located on the banks of the historic Mystic River, this coastal village offers terrific restaurants, quaint shops, and of course, the Seaport.   Mystic Seaport is divided into four sections: a re-created 19^th Century Village, where guests can learn about each building’s role in a coastal community; the Waterfront, an area with tall ships and other historic vessels; the Preservation Shipyard, which restores antique vessels using traditional methods and tools; and Exhibits and Galleries, including “Mapping the Pacific Coast: Coronado to Lewis and Clark.”

What’s New: Tugs! – Mystic’s newest, interactive exhibit that explores the American tug, tow and barge industry.  This exhibit is for visitors of all ages and is open through spring 2011. For more information about this specific exhibit, check out www.mysticseaport.org/tugs.  Mystic Seaport Sundays – Guests are invited to come after 5 p.m. for free!  There will also be live music, food, and a cash bar at Spouter’s Tavern, and one of the most beautiful spots to watch a summer sunset in Mystic.  This is a great way for families, couples, or even singles to unwind and relax at the end of the day while enjoying the peaceful and beautiful grounds ( www.mysticseaport.org/summersundays).

Does your family enjoy boat rides?  If so, enjoy the sights of the Mystic River and take a cruise on the steamboat Sabino, or rent rowboats or sailboats from the Boathouse (www.mysticseaport.org/boathouse).  There are many authentic experiences to choose from as well, such as watching a blacksmith pound iron in the Shipsmith shop to conversing with an 1876 roleplayer that is strolling the grounds.  Mystic Seaport just launched a website sharing this “Earn Your Sea Legs” promotion and it can be found at www.earnyoursealegs.com. The site also features new 30-second TV spots, as well as great new special offers and discounts which always come in handy!  For more information, call 888-973-2767 or visit www.mysticseaport.org.

Hersheypark, Pennsylvania: Known as the “Sweestest Place on Earth,” this is a great family destination with plenty of sights and attractions.   The town of Hershey has made significant improvements in the past three years, resulting in $185 million worth of new offerings for guests. Hersheypark has more than 65 rides and attractions, including 11 roller coasters – more than any other park in Pennsylvania.  The park also features The Boardwalk at Hersheypark, which is home to nine water-based attractions.  One-price admission to Hersheypark provides access to all of those attractions and to ZooAmerica North American Wildlife Park, which throughout 2010 is celebrating the 100^th anniversary of a zoo in Hershey. Guests can enjoy a ride on Great Bear, a looping inverted steel roller coaster, and then walk across the bridge to ZooAmerica to see real great bears.

What’s New: Adjacent to Hersheypark is Hershey’s Chocolate World, which this summer will debut “Create Your Own Candy Bar,” an interactive, hands-on attraction that immerses guests in the process of creating a candy bar. This first-of-its kind attraction gives consumers the ability to select their favorite candy bar ingredients, operate authentic factory equipment and design packaging for a custom candy bar.  Definitely leave a few hours of your trip for a stroll through Chocolate World as it provides a lot of hands-on activities and exhibits for the kids.  Plus, there are many places to buy delicious Hershey treats and desserts.  Save your calories and splurge for a sweet chocolate confection.  You’ll be glad you did!  For more information, call 1-800-HERSHEY (1-800-437-7439) or visit www.HersheyPA.com.

Peddler’s Village, Pennsylvania: For more than four decades, Peddler’s Village has been a popular leisure destination.  Located at Routes 202 and Street Road in Lahaska, this charming village offers a unique shopping and dining experience. Peddler’s Village features 70 quality specialty shops and six restaurants.  In addition, there is also the 70-room Golden Plough Inn and Giggleberry Fair family entertainment center.   Giggleberry Fair provides hours or fun for the entire family.  In addition to the beautifullyrestored 1922 Philadelphia Toboggan Company Grand Carousel, this 10,000 square foot attraction houses Giggleberry Mountain, the Game Room, the Painted Pony Café, and the newest attraction, Giggles Discovers.  Enjoy free seasonal festivals and year-round family events at Peddler’s Village.   For more information, please visit www.peddlersvillage.com or call 215-794-4000.

What’s New: The 32nd Annual Scarecrow Competition and Display is scheduled for September 6.  The competition will feature colorful scarecrow creations on outdoor public exhibits through October 24, 2010.  Participants enter their inventions in one or more of six imaginative categories. The public votes for their favorites, awarding thousands of dollars in cash prizes to the most spectacular creations. Admission to the display is free.  Don’t miss The 31^st Annual Scarecrow Festival on September 18-19, 2010.  This weekend of traditional family fun will include scarecrow-making workshops, pumpkin pie eating contests, pumpkin painting, live musical entertainment and children’s activities.

Jellystone National Park, Lancaster, Pennsylvania: If your kids enjoy camping, this is the place to have some old-fashioned fun with your family.  Plan on spending lots of time roasting marshmallows around the campfire, fishing, and getting back in touch with nature.  The campground has 165 campsites and 29 cabins situated on 63 wooded and rolling acres in scenic Southern Lancaster County.   Owned and operated by the Ryan family, they are celebrating their 21st season this year at Jellystone.

Deluxe and Rustic cabins are available for rental with full hook-up campsites.  Each rental comes with a picnic table and a fire ring.  The park also offers modern restrooms, laundry, propane, camp store/gift shop, and an arcade room.  Activities include:  pedal carts, volleyball, hayrides, movies, crafts, bingo, horseshoes, shuffleboard, bike rentals, visits from Yogi Bear, theme weekends and food events.  The park is adjacent to 100 acres of hiking trails and bird watching at the adjoining Theodore Parker Natural Area.  Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park Camp-Resorts are part of a National Franchise that has over 70 great parks in the US and Canada. For more information on the Jellystone Park in Quarryville, PA please visit their website at www.jellystonepa.com  The national website for all of the resorts is campjellystone.com.

What’s New: Jellystone has a new 40,000 sq. ft. interactive water playground and swimming/activity pool which is open daily through June 12.  Guaranteed to provide many hours of fun for your kiddies as well as the adults!  Pack your bathing suit and get ready to splash around and have some laughs at Jellystone this summer.

Woodloch Pines, Pennsylvania: Nestled in the pristine forests of the Pocono Mountains Lake Region of Northeastern Pennsylvania, Woodloch Resort is the ideal destination for family vacations, reunions, weddings and corporate retreats. Featuring a private lake and miles of beautiful scenery, this 250 acre resort is located only two and a half hours from New York City and is the perfect combination of old world charm, gracious hospitality, and modern resort conveniences.  The best of a Woodloch vacation is that your family doesn’t need to worry about paying for food and activities.  The all-inclusive packages provide three delicious meals daily, endless activities, nightly entertainment, amenities and a variety of accommodation choices from classic standard rooms, fully-furnished guest homes and waterview suites with private balconies. Family Circle Magazine recognized Woodloch as “One of the World’s Best Inclusive Resorts.”  Woodloch has also been recognized by Parents Magazine as one of the “Top Ten Best Winter Resorts.”  So, remember to keep it in mind when you’re planning a get-away during the winter months this year.

What’s New: New in 2010, Woodloch Pines will offer “A Night on the Town” Broadway-Style Theme Show and Comedian.  They resort also debuts a 28’ Rockwall for your climbing pleasure! This is sure to be a hit with the kids, as they are always up for a new adventure and challenge!

Lake George, New York:  If your Jersey Shore family is looking for a change of scenery, travel to upstate New York to this popular vacation destination located in the southern Adirondack Mountain region.  Lake George offers crystal-clear water and mountainous terrain in a beautiful and breathtaking setting.  Be sure to visit Million Dollar Beach on Lake George which is very clean and family friendly.  There are always trained lifeguards on duty.  Admission to the beach is “free” but the parking is $8 car and $3 per motorcycle. Million Dollar Beach has the best changing rooms and most “sand” of all the Lake George beaches.  There are also many other activities to keep the family busy and happy including: hot air ballooning, boat rides and cruises, fishing, golf, spa services, horseback riding, fireworks, farmers’ markets, min-golf, and parasailing.  As for lodging, your family can choose to stay in a traditional motel unit or a bed-and-breakfast if you prefer.  There are also numerous restaurants and ice cream shops to choose from throughout the area.  For more information about this family resort, check out the website lakegeorge.com.  The website is extremely informative and will provide lots of information regarding places to stay, eat, and activities for your family.

What’s New: Check out the Family Fun Festival which runs from July 5-9.  There will be many free events for the family throughout this five-day festival.  Be sure to see the Rock Band 2 Video Game Competition, the Lego and Duplo Building Contest and a Sand Castle Building Contest.

We hope Your Child Today’s “Top Nearby Family-Friendly Travel Destinations” will be a helpful resource for your family this summer.  Now that the kids have just finished school and are asking what the family will do this summer, it’s time to hit the computer and make some reservations.   Use this list to create a road trip which best suits your family.  If your kids are on the younger side, pick one of the closer spots and make it a day trip.  If you have older children, you may want to go further and spend a few days.  Whatever you choose, the most important thing is to take the time to enjoy your family and have fun making the memories that will last long after your trip is over.

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Lately, whenever I walk around the house, I see one.  Maybe there’s a pink princess on the family room floor, a red pizza slice on the kitchen table, or a brown baseball bat on the sink in the bathroom.  Finding them in the bathroom really drives me crazy!  If you have a child over the age of five, you know what I’m talking about.  They’re Silly Bandz!  Chances are you have lots of these colorful rubber bracelets sprinkled throughout your house, just as I do.  These slinky rubber bands which are worn around the wrist are shaped like animals, musical instruments, princesses, sea creatures, flowers and many other things.  They are the latest kids’ craze and are the main topic of conversation in schools across the country.  In fact, some schools have even banned the bracelets because teachers and administrators find them to be too distracting.

The bracelets, which are made of colorful silicone molded in different shapes, return to the original shape when taken off the arm.  Usually, kids keep them in plastic baggies they can securely close so none of their precious commodities will get lost.  Half the fun is collecting the bracelets and the other half is trading them with friends, which helps keep the trend fresh and exciting.  These transactions can take place on the school bus, on the soccer field, at the lunchroom table, or anywhere else. Here’s how it works:  One kid will take a band off her wrist, hold it up, and ask what bands other kids will trade for it.  Then the transaction occurs.  According to one of my six-year-old daughters, once the trade is made, the deal is sealed.

“The person really has to make up their mind before they trade Silly Bandz, because when you trade it, you trade it and that’s it,” says Chloe.  “You’re never going to get that Silly Band back again.”

The fad, which hit stores about a year-and-a-half ago, is the brainchild of Toledo, Ohio businessman Robert Croak.  Many different suppliers sell virtually identical bands, all with different brand names, but most kids call them all “Silly Bandz.” BCP Imports has a trademark on that name. A spokesperson for the company says the number of employees at the main office shot from about 20 a year ago to almost 70 today.  At around $5 for a 24-pack, they’re a relatively cheap collectible.  This factor definitely contributes to their staying power and popularity.  Plus, they are sold pretty much everywhere moms and kids frequent on a regular basis like supermarkets or other local stores.  Pretty convenient, huh?

Penny Chandler, a Brick mother of four, fully understands the Silly Bandz craze.  Her girls actually look forward to going to the doctor because they know they can get Silly Bandz after the appointment.

“My four daughters, ages 5, 5, 3, and 2 receive Silly Bandz at our chiropractor’s office which we visit on a regular basis,” says Chandler.  “The girls really look forward to it!  They can exchange one if they have doubles, or just simply add to their collection!  They are crazy about displaying them at the dinner table and with friends wherever we go. My youngest daughter fell a few weeks ago, and it was then that I realized just how powerful these silly bands really are!  As she sat hysterically crying in my lap, a seven-year-old young man handed her a corn dog band which made her so happy.  It was like he gave her a million dollars!  It really helped dry up all of those tears!”

Wow!  Now they are a healing mechanism!  Being able to console a kid during a crying episode is quite significant.  So, just what does this fad have that drives kids over the edge and can wipe away the tears, too? My other six-year-old daughter, Chelsea, finds it exciting and fascinating to see which bands she’ll come across every day on the school bus.

“I like Silly Bandz because you can trade them and you can get different ones,” says Chelsea who particularly likes the glow-in-the-dark bands.    “It’s cool to trade them, but it’s a little hard, too.  Some people aren’t good traders.  You have to be careful.  The people who have the most Silly Bandz usually have the best ones.  That’s who I like to trade with.”

True twins who even think alike, Chloe wholeheartedly agrees with her sister and fellow Silly Bandz buddy.

“I like Silly Bandz because they are so cool,” says Chloe who likes the princess Silly Bandz the best.  “I like to trade with the kids who have the best ones because they might have the one that you really want.  Then, once you get it, you don’t have to worry about it anymore.  I’m just so happy that I can trade Silly Bandz.”

As if the excitement wasn’t enough, now kids can trade the Silly Necklace which debuted in June.  At the moment, they are only available online at sillybandz.com.  It will be interesting to see if the Silly Necklace will enjoy as much popularity as the bracelets in the upcoming months.  There’s one thing I know for sure: the Silly Bandz bracelets are here to stay for a long time in my household.  My daughters are so obsessed with looking for new packs in the stores and then trading with their friends, that I can’t even imagine them losing interest in this new hobby anytime soon.  Just when I thought we had enough Silly Bandz to last us a lifetime, I’m hit with another desperate request:  “Mom, can we get the New York Yankees Silly Bandz?  Please?  I don’t have them and they are my favorite baseball team!  Pretty please with a cherry on top!”  How can I resist?  Guess where I’ll be tomorrow morning?

By Sue Gerard

This family resort has withstood the test of time.  Rocking Horse Ranch has been around since 1958.  It was originally established by Toolie and Gloria Turk who were from NewYork City but had a love of horses.  They wanted to create a resort that was a little less “rustic” than your typical dude ranch of the day, and more family friendly.  They converted one of the oldest hotels in Ulster County New York in a town called Highland.  They worked on the property during the week and catered to guests on the weekends.  It was the first and only ranch in the country to have an indoor and outdoor pool, water skiing, snow skiing, a nightclub and dozens of other activities in their facility.

After 10 years, business was booming and improvements were continually made to better satisfy guests.  Then tragedy struck in January 1971.  The Turks life’s work and dreams went up in flames during a New Year’s weekend fire.  All the guests were safe, but only the brick walls and chimney were left standing.  They decided to rebuild and made it bigger and better than before.  Now it truly was “their” structure and they have been thriving ever since.

I personally have been to this ranch twice in the winter months.  It was highly recommended by a friend who had taken her family there in both the summer and winter.  It is just under a 3 hour drive from Brick, so it’s not a bad ride to get there.  They even provide free pickup service from the Poughkeepsie Train Station or Stewart Airport if that’s your preferred method of travel.

I decided to go to Rocking Horse Ranch the first time in February 2009 after researching prices to take my kids skiing for the first time.  They were only 4, 6 and 8 so I needed to get each of them lessons and we all needed ski rentals.  Without even staying over anywhere, I was floored by the cost.  I looked into Rocking Horse Ranch and they were offering a special price the week before President’s Weekend.  Although I had to pull the kids out of school, we were able to book 3 days and 2 nights with them for not too much more than one afternoon at a Pocono based ski resort!

We had so much fun that we decided to try and go back about every other year, but we couldn’t stay away and went again this year!  The resort allows you to arrive as early as you’d like and use their facility even if you can’t check into your room.  They also let you stay as late as you’d like on your last day.  We got up early and arrived at 10:00am which is when the ski slopes open up.  My kids were so excited to try this new sport!  When we first arrived, our initial reaction to the size of their hills was disappointment.  However, once we realized the two of us hadn’t been on a ski slope for over 10 years, the hill seemed much bigger and more manageable!  And… it was so perfect for the kids.

As long as the temperatures remain low enough, RHR has 100% snow making ability.  They have a ski rental room where you fill out a form your first day with a release and all your pertinent information.  That form gets filed during your stay so all you have to do is give them your name and they pull out the right size boots and skis for you each time.  You get to know the staff very quickly while you are there since it is a very personal experience.  There is a bunny hill to learn on (they call it the “never ever area”) with instructors right there to help you learn how to snowplow and turn and use the rope lifts.  After one morning of lessons my boys were going half way up “the big hill” and by the second day they were going all the way to the top and skiing down by themselves.  You can ski from 10am to 4pm daily.

All your meals at Rocking Horse Ranch are included in the price of your stay.  On your first day, you don’t get lunch so prepare ahead for that if you plan to arrive early like we did.  We packed a lunch and ate it in the lobby which has many inviting couches, seats and tables, a bar and a fireplace.  There is also a side room (called the Round-up Room) with more seating, a big table and a TV.  That room has hot chocolate and coffee available with free food such as pound cake, cookies, brownies, etc.  There is also free At the dining room, you are seated with other guests at tables of 8 or 10.  The Turks wanted to set it up this way so that guests had a chance to mingle and get to know each other.  Breakfast and lunch are buffet style and there is a great variety to choose from.  Dinner is ordered from a menu of about 5 appetizer choices and 5 dinner choices.  They wanted to avoid a buffet style at every meal and give the guests the chance to “be served.”

Guests come mainly from Long Island, New York City, Westchester, north and central New Jersey, Connecticut and Massachusetts.  The general demographics of their average guest family has kids that range in age from 2 to 13.  They do not charge for children under age 4.  They have a supervised day camp and nursery for the youngest guests if you care to take advantage of that, and have activities for the tweens and teens too!  There is a Wii room where you can play wii games for free, as well as an arcade room with various video games and a ping pong table.  Every evening they have entertainment.  The ranch scouts for their entertainment in New York City as well as via the internet and by holding trial runs at the ranch.  A musical guest generally starts off and the headliner is either a magician, ventriloquist, juggler, circus act, comedian or general family entertainer!  All the acts we’ve seen were great and fun for the whole family.  We made sure we didn’t miss any of them while we were there.

Also during the winter months they offer night snow tubing from 7-9:30, weather permitting.  At the base of the run they have a bonfire where you can keep warm and provide marshmallows for roasting after a frosty ride!  By the end of the day, the tubing trail gets slick so the rides are fun and fast!  Another activity you don’t want to miss!

Although we’ve only been there in the winter, their busiest season begins at the end of June when school lets out and runs through Labor Day.  They are always at full capacity with 120 rooms booked solid.  They have a main lodge and a detached lodge called the Oklahoma Building.  The main lodge has 2 room sizes which can accommodate up to 4 people, or up to 6 people.  Bunk beds are provided in the larger rooms and some even connect with other rooms if you are staying with other families.  Oklahoma rooms are less expensive but only hold up to 2 people, or up to 6 people.  More rooms are expected to be built in coming years.

In the summer, the activities are endless.  They have a lake on site.  They provide waterskiing rides where you are taken around the lake 3 times and have a bar on the side of the boat to hold onto which is easier than attempting to get up when pulled by a rope.  There is no age limit; you just need to know how to swim.  They also have banana boat rides where you have up to 10 people straddling a big banana boat that is pulled by a ski boat.  For those that want a more serene ride, you can go kayaking or get on a paddle boat and ride around the lake.

There is catch and release fishing for fresh water bass.  You can play miniature golf, tennis, horseshoes, bocce ball and shuffle board.  There is both organized and “pick up” play for basketball, volleyball and softball.  For the adult crowds, there is “beer” softball and “beer” volleyball activities which are always a hoot.  There is the outdoor pool to utilize in the summer, as well as the indoor pool all year round.  You feel like you are on a campus with something to do at every turn.

Of course, we can’t forget about the horses.  There is horseback riding available every day.  They have 4 trail rides times during the week and 6 on the weekends.  There are 3 levels of rides including beginners, novice and advanced.  The beginner trail rides are the most popular and they have many wranglers along the trails making sure everyone has control of their horses.  You walk along the wooded trails at that level.  The novice riders do get to trot a little.  If you don’t have the skills to maintain proper control of your horse, then they will take you over to the beginner riders.  The advanced riders get to canter (gallop) with the horses along the trails.  The saddles are western so you have to be comfortable in that style.  I rode horses as a young girl but learned English so I was actually dropped down to novice when I was told I wasn’t keeping my but in the saddle!  I’m used to being up on my heels and posting!  All trail rides take about an hour and you must be 7 years old to ride.

If you have a younger child 6 or under, don’t worry, they have pony rides!  You can take your child over to the small area in the morning from 9:30-12:30 or after lunch between 2 and 3pm.  A staff member will walk your child around on a pony and you can ride as much and as often as you want.  Horse drawn hay rides are also available throughout the day.  They pick you up by the tennis courts and take you through the woods for a short ride.

Other activities which are available year round include the fun barn and rifle range.  The rifle range includes a shooting gallery and indoor archery.  The rifles shoot at an array of black light targets with air powered BB’s.  The fun barn is an indoor facility off by itself that’s great to visit as its own activity or a filler in between other events you are planning in your day.  There is a foam factory with interactive soft play with 10 air powered cannons, a climbing wall, a moon bounce, volleyball net and ping pong tables.  My kids love to go there.

There are activities and special events planned for each and every day.  These may include such things as riding demonstrations, tour of the stables, sports trivia, bingo, character lunches in the dining room, shoot out contest, scavenger hunts, horse betting, karaoke, arts & crafts, line dancing, etc, etc.  A schedule is available when you check in or can be picked up at any time at the front desk during your stay.

Don’t forget to take some time out for yourself.  Relax, rejuvenate and refresh yourself at the massage and facial center.  These services are not included in the price but rates are competitive.  There is also a fully equipped exercise room and men and women sauna rooms to enjoy.

New in 2009 is the Big Splash Indoor Water Park.  It was an expansion to the indoor pool area and now includes interactive fountains and dumping buckets, twin slides for toddlers, a water walk challenge with cargo netting, mini geysers and a 230 foot giant waterslide.

Don’t forget to visit their Gift Shoppe located right in the lobby.  I love to get Christmas tree ornaments from our vacations and they have a few on hand.  It’s always nice to go home with a souvenir so you can be reminded of the wonderful stay you had at Rocking Horse Ranch!

Over the next 5 years, they are planning to add on about 30 more rooms, increase the size of their dining room (and possibly have the option of eating at your own table instead of with other guests), provide a public meeting space, add on to their new indoor water slides and change their ski rope lifts to a magic carpet lift.  They are constantly looking for ways to attract and maintain their guests as well as keep them happy while they are there.  We sure were happy every time we went and are looking forward to our next visit!

Rocking Horse Ranch is located at 600 Route 44/45 Highland, NY 12528.  You can contact them at 1-800-647-2624 or visit their website at www.rockinghorseranch.com. There is a lot of information on the site and rates are posted for various seasons.  I also suggest signing up for their email list so you can take advantage of promotions and specials.

By Tricia Berwick

You have every book and magazine article on what to expect when your new baby arrives. A few relatives have provided some valuable words of wisdom regarding newborn care, too. However, you’re still very apprehensive about how you’re actually going to deliver this new life and what will really happen when your bundle of joy enters the world. Your questions are endless: How am I going to survive the birthing process? What are my options to help with the pain? Will I be able to successfully feed my baby? When is it reasonable for a baby to sleep through the night? What happens if my baby gets sick? Will I know how to soothe and console my crying infant? How will I be able to take care of baby and still do the laundry, cook dinner, and have a little time for myself? Will my husband and I ever be able to go out again?

If you would like these questions and others discussed and answered by someone who has years of experience with infants, sign up for Sung Star Academy’s newest program called, “Baby Basic Classes for Expecting Parents.” Kellie Schmitt, a registered nurse at Sung Star Academy in Toms River, will conduct the four-week session which begins on June 22. The brand-new class is geared for first-time moms and dads who are looking for some valuable information during this exciting time of parenthood. The classes are not formal, so expectant moms can come dressed in comfortable clothes or bring whatever else they may need (such as a support pillow) to make the class a more enjoyable and worthwhile experience.

Schmitt hopes to educate new parents during this program by showing them real-life techniques and strategies about caring for infants.
“Being a new parent is a very overwhelming experience,” says Schmitt. “You read all about it in a book, but you don’t know what to expect when it’s your own child; you feel helpless. Knowing as much as you can to help you and your child is beneficial.”

The first class, titled, “The Birthing Experience” will provide useful information about the labor and delivery process, including what to expect if a caesarian-section is required. Options for pain management will also be discussed. Questions will be answered regarding who is allowed in the delivery room, the father’s role and what is expected of him as his wife’s labor coach, and the recovery process after the birth. During this two-hour class, Schmitt will show a film called, “The Stages of Labor” to give both parents an idea of what exactly will take place in the delivery room.

The second class, called “Bringing Home Baby” will help parents learn about proper newborn care. Even with years training, Schmitt says everything changes when it’s your own child and you’re alone with an inconsolable, crying infant.

“I’m an experienced nurse, but when I first brought home my baby, I didn’t know the difference between a hunger cry or a cry that meant the baby was in pain,” says Schmitt. “It’s very scary and overwhelming at the beginning and this class will help parents learn how to care for their newborn. Some fathers have never even held a baby, so this is good, hands-on practice so they can be prepared. We’ll also discuss how to properly diaper and swaddle a baby, crib safety, and which products to buy.”

In the third class, Schmitt will discuss how to bond with baby and the importance of developing a strong and reliable support system of caregivers. The first few weeks and months can be extremely overwhelming, so it’s important for parents to enlist the help of loved ones whom they trust to help out whenever needed. For example, maybe a grandparent or caregiver can take care of baby while mom or dad takes a much needed nap. Or maybe someone could go shopping or run a few errands for the family. It’s critical for the parents to receive assistance during this period of adjustment. Schmitt will also discuss how to combat the “baby blues” which many new moms experience during the first few weeks of parenthood. In addition, survival strategies will be discussed such as sleeping when the baby sleeps or making easy, stress-free dinners in the crock pot. The main goals of this class are to make the parents’ lives easier by devising coping mechanisms and developing a loving and trustworthy support system of caregivers.

The last class will discuss when it’s necessary to contact the doctor with medical concerns and issues. Schmitt will go over the symptoms of reflux, which affects many newborns and how to help infants overcome colic.

“Acid Reflux is a common problem with babies,” says Schmitt. “We will go over what parents can do to help their babies to relieve some of the symptoms such as elevating the crib or keeping baby upright for thirty minutes after a feeding.”

However, even with all of the ideas and tips to help make baby feel better, Schmitt will tell parents that they should always feel comfortable to call the child’s pediatrician with any concerns or questions.

“I always tell parents not to hesitate to call the doctor, even if it’s in the middle of the night,” says Schmitt. “That’s what they are there for. Parents should never feel embarrassed about calling the doctor.”

At the end of the four-week program, parents will receive a basket of baby goodies to use upon baby’s arrival. Also, if a family decides to register a child for any of Sung Star Academy’s future classes, the school will automatically waive the registration fee. If this program sounds like something you and your spouse would find beneficial, contact the school at 732-341-7500, or visit sungstaracademy.com for more information.

By Jennifer Enright

Focus on
the Family
The Durrua Family

It’s all about the great outdoors for the Durrua family. Parents John and Jenn both spent their childhoods outside and on the water. Jenn’s family was very involved in sailing and John’s father, Walt, was so taken with water sports that he founded Brick’s own Jersey Paddler store out of the back of his Sunoco gas station in the 1980’s. When the old Laurelton Circle was re-designed as a five-way intersection in 1991, Walt took the opportunity to build the charming building that now houses the store on the old Sunoco site. Although Walt officially retired ten years ago, he’s still a daily fixture in the store, while John runs the family business. Jenn works as a speech therapist. The Durrua children, eight-year-old twins Megan and Kate and big brother, Adam, 12, are following in their parents’ footsteps, spending much of their time in outdoor adventures. John and Jenn have recently divorced, but their commitment to raising the children with plenty of outside time has remained unchanged. “We strive as parents to do what is best for the kids with academics and activities,” notes Jenn. “We work amicably to address issues – we really have each other’s backs,” she continues. “We want the kids to have full and balanced lives, with two loving parents,” John adds. Talking with both parents, it’s imminently clear that they are dedicated to providing the kids with lots of opportunities to participate in the activities they themselves love so much.

When describing the children, a theme becomes apparent. Jenn and John both consider all three kids outgoing and adventurous. “I always think of Adam as ‘comfortable in his own skin’,” says Jenn. John brings Adam along to the consumer show for paddle sport enthusiasts in Somerset, NJ, he attends as a vendor each year, where Adam greets, and charms, customers. “I’ve been told he’s getting a great education in business, starting so young,” John proudly states. Adam will also be an ambassador at a youth summit commissioned by an outdoor industry group in Central Park, NY, later this year. Jenn observes that Megan and Kate do not follow the common twin pattern of displaying opposite personalities, instead calling them “pretty equal in nature,” although John says Kate is a tad more “girly-girl”, while Megan is a bit of a “jokester.”

The children’s activities are varied. All enjoy sailing and paddling, and as members of the Metedeconk River Yacht Club, they spend lots of time swimming and sailing regattas during the summer months. They enjoy camping at Round Valley and hiking at Hartshorne Park in Navesink. With John, they’re likely to spend a day waterfall hunting in Pennsylvania’s Dingmans Ferry or biking at Sandy Hook or along the Delaware River in New Hope, PA. Winter finds them skiing on nearby mountain trails, and ice skating at the Wall Skating Rink. For a treat, Jenn and the kids will board the train in Point Pleasant Beach and head to the Red Bank Armory for ice skating. The girls took part in the Point Pleasant Education Foundation triathlon last fall and solo kayaked some Class I rapids for the first time. John and Adam recently completed New York’s Five Borough Bike Tour, a 42-mile adventure! Megan and Kate also take gymnastics at Devlin in Wall. “They all participate in these non-traditional sports – it just works for us,” Jenn declares. “The kids want to try lots of things and I love that they are so well-rounded and engaged in what I think of as life-time activities. They are not ‘TV’ kids – they’d rather be outside, even in the winter. Sometimes I’ll be trying to get something done, and I’ll tell them to go watch television for a change,” she adds with a laugh.

Jenn explains that while the family avoids the local tourist traps in the summer, they love to take advantage of them during the off-season. They enjoy spending cold winter days in the boardwalk arcades or biking around town. A leisurely afternoon spent painting pottery at Git Fired Up in Point Beach is always a hit. Jenn and the kids usually prepare hearty meals at home, but on particularly hectic days, Surf Taco and Point Pleasant’s Hickory Hog are favorite spots for a quick dinner, and Jenn shares the secret of great take-out food available at the Point Lobster Company in Point Beach. For dessert, they often hit Hoffman’s Ice Cream or the Lighthouse Italian Ice, both in Point Beach. When staying with John at his new home in Brick, the family usually cooks at home, often grilling a backyard barbecue.

Each summer, the kids and Jenn join her parents for their annual summer trip on their 36-foot sailboat. Last year, they ventured to Block Island, Rhode Island, with plans to sail to Mystic, Connecticut, this summer. John was thrilled to take Adam on a business trip to the Bell Canoe Factory in LaCrosse, Wisconsin, last year, where they were able to test canoes on the lake. They both like to take day trips with the kids, as well. “We’re all stressed for time, and I look for little windows of opportunity to do things with the kids,” says John.

When she gets a bit of kid-free time, Jenn enjoys sailing, sometimes taking part in a local regatta. John grabs a canoe or kayak for some solo paddling time, when he’s not busy at work or with the kids. But both enjoy the same activities with the kids, so that’s often how they choose to spend their time.

As for utilizing Your Child Today’s advertisers, Jenn quickly exclaims her loyalty to Pied Piper Swim School. “All three kids went there for lessons – I absolutely swear by them,” she remarks. “They are so wonderful, they have such patience and skills understanding children. They have quite a method and can overcome a child’s fears by being consistent. I believe it’s so important for kids to be good swimmers, especially living here,” she adds.

John’s parenting advice can be summed up in three words – “never show fear”, he jokingly says. Clarifying, he remarks that raising children has been an adventure unto itself. He loves spending time with his kids, although he notes that there is no such thing as a typical day when they are all together.

For Jenn, it’s important that the kids stay active, but she doesn’t want them to feel pressure to commit to one sport or activity just yet. “A lot of activities push kids to invest so much time that there’s none left over for other things. Unless and until they tell me they’re ready to make one sole thing their focus, I want them to do lots of things. I think it makes them feel successful, to have so many different skills.”

But she’s a bit sentimental about the idea that her children’s passion for outdoor activities can be traced back to their grandparents. “It’s really neat that John’s family passed down the traditions of canoeing and camping, and my family passed down a love of sailing – what a perfect match!”

June 4
Music Man Singing Ice Cream Shoppe, 2305 Grand Central Ave. (Route 35 north). Shows start at 6 pm. A Broadway cabaret comes with the sundae. Information: 732-854-2779 – www.njmusicman.com – LAVALLETTE

Scouting Night, Jenkinson’s Boardwalk. 5 pm – 11 pm. 2-for-1 Admission to the Fun House, Cast-a-way Cove and Aquarium. Family Happy Hour Specials & $5 off the wristband in Amusement Park. All Offers Available with Participation in Each Week’s Themed Organization, bring your sash/shirt/vest. Information: 732-892-0600 or www.jenkinsons.com
- POINT PLEASANT BEACH

June 5
Bay Head’s Town-Wide Garage Sale. Rain date June 6th. Information: www.bayheadnj.org/bhnj – BAY HEAD

Trail Exploration Day, Forest Resource Education Center, 370 E. Veterans Highway. 10 am – 2 pm. Includes one hour guided hikes, arboretum, sensory awareness, forest discovery, swamp life, bluebird trail, forest products.irewise trail and changing forest hike, free Information: www.njforestrycenter.org – JACKSON

One Fish, Two Fish: World Ocean Day, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. All day. Join us as we celebrate 50 years of fun in the sea with Dr. Seuss and learn how to ensure the health of our oceans. Included with general admission. Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com
- POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Toms River Founders Day, downtown, Washington St. Parade start at 11 am. Festival ends at 4:30 pm. Annual event is moving from an early to mid-morning opening. Event will be highlighted with an encampment featuring the Second Brigade of New Jersey Civil War reenactors, and celebrates the 150th Anniversary of the election of Abraham Lincoln with a street fair and beer garden and bands through the afternoon. Raindate June 9. Information: 732-341-1000,
732-349-0220 – TOMS RIVER

June 6
Let Your Spirits Soar – Preview for 2nd Annual International Film Festival, Daddy O, Long Beach Blvd. 6:30 pm – 9 pm. Cost includes food, wine and door prizes. Information: 609-361-1668, 609-494-7211 or www.LighthousefilmFestival.org – BRANT BEACH/LONG BEACH ISLAND

Open House and Half Hour Sailing Adventure, Nelson Sailing Center, 12 Lake Dr. 11 am – 3:30 pm. In conjunction with the Barnegat Bay Festival, Nelson Sailing Center will host an Open House featuring a half hour Sailing Adventures (the “green” way of boating) $. Free shuttle connects festival with sailing dock. Information: 732-270-6510 or www.nelsonsailingcenter.com
- ISLAND HEIGHTS

Lighthouse International Film Festival, VariousTimes/Locations. Dedicated to showcasing new and innovative films and fostering the next generation of filmmakers. Films, panels, Q&A’s, networking, parties and surfing, drawing film critics, producers and distributors. $ Information and schedule: 609-494-7211 or lighthousefilmfestival.org
- LONG BEACH ISLAND

June 8
Bed & Breakfast Tours, The Sand Castle, 710 Bayview Ave & Minerva’s, 13 W. 7th St. Noon – 1 pm. B & B tours. Information: 609-361-CONE or www.barnegatlight.org – BARNEGAT LIGHT

June 9
Celebrate Jersey Fresh Fruits: Strawberries, Toms River Farmers Market, Huddy Park, on Water Street. 11 am – 5 pm. Rain or shine. 1st Wednesday of each month from June 9 – October 27. Enter to win a basket of Jersey Fresh produce! Farmers & vendors will feature the fruit of the month. Demonstrations & sampling by Downtown restaurants and businesses. Information: 732-341-8738 or www.downtowntomsriver.com
- TOMS RIVER

Cruisin’ Downtown 2010, downtown Toms River, Washington St. 6-9 pm. Live Bands & Entertainment, street vendors, contests along with classic cars & motorcycles. Information: 732-341-8738 orwww.address.com – TOMS RIVER

June 11
Music Man Singing Ice Cream Shoppe, 2305 Grand Central Ave. (Route 35 north). Shows start at 6 pm. A Broadway cabaret comes with the sundae. Information: 732-854-2779 – www.njmusicman.com – LAVALLETTE

Teacher & School Administration and Staff Appreciation Night, Jenkinson’s Boardwalk. 5 pm – 11 pm. 2-for-1 Admission to the Fun House, Cast-a-way Cove and Aquarium. Family Happy Hour Specials & $5 off the wristband in Amusement Park. All Offers Available with Participation in Each Week’s Themed Organization, bring your ID or proof of employment. Information: 732-892-0600 or www.jenkinsons.com
- POINT PLEASANT BEACH

June 12

LBIFest, Bayview Park & Long Beach Township Complex, 6805 Long Beach Blvd. 11 am – 6 pm. Free family fun in support of Re-Clam the Bay, local food, merchants, beer, music, local art, fun and games. Information: 609-494-3555 or www.LBIfest.com – BEACH HAVEN/LONG BEACH ISLAND

ONE-DAY Boating Safety Certificate Course, SOCH Ocean Club/Family Resource Center, 700 South Route 9. 8:30 am – 5:00 pm. Course stresses safe boating practice and boating rules. As of June 1, 2009, NJ Law requires all boaters 16 and older obtain a Boating Safety Certificate. Information or pre-registration: 609-597-4876 or 609-597-1295 – MANAHAWKIN

June 15
Free Wellness Moms America meeting,
All moms are invited including new and expecting moms, and moms interested in maximizing their kids immune and brain function. Great topics and networking. Next meeting is Tuesday,
June 15th 7:00pm at 3201 Bridge Ave. Point Pleasant. For more information call 732-295-0707 or email drswarner@aol.com

June 18
“A” on your Report Card, Jenkinson’s Boardwalk. 5 pm – 11 pm. 2-for-1 Admission to the Fun House, Cast-a-way Cove and Aquarium. Family Happy Hour Specials & $5 off the wristband in Amusement Park. All Offers Available with Participation in Each Week’s Themed Organization, bring any report card from the 2009-2010 school year with an A on it. Information: 732-892-0600 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

June 19
Look Who’s Cooking, Christ Episcopal Church, Washington Street. 6:00 – 8:00 pm. This event features more than 50 Men of Distinction who will offer up their culinary specialties for an evening of tasting, elegance, and good will. Door Prizes, 50/50 Cash Raffle. Fundraiser for the Family Planning Center of Ocean County. Cost includes complimentary Wine and Beer. Information: 732-364-9696 or 609-242-6927 – TOMS RIVER
Behind the Scenes Tours, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 11 am. Discover what goes on behind the scenes at their aquarium while you tour the building front top to bottom. Sneakers required. Pre-register. Ages 5 and up. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

18th Annual Baymen’s Seafood Music Festival, Tuckerton Seaport, 120 W. Main St., Rt. 9. 11 am – 5 pm. Enjoy delicious Jersey fresh clams, crabs, scallops and shrimp from the finest local seafood purveyors while listening to Shorty Long and The Jersey Horns. Speak with commercial fishermen to learn about occupations on the bay or take a clam shucking class. Crafters, vendors, music, food, refreshments, family activities, demonstrations, boat rides. New for 2010… Mermaid and King Neptune contests! So bring the family and plan to spend the whole day. $ Information: 609-296-8868 or www.tuckertonseaport.org – TUCKERTON

June 20
Outdoor Concerts 2010: Festive Flutes, The Amphitheater, Drum Point School, Drum Point Rd. 7 pm. Free. Information: 732-262-1044 – BRICK

Fathers Day, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. All Day. Dads free with paid child admission. Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

June 24
HANNAH BANANA, game show edition, Music Man Singing Ice Cream Shoppe, 2305 Grand Central Ave. (Route 35 north). 5 pm. Featuring songs from Hannah Montana. When you purchase sundae the show is FREE. Reservations Required. Information: 732-854-2779 or www.njmusicman.com – LAVALLETTE

June 26
Concert: Rock N’ on the River, Huddy Park, Water St. 5 pm – 9 pm. Summer concert presented by The Music Academy. Information: 732-341-8738 or www.downtowntomsriver.com
- TOMS RIVER

June 27
A Taste of the Island Porch Party, Long Beach Island Historical Museum, Engleside & Beach Aves. 5 – 7 pm. Cost includes appetizers from Island Restaurants & wine. $ Information: 609-492-0700 or www.lbimuseum.org – BEACH HAVEN/LONG BEACH ISLAND

Children’s Theatre: The Princess and the Pea, Surflight Theatre, Engleside & Beach. 6:00 p.m. $ Information: 609-492-9477 or www.surflight.org – BEACH HAVEN/LONG BEACH ISLAND

Twelfth Annual Pine Beach 5k Run and 1-Mile Riverside Run, Vista Park, Riverside Dr. 1-mile run starts at 8:15 am, 5k Race starts at 9 am. Cash prizes. Proceeds from the Pine Beach 5K will benefit local charities. Information: 732-349-6425 or www.pinebeachborough.us
- PINE BEACH

June 29
Dissection Workshop, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 11 am. Get your hands dirty dissecting a fish and squid and learn the differences between the two animals. Ages 12 and up. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com
- POINT PLEASANT BEACH