Archive | November 2010

Take The Stress Out Of Hosting Your Child’s Next Birthday Bash

Goodie bags stuffed with cool prizes, creative crafts, fun games for all of the kids, and lots of yummy treats.   For the past ten years, this has been Yvonne Sirisky’s formula for hosting festive and memorable birthday celebrations for her three sons ages 10, 7 and 4.  Her parties always have a theme, whether it’s sports, a popular television show, or favorite kids’ characters.  Over the years, many friends and family members have complimented Sirisky for her creativity and enthusiasm in planning these parties for her children.   In fact, this busy mom of three has received so much positive feedback that she recently felt compelled to start her own business.  After some careful consideration, “Yvonne’s Theme Parties—Specializing in Children’s Parties and Bingo” was launched last spring.

“For years, people have told me that I should do this professionally,” says Yvonne who simply prefers to be known by her first name.  “Parents have approached me after a party and asked me if I was a professional party planner.  Some parents actually told me that I missed my calling!  After a few requests from parents to help plan and host parties for their own children, I made the decision to start my own business.  Now that I have developed my own company, I am really enjoying it a lot.  I was made for this business because I am generally a very bubbly person and I love to entertain.   I am very passionate and excited about planning parties for children and seeing them happy and having a great time.”

In today’s busy and fast-paced society, Yvonne’s business provides a service that comes in very handy for families who are always on the go.  Very often parents have many creative ideas, but they simply do not have the time to gather the materials and shop for the necessary items in order to make the party successful.  However, Yvonne’s business can take care of all that for today’s frantic parents.  Once the birthday child decides on a theme, “Yvonne’s Theme Parties” handles all of the details.  Yvonne will prepare every aspect of your child’s big day—from the invitations to the party favors.  Then, she will set everything up at your house so the party can run smoothly.  If you prefer, she can also facilitate the party and keep the kids entertained.  Yvonne is happy to host the celebration, also.  She finds that many parents ask her to stay and host because it takes a lot of pressure off of the parents.

“I can create any theme a child wants and I can also come and host the party,” says Yvonne.  “This way, the parents can actually enjoy the party with their child.”

Diane Dietrich’s children have attended a few of Yvonne’s parties over the years.  She says her parties are always a hit with the little ones.

“I went to her son’s birthday party and it was just amazing,” says Dietrich.  “The party was so well-organized from the beginning to the end.  There was always something going on for the kids, like a game or a craft.  She had a “Handy Manny” party for her son and had construction tape all around the house.  The kids decorated construction helmets for favors.  There was never a dull moment at the party.  She is such a fun, bright and bubbly person and always keeps the kids happy and having fun.”

Michelle Crisalli and her children have also thoroughly enjoyed Yvonne’s parties.  They particularly had a great time at the pirate and cooking parties.

“The parties were great because the kids were going nonstop,” says Crisalli.  “At the pirate party, the kids were greeted with a craft and decorated a pirate hat.  Then, they participated in a scavenger hunt.  At the cooking party, the kids wore chef hats, started a recipe book, made pizza and then had a scavenger hunt.  She will customize the scavenger hunt and the games to the theme of the party.  For example, at the cooking party, the kids looked for a spatula in the scavenger hunt and they played pass the ‘hot potato” for a game.  It’s obvious how much time and energy she puts into planning the parties.”

In addition to children’s theme parties, Yvonne can also plan a bingo party for a girls’ night out.  For example, a hostess agrees to have the party in her home and supply the food and drinks.  Yvonne then brings the bingo game and all of the accessories.  She also hosts the party and calls all of the numbers for your best girlfriends.

Dietrich asked Yvonne to host a bingo night party for her girlfriends and said it was a great way to relax and have a few laughs in the comfort of someone’s home.

“They all said it was the best party they had ever been to and would love to do it again soon” says Dietrich.

Crisalli has also enjoyed a few laughs and giggles with her girlfriends at this unique girls’ night out.

“She also hosted a bingo party which was fabulous,” says Crisalli.  “For working moms to have a night out, it was definitely a lot of fun.  She brought the bingo cards and was in charge of the whole party.”

If you would like Yvonne to plan and/or host your child’s next birthday party, please call 609-713-6827 or visit her website at www.yvonnesthemeparties.com.  Even if you’re not sure of what type of theme your child would be interested in, there are plenty of pictures to browse through to generate ideas and customize a party that will be appropriate and fun for your individual child.  Yvonne also participates in local events throughout the area, so visit the website for more information about where you might see her creativity and bubbly personality near you.

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About The Cover November

About The Cover

By Sue Gerard

Can you believe the holidays are right around the corner?  We certainly have been enjoying some nice fall weather.  However, we did move indoors for this month’s cover which features the Valero girls: Sopia, Isabella and Bianca.  Thanks to Irene, the owner of Color Me Mine, for allowing us to shoot in her studio and for providing the platter the girls are holding.

I’m still shooting on location at the beach or the park, but will start shooting in my studio in November for those who don’t want to brave the great outdoors.  Holiday Card orders are already flooding in so don’t miss out on a chance to get a great photo out to all your family and friends this year… not to mention less hassle if you usually try to photograph your kids on your own!  Portraits are also a great gift to give during the holiday season.

My job as a portrait photographer is so rewarding and fun.  It is wonderful to be able to do what you love and have others love what you do! While we all lead busy lives, I feel it is vital that we take the time to preserve memories and celebrate the love of family.  I hope I can capture some memories for you during this holiday season!

Sue’s Point of View

Children & Family Portraits

Photography by Sue Gerard

Serving the Jersey Shore & Beyond

Email: sue@suespointofview.com

Website: www.suespointofview.com

(732) 899-3049

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Thanksgiving Traditions

By Tricia Berwick

Turkey and all of the trimmings, pumpkin pie, and plenty of football games can only mean one thing—Thanksgiving Day is here.  On the fourth Thursday of November, Americans will gather around a large dining room table, give thanks, and then enjoy a sumptuous holiday meal.  Of course, this festive feast is always the focal point of everyone’s day, but there are also many other ways to celebrate Thanksgiving with loved ones.

If your family has never attended The Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, maybe it’s time to pack up the car and plan a trip into New York.  It’s one of those once-in-a-lifetime events that you must see in person to fully appreciate.  This famous parade will kick off the holidays in New York City and on NBC on November 25.  The exciting holiday tradition is seen by more than 3.5 million people who line the streets in New York and another 50 million people who watch the events on television across the country.  The parade will begin at 77th Street and Central Park West and conclude at 34th Street and 7th Avenue.

Kids love to watch their favorite characters as huge balloons and on colorful floats, the nation’s best marching bands, hundreds of cheering clowns, and a host of celebrities.  And of course, everyone looks forward to the first glimpse of the big red guy himself, Santa Claus.  Seeing Old St. Nick dressed in his fancy suit always kicks off the beginning of the holiday season.   If your family is going to travel into New York City to see the parade this year, it would be a good idea to get there super early.  According to the parade’s website, www.social.macys.com/parade2010, spectators line up as early as 6:30 AM to get good seats.  You can also find detailed information about the parade route and read all about the parade’s history on the website.  In addition, kids can enjoy an interactive experience by playing parade-themed puzzle and matching games.  If your family prefers to watch the holiday sights and sounds from the comfort of home, your children can still participate by creating their own parade routes on the Macy’s website.  The kids will have a blast choosing their favorite balloons and floats to line the city’s streets.

If you would like to teach your children about giving back to the community, find out which soup kitchens are located in your area and donate your time for the holiday.  Another option is to either donate food items or volunteer time at the FoodBank of Monmouth and Ocean Counties (www.foodbankmoc.org).  Take a few minutes to browse through the website which provides information about how to become involved as a volunteer.  Today the FoodBank serves over 270 pantries, soup kitchens and other feeding programs with over 5 million pounds of food annually.  The FoodBank also operates a Culinary Training Program for people in need of better-paid jobs, a Kids’ Café, Backpack Program for children, a Mobile Pantry, and a Food Stamp Outreach Program.

If your family will be home for the holiday, begin a new tradition.  One idea is to create a “thankful basket” which will become the centerpiece of the holiday table and a conversation starter as guests enter your home to celebrate the occasion.  My husband and I began this tradition a few years ago when we hosted our first Thanksgiving, and now it is something our children and their cousins look forward to every year.  We started the collection by putting our own thankful thoughts down on paper and putting them in a basket.  We then asked everyone to include theirs as they arrived.  During dinner, the kids had tons of fun picking out the slips of paper and having us read the responses.  Of course, the responses led to some stories, laughs, and great conversation.   My husband and I felt this really taught our daughters about the meaning of the holiday and I would recommend it for any family this holiday season.

If you will be cooking in the kitchen most of the day on Thanksgiving, keep the kids busy by setting them up with an easy craft.  Place cards are the perfect way for your guests to know exactly where to sit around the Thanksgiving table, so give your kids a few supplies and let them go to work!  Only three supplies are needed for this cute and easy craft: a non toxic ink pad, blank cards, and markers.  First, have your kids place a thumb into the ink pad and then onto the blank card to print a turkey’s body.  Your children will then use the same technique with their fingertips to create a head and feathers.  Then, it’s time to use a few markers and add a beak, wattle, and feet.  This is the time your kids can be colorful and creative, too!  The final step is to write the guests’ names on the cards.  Not only is the craft colorful and creative, it’s also educational as children practice handwriting skills.  When the craft is completed, each place setting around the Thanksgiving table will be decorated with a colorful turkey.  Also, every guest will have a special keepsake or party favor to take home, also.

As Thanksgiving Day 2010 approaches, Americans will celebrate in a number of different ways.  Whether you are participating in a parade, helping those who are less fortunate, attending a local football game, or engaging the children in a few meaningful crafts, take a few minutes to savor the true meaning of the holiday.  As we prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving, it’s important to slow down and remember all of the things you have to be grateful for in your life.   It may be easy to get caught up in the daily routine and forget what is truly important, but it just takes one trying situation to make you count your blessings.

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November Calendar of Events

November 5

The Hitman Murder Mysteries: Cruisin’ for a Deadly Bruisin’, White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. 6:30 pm. Cost includes Titanic II, cruise-ship buffet and murder. Information: 732-830-4242 or www.thewhitepearl.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

Paul Venier, The One Man Comedy Tornado, East Dover Fire Company #4, 629 Fischer Blvd. 6:30 pm. Cost includes comedy show and buffer dinner including beverages. Information: 732-349-8801 or www.mondonhs.com – TOMS RIVER

November 6

Six Flags GRAPE Adventure – A Wine & Food Experience, Six Flags Great Adventure, Rte. 537. noon – 5 pm. Eight NJ Wineries and Chefs from Ocean and Monmouth Counties battle for the “Jersey Shore Ultimate Chef Award.” Live music, Matt O’Ree. Sign up for custom safari tour and special wine tasting among the giraffes $ in advance, on-line use Promo Code WINE. Free parking, theme park closed. $ in advance, on-line. Information: 732-928-1821 or www.sixflags.com/greatAdventure – JACKSON

Annual Tea, Historic Strand Theatre, 400 Clifton Ave. 1 pm. In observance of the 65th anniversary of the end of World War II, music of the forties. Presented by the Lakewood Historical Society. $ Information: 732-276-7944 or twp.lakewood.nj.us – LAKEWOOD

Murder Mystery, White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. Murder Mystery Show. One Night Accommodations, Bottle of Blueberry Champagne, Cheese & Crackers Welcome Basket, Buffet Dinner for 2 catered by Caterer Jacques, free transportation to clubs in town, Valet parking for Hotel , Pearl Special Sunday Breakfast. Additional night can be added. Information: 732-830-4242 or www.thewhitepearl.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

Guided Tours of Museum Available, Ocean County Historical Society Museum, 26 Hadley Ave. 1 pm – 4 pm. Information: 732-341-1880 or www.oceancountyhistory.org – TOMS RIVER

Legend of the Jersey Devil Show, Albert Music Hall, 131 Wells Mills Rd., Rt. 532. Doors Open at 6:30 pm & music begins at 7:30 pm. Hear the famous legend of New Jersey’s “Jersey Devil” and be entertained by Pineland’s music style. Refreshments available. $ Information: 609-971-1593 or www.alberthall.org – WARETOWN

November 7

Six Flags GRAPE Adventure – A Wine & Food Experience, Six Flags Great Adventure, Rte. 537. noon – 5 pm. Eight NJ Wineries and Chefs from Ocean and Monmouth Counties battle for the “Jersey Shore Ultimate Chef Award.” Live music, Frankie Cicale & Bernard “Pretty”Purdie. Sign up for custom safari tour and special wine tasting among the giraffes $ in advance, on-line use Promo Code WINE. Free parking, theme park closed. $ in advance, on-line. Information: 732-928-1821 or www.sixflags.com/greatAdventure – JACKSON

November 8

Cultural Hybridization of Latin Literature, Technology Building Lecture Hall, Ocean County College, College Drive, off Hooper Ave. 9:30 am – 10:45 am. A story of three men and women affected by cultural hybridization. Information: 732-255-0500 or www.ocean.edu – TOMS RIVER

November 9

Revolutionary War In Ocean County, Herbertsville Firehouse, 601 Herbertsville Rd. 7:30 pm. Tim Hart of the Ocean County Cultural and Heritage Commission will give a presentation about five Revolutionary War incidents that took place in Ocean County. Information: 732-458-7507 or www.bricktwphistoricalsociety.com – BRICK

Toddler Make and Take, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 10:30 am. Make marine life crafts, listen to a story, and learn about some of their animals. This workshop is for children ages 3-5 years old with an adult. Pre-register. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

November 11

Veterans Day Parade, Downtown Toms River, Main and Washington Sts. 9:30 am. Patriotic parade. Information: 732-341-8738 or www.downtowntomsriver.com/ – TOMS RIVER

November 12

A Murder Mystery Dinner, Auditorium, Central Region High School, Forest Hill Parkway. 5:30 pm. Presented by Central Regional High School Drama Club. $ Information: 732-269-1100 – BERKELEY TOWNSHIP

Monsignor Donovan High School Performing Arts Department presents: Rumors, Monsignor Donovan High School, 711 Hooper Avenue. 7:30 pm. Farcical play by Neil Simon. $ Information: 732-349-8801 or www.mondonhs.com – TOMS RIVER

Rodgers and Hammerstein’s A Grand Night for Singing, Ocean County College, College Drive, off Hooper Ave. 8 pm. Presented by Ocean County College Theatre Co. Cost includes friends and family dessert reception and a ticket to the show. Information: 732-255-0500 or www.ocean.edu – TOMS RIVER

November 13

Annual Craft/Vendor Fair, Gym, Southern Regional High School, Route 9. 9 am – 2 pm. Hosted by the Southern Regional Home and School Association. Information: 609-597-4579 or www.srsd.net – MANAHAWKIN

Proud to be a Piney! Pinelands Appreciation Day! Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. All Day. Discover why the country’s first national reserve is so unique, invoke your Piney Power and be proud of the Pinelands. Included with general admission. Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Getaway with a Smile, White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. Comedy Show. One Night Accommodations include Bottle of Blueberry Champagne, Welcome cheese & crackers basket, Dinner Buffet for 2 catered by Caterer Jacques, free transportation clubs in town, valet parking, Sunday morning breakfast. Additional night can be added. Information: 732-830-4242 or www.thewhitepearl.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

A Grand Night of Singing, Arts and Community Center, Ocean County College, College Drive, off Hooper Ave. 2 pm. Music by Richard Rodgers and lyrics by Oscar Hammerstein II. Directed by Arthur Waldman. Presented by Ocean County College Theatre Company. $ Information: 732-255-0500 or www.ocean.edu – TOMS RIVER

Monsignor Donovan High School Performing Arts Department presents: Rumors, Monsignor Donovan High School, 711 Hooper Avenue. 7:30 pm. Farcical play by Neil Simon. $ Information: 732-349-8801 or www.mondonhs.com – TOMS RIVER

November 14

Mrs. Gould’s Ninth Annual Holiday Social, The Mansion, Georgian Court University, 900 Lakewood Ave. 3 pm. Hear the saga of Edith and George Gould and their seven children while celebrating the holidays in the early 1900s. Cost includes performance and tea luncheon. Informaton: 732-987-2263 or www.georgian.edu – LAKEWOOD

Blithe Spirit by Noel Coward, Little Egg Harbor Community Center, W. Calabreeze Way. 2:30 pm. Play about spirits. $ Information: 609-442-7957 or www.littleeggtheatreco.org – LITTLE EGG HARBOR

General Hospital’s Jason Thompson & Kimberly McCullough, Uncle Vinnie’s Comedy Club, 518 Arnold Ave. 10 am – 2:30 pm. Soap opera stars’ meet and greet. $ Information: 732-899-3900 or www.unclevinniescomedyclub.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Monsignor Donovan High School Performing Arts Department presents: Rumors, Monsignor Donovan High School, 711 Hooper Avenue. 2 pm. Farcical play by Neil Simon. $ Information: 732-349-8801 or www.mondonhs.com – TOMS RIVER

November 16

Mrs. Gould’s Ninth Annual Holiday Social, The Mansion, Georgian Court University, 900 Lakewood Ave. 11:30 am. Hear the saga of Edith and George Gould and their seven children while celebrating the holidays in the early 1900s. Cost includes performance and tea luncheon. Informaton: 732-987-2263 or www.georgian.edu – LAKEWOOD

November 18

High School Musical, OceanFirst Theater, 1000 McKinley Ave. 6 pm. Disney Channel’s smash hit musical comes to life. $ Information: 609-489-8600 or www.njstac.com – MANAHAWKIN

November 19

High School Musical, OceanFirst Theater, 1000 McKinley Ave. 7:30 pm. Disney Channel’s smash hit musical comes to life. $ Information: 609-489-8600 or www.njstac.com – MANAHAWKIN

November 20

Jersey Shore Auction, Island Heights Fire Company, 13 Lake Ave. 9 am preview, 10 am auction. Multi-state auction. Information: 732-341-0575 or www.JerseyShoreAuctionService.com – ISLAND HEIGHTS

High School Musical, OceanFirst Theater, 1000 McKinley Ave. 2 pm & 7:30 pm. Disney Channel’s smash hit musical comes to life. $ Information: 609-489-8600 or www.njstac.com – MANAHAWKIN

Behind the Scenes Tours, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – 11 am. Discover what goes on behind the scenes at their aquarium while you tour the building front top to bottom. Sneakers required. Pre-register. Ages 5 and up. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

Afternoon of Bagpiping, Christ Episcopal Church 415 Washington St. 2 pm, doors open at 1 pm. Featuring Duncan Bell, professional piper John Bradley, National 2008 Youth champion Andrew Tice and Gordon Bell professional drummer. Food available for purchase. $ Information: www.pipesanddrumsofbarnegatbay.com – TOMS RIVER

November 21

Junior Biologists, Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Boardwalk & Parkway. 9:30 am – Noon. Ages 11-15. See and smell the aquarium from an employee’s point of view. Preparing food and feeding some of their residents. $ Information: 732-899-1659 or www.jenkinsons.com – POINT PLEASANT BEACH

November 26

Santa Arrives by Coast Guard, Boat Ramp, 10th St. 7 pm. Santa greeting, tree lighting and caroling. Information: 609-494-9196 or www.barnegatlight.org – BARNEGAT LIGHT

November 27

Santa Visits Viking Village, 19th & Bayview. 1 pm. Santa arrives by Fire Truck, take your own pictures with Santa. Information: 609-361-7008 or www.vikingvillage.net – BARNEGAT LIGHT

Comedy Show & Dinner, The White Pearl Hotel, 201 Sumner Ave. Buffet Dinner at 6:30 pm, Show at 8 pm. Comedy night with Davin from Comedy Central, Joe “Foot” Currie, Radio’s “Opie & Anthony Show”, and Rich Carucci, Cablevision’s “Steam Roller”. Cost includes buffet dinner and comedy show. Information: or 732-830-4242 www.thewhitepearlhotel.com – SEASIDE HEIGHTS

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Helpful Tips For Parent- Teacher Conferences

By Tricia Berwick

Children are most successful in school when there is open communication between the classroom teacher and the parents.   One of the best ways to monitor your child’s progress and to see how your child is adjusting to the new school year is to attend parent-teacher conferences in November.  These meetings also provide quality time for parents and teachers to get to know each other on a more personal level.

Barbara Koehler, a co-owner and director of Mathnasium in Toms River, strongly believes that conferences are an important part of the educational experience.

“Parent-teacher conferences offer teachers and parents a wonderful opportunity to learn more about each child,” says the educator with over 30 years of experience in the Toms River Schools.  “It is a great way of opening up lines of communication between teachers and parents.  Parents possess unique and important insights into their child as a person and as a learner. Teachers possess unique and important insights into each student as a person and as a learner.  Parents and teachers alike need to acknowledge and celebrate these insights.”

However, some parents feel apprehensive about attending these one-on-one meetings.  Before your child’s conference this fall, keep in mind some of these helpful tips to ensure a successful experience.

First, take a few minutes to ask your child if there is anything that he would like you to discuss with the teacher.  Maybe your child finds the homework assignments too difficult or perhaps your child is having a problem with a particular student in class.  Or maybe your child doesn’t feel comfortable answering questions in the classroom.  Don’t be intimidated or afraid to bring up the tough topics or concerns you or your child might have.  This is the time to discuss and resolve these issues.  Once you have some information from your child, jot down everything that you want to talk about at the conference.  Work with your child’s teachers to determine specific goals and expectations.  Koehler says this is the time to get the answers to all of your questions.

“Be sure to ask questions about behavior, homework and test scores,” says Koehler.  “Also, ask the teacher to discuss your child’s strengths and challenge areas.  What has the teacher observed about your child during class this year?  It’s important to get as much information as possible during the conference.”

On the day of the conference, it’s always a good idea to arrive promptly or a few minutes early.  The teacher probably has a list of scheduled appointments that day, so you don’t want to begin the relationship on a negative note by arriving late.  Before discussing your concerns, always begin with positive comments about the teacher or classroom.  Compliment the teacher’s friendly and organized classroom or commend her for a job well done with a previous lesson that your child particularly enjoyed. This will establish a friendly rapport which will set the tone for the duration of the conference.  Once an evaluation of your child has begun, address your concerns and keep the discussion brief.  Koehler says it’s imperative for parents to respect the teacher’s schedule of appointments on conference day.

“Time is short, so stay on topic,” says Koehler.  “Avoid lengthy discussions that are not related to the purpose of the conference. Honoring the time frame is crucial. Teachers need to collect their thoughts before moving into the next session.  Parents who are patiently waiting in the hallway deserve time with the teacher, too.  If you find the session is too brief to fully address all thoughts and questions, then a follow-up meeting can be scheduled.”

Another helpful hint is to be open-minded to suggestions from the teacher.  Understand that teacher feedback is critical to your child’s academic success.  The teacher may have a different approach or way to handle a situation that you may not have considered.  Also, even if you strongly disagree with the teacher’s philosophy about a particular subject, it’s advisable to keep your emotions under control.   You will make much more progress in the conference and chances are the teacher will be more likely to understand your point of view, if you are rational and calm.

Throughout the conference, take notes about what has been discussed.  It’s a good idea to have a record of the topics covered during the meeting and to write down each teacher’s specific comments or recommendations.  Koehler says this is also the time to find out exactly how you can help your child during after-school hours.

“Ask the teacher what you can do at home to help,” says Koehler.  “Also, avoid asking teachers to email or call you every week.  If you need additional input, you should ask if it is acceptable for you to email the teacher and how often is acceptable.  And, before you leave the conference, be sure to express appreciation for the conference and thank the teacher for her commitment to your child.”

After the conference, realize that as a parent you are the most important teacher in your child’s life.  Also, it’s important to follow-through with what was discussed during your child’s conference and to help your child implement their teachers’ recommendations.  Take some time to share the conference information with your child and discuss any solutions to problems or strategies about completing homework assignments or long-term projects.

It’s important to develop a good relationship with your child’s teacher this year.  Find out what the best form of communication is and either call the teacher’s direct extension at school, send an email, or have your child bring a note into school.  Attend parent-teacher conferences and contact your child’s teacher the minute you suspect a problem.  If parents and teachers work together, Koehler says the chance of student achievement is that much greater.

“Parents and teachers are on the same team,” says Koehler. “Both are committed to serving the best interests of children. If the teacher and the parent can form a working team, the student will be the one who benefits.”

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Get Ready For Black Friday

By  Tricia Berwick

“Black Friday,” is the biggest shopping day of the year.  Always the day after Thanksgiving, it’s an opportunity for consumers to kick off the holiday shopping season, while saving a few dollars in the process.  For many Americans, after the traditional turkey dinner has been enjoyed, thoughts shift to where the hot holiday deals are and what time the stores open for business.

In order to have a successful shopping spree, it’s important to do some research beforehand, whether it’s flipping through flyers or surfing around your favorite store’s website for updates and notification of sales.  It’s also advisable to have an idea of exactly what you are looking for before you enter the stores.   Think specifically of each relative and friend you will be buying for and make a list of holiday gift ideas for each one.  This strategy is critical because it will save you time in the crowded stores.  You will also avoid making expensive impulse purchases that you really do not need.  As you devise a holiday wish list, take some time to compare prices on the Internet with online resources such as PriceGrabber.com, or Shopping.com.   These websites will let you know which stores have the products you are looking for and how much the items cost.              Another important Black Friday tip is to head out early for the best deals.  It really is worth it to hit the sack early on Thanksgiving night and wake up before the sun rises on Friday.   Get plenty of rest before you head out the door and realize that waiting in line will be mandatory throughout the day.  Also, make sure to shop early in search of those extreme deals that can save more than a few extra dollars.  If you arrive later, you risk having the items you want to buy being sold out.  It’s also advisable to bring plenty of nourishment such as snacks and drinks for the long hours ahead.  Don’t forget to dress in layers, too.  If you are standing outside in the early morning hours, chances are it will be pretty chilly, so dress appropriately.

It’s also wise to know each store’s policies regarding returns.  Many stores have really enforced not allowing returns without a receipt, so make sure to keep track of your paperwork.  Bring a small file folder or envelope to keep everything organized and safe.   Also, be sure to get gift receipts for all your purchases.  If your loved one does not like the gift and wants to return it in February, this will assure you that they will get the full value back.

For some people, just the thought of battling crowds and finding a space in a jam-packed parking lot sends shivers down the spine.  However, for others, this is a day of much anticipation and excitement!  Even though there are always long lines at the checkout and the day begins early, some consumers look forward to spending Black Friday getting presents for their loved ones.  It’s always wise to devise a battle plan for this marathon day of shopping, so we asked some of our readers to share a few of their secrets and strategies about how to make Black Friday a successful and pleasant experience.

YCT: Where do you usually shop on Black Friday and why?

Cindy Vacacela:  I will usually shop at Toys R Us, Target and Wal-Mart to get good bargains on all of the new toys and games for the Christmas season.

Christine Lake: I usually go to Toys R Us, because I have children young enough that still want toys.

Dina Gardner:  I shop wherever the best sales for what I need are, but my stops every year are Best Buy, Target and Toys R Us because they consistently offer most of what I need at the best prices.  Target is my favorite because the store layout is very easy and convenient to navigate.  Also, their selection of merchandise makes shopping there easy and fun.

Noreen Montetna:  I will shop at Wal-Mart for electronics, CD’s, video games, televisions and DVD players.  The sales are usually the best on Black Friday at Wal-Mart.

Elaine Vieira: I usually shop at Toys R Us, Kmart and Wal-Mart on Black Friday.  The reason for these stores is because I like to start with the kids’ shopping first and those are usually the places where I see the most sales, specifically for toys in the circulars on Thanksgiving Day.

YCT: What percentage of your Christmas shopping is completed on Black Friday?

Cindy Vacacela:  I will usually get at least 50% of my Christmas shopping done on Black Friday.

Christine Lake:  I’ll get about 10% of my shopping accomplished.

Dina Gardner:  I would say about 70% of my Christmas shopping is completed.

Noreen Montetna: Only about 10-20% of my shopping is done on Black Friday.

Elaine Vieira: I would say roughly a quarter to a third of my shopping is completed that day.

YCT:What time will you start shopping on Black Friday and for how long will you shop?

Cindy Vacacela: I will shop as early as the stores open!  I usually get started around 4 am.

Christine Lake:  I like to get started around 5 or 6 am and will shop only until about noon.

Dina Gardner: I have started as early as 3:30 am and do not stop until I’ve hit every store on my list which usually takes me until about noon.

Noreen Montetna: We start as early at 6 or 7 am and will only shop until 10 am.

Elaine Vieira:   I will start shopping around 6 am and will last until about noon. Then, lunch afterwards, of course!

YCT: Do you have any tips or strategies to make shopping on Black Friday a successful experience for our readers?

Cindy Vacacela:  It’s a good idea to look at the different flyers for sale items and to bring some coupons along, too.  Many of the flyers have coupons that you need to bring to the store.

Christine Lake:  Always clip your coupons and go straight to the area that you want to get to the most.  It’s very important not to waste time!  If there is something that you really want, make that item your first priority.

Dina Gardner:  I’m not sure I want to give that up!  Seriously, I start looking on BFads.com a month or two ahead of time.  They start getting information from employees of the featured stores, and then a few weeks before Black Friday, they start scanning in the advertisements.  It’s important to check back regularly because some of the stores find out and make the website remove a few of the advertisements.   I do this because it helps me form my Christmas list, and also more stores are starting to offer pre-Black Friday sales.  I try to do as much research as possible before the big day so I know what a good price is for a particular item.   I don’t want to purchase something at an earlier sale, return it, and then purchase it again because the Black Friday sale turned out to be better.  Before the Thanksgiving dessert is even cleared away, my cousin and I break out all of our flyers, and circle items of interest.  Then, we make up our lists based on what we found in the advertisements.

Noreen Montetna:  One tip is to go to the store the night before and look to see where they have stock of the items you might be interested in.  It’s important to note that not all items are in the “department” they belong in!  Sometimes the items are stocked in low selling areas and difficult for the buyer to find.  For example, last year, we wanted to purchase a particular television and my husband found it stocked on shelves in the automotive section!  Also, go online the night before the sale and click on “local flyer.” This is a good way to see what the sale items are the night before so you know what to look for first in the stores.

Elaine Vieira: My strategy is to see which stores have the earliest “door buster sales” and then work my way from the earliest sales to the later sales.  Also, I try to geographically coordinate my day of shopping.  For example, I’ll go to all of the stores in the Howell area first, and then I’ll head to Freehold or Eatontown.

YCT: When Black Friday is over, how will you determine if you have had a successful day of shopping?

Cindy Vacacela:   I’ll determine how much I have saved by comparing all the flyers and checking my receipts.   I make my list of where I need to go and how early the stores open depending on the importance of what I still need on Black Friday.

Christine Lake:  I consider Black Friday a successful day if I can purchase at least one or two items from my children’s “Letters to Santa” for a good discount.  It will also be a good day if I can get something totally unexpected at a deep discount.

Dina Gardner: At the end of the day, if I had the opportunity to purchase almost every item from my list, with not much else to shop for, that is a successful Black Friday.  Also, if I’m not returning a lot of unnecessary impulse purchases, I know I have enjoyed a great day of getting a few sales and bargains.

Noreen Montetna:  A successful day is getting two of the top Christmas items our family wants that particular year.  Usually you have to pick two you really want and focus on them since the stores keep a limited stock of the real popular items.  One good tip is to be careful when an advertisement says “only while supplies last.”  That usually means the store only has a handful of the item you are specifically looking for and once they are gone, that’s it.

Elaine Vieira:  I consider Black Friday to be successful if I have purchased a lot of items I know everyone on my list will either want or need.  Now that my kids are getting older, I feel that I have been doing less Black Friday shopping at Toys R Us.  Also, sometimes there are things on sale throughout the entire weekend and it’s not necessary to run out on Black Friday which is what I have found in the past year or two.  But I love to go out and have fun with the whole experience!

If all of these tips and strategies are starting to make your head spin, and heading out the door on Black Friday seems too intimidating, a better option may be to take advantage of online night owl discounts on Thanksgiving Night.  By using the computer to shop for purchases, you can sit in the comfort of your own home without battling crowds.   In some instances, Internet shopping can beat even the predawn deals found in stores on Black Friday.  You may even be able to purchase your items online and then pick them up at the store to save additional money in shipping fees.

It’s time to gear up for the holiday shopping season which kicks off on Black Friday.  For some of our readers, this is a serious day of shopping that many look forward to all year long.  They don’t mind the crowds and long lines on Black Friday; in fact, they enjoy it!  If you are going to venture out early, do your homework, get plenty of rest, set your alarm clock, and bring all of the necessary reinforcements with you.  Each year, Black Friday morning is quite an experience which can result in big savings.

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Special Hand Painted Thanksgiving Family Platters

Thanksgiving is on it’s way, and Color Me Mine is the place to be. What a great opportunity to spend quality time with your children creating a special  platter with turkey handprints on it. Bring your children to Color Me Mine and use their handprints to make a special Thanksgiving platter that can decorate your holiday table. We offer a variety of platters for you to choose from, or let your child design a special plate for them to eat off of. Having this business for over ten years and seeing the excitement on the faces of children when they pick up there pieces is priceless. Our knowledgeable staff is there to help with everything from choosing your piece to adding those special finishing touches. Color Me Mine has a variety of holiday items that can be painted and given to everyone in the family and will be treasured forever. An appointment is not necessary but recommended due to parties on the weekends. With the holidays approaching don’t waste another minute come in a create that platter that everyone can enjoy at dinner.

For kids holidays usually mean time off from school, on the other hand for parents it’s finding a way to spend time with their kids doing fun activities. Most parents enjoy the down time, and try to relax after finally having a little break from the busy school week schedule. On the other hand kids are always looking for something exciting to do. With the weather changing at a fast pace in New Jersey outdoor activities like going to the park become a thing of the past. When looking for a different activity where you could spend time with your kids, and stay warm bring your family to Color Me Mine, a paint-your-own ceramics studio in Toms River.  Color Me Mine welcomes all ages, and gives you the ability to do a family activity all while being creative. It’s a way for your children to express their imagination, and have fun doing it. This month’s feature activity is a Thanksgiving platter. The original creation can be used for the turkey holiday in a few weeks and then will become a treasured tradition in your family.

On November 19th at 6:00 pm, Color Me Mine will have a children’s turkey handprint plate painting party.  The studio’s friendly staff will help each child create their handprint to resemble little turkeys. All children must sign up for the event which costs $20 per child. There are only 30 spots available, so it’s a good idea to call the studio early to reserve your spots.

While family members create a wonderful keepsake for the holiday, Color Me Mine owner Irene says they’re also, enjoying spending time together, laughing, and creating memories. It’s a time to be creative, and relax.

“Creating a Thanksgiving platter together as a family will become a cherished memory,” says Irene. “Families can come to the studio and enjoy themselves. They can be relived from their usual hectic schedules, and express their inner creativity.”

“From experience people usually find that creating a piece seems intimidating, but there’s no need to worry about that ,” says Irene. With our staff who are always eager to help, and the tools we provide anyone can create a work of art in no time.

“What everyone needs to be aware of is that Color Me Mine is a place where everyone can get involved and have fun,” says Irene. “Most people don’t consider themselves artistic, and sometimes have a hard time coming up with an idea for their piece. We’ve got that covered with stencils, stamps, and plenty of ideas from our staff.”

Customers are more than welcome to bring items from home to help with the creative process. Customers come in all the time wanting to create a beautiful piece, but seem to be stumped on how to make that happen. “That’s where my staff comes in.” says Irene. The staff takes time to discuss what the customer is looking to create, and then helps with every step along the way to make sure the customer is happy. “Sometimes all it takes is a good idea from the staff, and the customer can add to the idea to make it personal,” says Irene.

“When doing an activity parents are always concerned when it comes to their children’s clothes, but there’s no need to worry about attire at Color Me Mine,” says Irene. All paints are washable, non-toxic and lead-free, so parents don’t have to be concerned about the kids inhaling harmful fumes. Color Me Mine’s paints and glazes are completely 100% friendly to the environment.

Color Me Mine isn’t only for the holidays. It’s a fun activity to do with your children any time of the year. You can come in and let your child create a piece to display in their room, or even a special gift for a loved one. A handmade gift from your child is always a great idea. Especially when your shopping for a person who is hard to buy for. And dads there is nothing your wife will love more then a gift made with love by your children for Mother’s Day, or even her birthday.

Ceramic pieces range from $6.00 and up and the paint fee is $6.00 for children and $8.00 for adults. The prices include glazes and firing.  After all of your projects are completed, the staff of Color Me Mine will fire and glaze the items and then notify you when everything is ready for pick-up.

With the colder months ahead days off from school are also approaching and kids will be asking the same question, “What are wedoing today?” If you’re looking for something to entertain the kids, plan a creative day out at Color Me Mine ceramics studio in Toms River. Your kids will be proud of their creation. Were sure when your guests arrive on Thanksgiving the first thing your kids will do is show everyone the platter they made.

You can even get a head start on your shopping list for the December season. With so many pieces to choose from, there is something for everyone on your list. For more information, call (732) 864-9300 or visit the website at www.colormemine.com

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Focus On The Family-The Valeo’s

Once the weekend arrives, the Valeo family likes to relax, unwind and spend time together.  After a busy week of school, work, and extra-curricular activities, the Valeos enjoy not being on a schedule for a few days.

“On the weekends, we really like to have a lot of down time,” says mom Heather.  “The weekend is our time to decompress and just hang around the house.  The kids have a lot of fun playing in the backyard together.  We also enjoy playing games or watching television as a family.  The girls also love to bike ride and we live on a cul-de-sac, which works out perfectly. ”

Married for twelve years, Heather and Rich Valeo are raising their three daughters in Toms River.  The couple strongly believes in the importance of spending quality time together as a family.  Whether they are playing together at the park, frolicking in the sand and surf at the beach, or just enjoying the comforts of their home, the Valeos make spending time together a priority.  The family-of-five also enjoys getting together with both sets of grandparents who all live locally.  Having the extended family live nearby offers many benefits to the girls.  In addition to helping out with babysitting, the grandparents are able to pass traditions down that have been in the family for generations.

“Having the girls spend time with their grandparents and learning about family traditions is very important to us,” says Heather.  “We are an Italian family, so every September we make sauce with my husband’s parents and my sister in-law Tamie.  It takes us one day to make 70-100 quarts of sauce.  First, we cut the tomatoes, salt them, and then boil them down.  After they are boiled, we put the tomatoes through a machine until all the seeds are removed.  Then, we boil them again and place the tomatoes into a jar with bay leaves.  It’s a pretty simple process.  It’s a great thing to do because then the entire family can have fresh tomato sauce whenever they want it.  We usually have pasta with the homemade sauce at least once a week.”

Since the girls are still young and the family is fearful about the girls getting too close to the boiling pots, the Valeo sisters usually play in the backyard and observe how the sauce is made.  Next year, they will become more active participants and cook along with the rest of the family.  Even though they haven’t sliced the tomatoes yet, what’s important is spending time with the grandparents and learning about the family’s Italian heritage and culture.

“Rich and I are providing the girls with a very traditional upbringing,” says Heather.  “We are very proud of our family and traditions.  In addition to our sauce-making, every Thanksgiving weekend, we trim the Christmas tree with the grandparents.  We are very fortunate to have both of our parents here to spend the holidays and relish in all the girls’ daily happenings.”

Your Child Today recently had the pleasure of getting to know the Valeo family a little more personally.  This is what Heather, mom of three girls had to say:

YCT: Tell us a little about your children.

Heather: Sophia is nine-years-old and attends North Dover Elementary School.  She cannot wait to go to school every day where she is able to be artistic, express her love of music and is encouraged to pursue her love for books.  Sophia also enjoys the theatre and seeing Broadway shows in New York City.  We take the kids into the city as much as possible to see all of the different productions.  I have always had in interest in the theatre myself, so my children knew the words to Les Miserables just like other children know the Sesame street song.  Isabella is eight-years-old and attends Hooper Avenue Elementary School which the kids call “The Hoop.”  She loves her Daddy, music, arts-and-crafts, her dolls, and SpongeBob.  Going to Color Me Mine is one of Isabella’s favorite activities; she just really has so much fun there.   Bianca is the youngest and is five-years-old.  She attends North Dover Elementary School.  She loves going to kindergarten and seeing her friends.  Her favorite color is pink.  One of her favorite things to do is host tea parties.  Whenever someone comes to the house she immediately will set up a beautiful tea party and entertain her friends and family.

YCT: What is a typical day like in your home?

Heather: Everyone wakes up, has breakfast and then gets dressed for school.  Before the school day begins, the girls always do a few chores before they head out the door.  It could be anything from bringing down the laundry to putting the dirty dishes in the sink.  My husband and I feel very strongly about teaching the girls a sense of responsibility.  Doing chores throughout the house teaches our daughters about respect and how to work together as a family.  I tell them that everything has a place and it is your job to put it back in it this way the girls know what is expected of them.  I have recently become more organized and I think it has had a positive effect on my daughters.

Once the girls get home from school in the afternoon, they have a snack and about a half hour of playtime.  Then, it’s time for homework and any activities that they may have.    However, even with the activities, we are very fortunate to have a family dinner as long as daddy is home, which is very important to us.  Even if my husband is on the phone with a work-related call, the girls will interrupt him and say, “Daddy, it’s family time now.  We are eating dinner as a family.”  After dinner, we will play a game together or watch a program and then it’s time to get ready for bed.

YCT:  What activities do your children participate in after school?

Heather: Sophia participates in gymnastics and takes piano lessons.  Isabella takes swim lessons.  Bianca definitely has an ear for music so she also takes piano and she also takes swim lessons.  We are lucky to have both sets of grandparents nearby, so if one of the girls has an activity and the others don’t, we will have one of the grandparents stay with the kids.  This way, they can be at home, doing homework, or just relaxing.  Even though we love for the girls to be busy, we don’t want the activities to be overwhelming, so we limit the activities to one or two each.

YCT:  What is your favorite thing to do locally with your family?

Heather: We are summer people so we love to take the kids out to eat at Stewart’s.  We have been taking them there since they were babies.  We also like to spend time at Ortley Beach.   The beach is very clean; we see a lot of our friends there- it is a “locals” beach.  The girls have fun getting their nails done with my mom.

YCT:  Do you have any favorite local vacation spots?

Heather: The kids like to visit Barnegat Lighthouse with my husband’s parents, Cape May Zoo is a great day, and we really like Storybook Land.  We usually go to Storybook Land once in the summer and once in the fall for trick-or-treating.  It’s a great open area and everything is in immaculate condition.  There are healthy choices for lunch and a spray area in the summer.   I went there when I was a child, so it’s nice to be able to take my children now.  It’s a family-run business so they take pride in maintaining the property and making every child’s experience enjoyable.

YCT:  Have you ever gone on any vacations without the kids and where?

Heather: We have a vacation home in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina and will go there with and without the kids.  My husband and I try going for a long weekend in the fall which is very relaxing.  I also have had the opportunity to travel abroad with my husband and that was an amazing experience.

YCT:  Do you have a favorite family friendly restaurant?

Heather: We love Nino’s in Toms River.  We go there after church on Saturday evening and the girls always get the coal-fired pizza.
YCT:  What is your favorite date night location and how often do you get to go out alone with your husband?

Heather: Since we are summer people, we love seafood and will try any restaurant where we can enjoy some crab and in the colder months we try to cook together, put the kids to bed early, and hang out.

YCT:  What is your favorite non-mommy thing to do and how often do you get to do it?

Heather: I love spending time at the spa! The Hand and Stone Spa is local and I try and go once a month.  They offer reasonable and professional services and can accommodate my schedule.

YCT:  What is your husband’s favorite non-Daddy thing to do?

Heather: My husband loves to jam on his bass guitar!  He has a group of friends from high school and they get together whenever they can.  Rich is a sports fanatic and can’t get enough football and baseball.  His favorite professional teams are the Dallas Cowboys and the New York Mets.

YCT:  Do you frequent any advertisers from our magazine?

Heather: My children just love Color Me Mine.  It’s a great place to go with the kids because they can be creative and independent, but we can still spend time together as a family.  It’s such a warm and friendly family atmosphere and the staff is always willing to assist the kids with their projects, too.

YCT:  Do you have any parenting advice that you would like to offer our readers?

Heather: The biggest lesson I have learned from a good friend is the importance of being organized.  I have found that the more organized I am, the easier it is for my children.  I will set a routine for the kids and I try not to deviate from it.  It’s very important to
follow through with your plan once it is established. With a routine, the kids are much more successful and feel independent.  As a result, we are a more cohesive and happy family.  Just try to devise an organizational plan that works best for you.

YCT:  What is your favorite part of Your Child Today magazine?

Heather: I love looking at the calendar in Your Child Today.  There are so many local happenings and activities to choose from every month.  It’s a great resource to have because all of the ideas are always fun choices for the entire family.


Posted in Focus On The Family, November 20100 Comments

Words With The Master Kum Sung

The benefits of participating in the martial arts include developing discipline and coordination, improving one’s self-esteem, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.  The martial arts are not meant to be violent or to purposely inflict bodily harm upon others.  Although they may be portrayed this way in movies and on television, Dr. Kum Sung, of Kum Sung Martial Arts in Toms River, feels this is not an accurate depiction of martial arts.  He strongly believes that the mass media is severely tarnishing the martial arts’ image.

“It is not meant to hurt or disrespect others, but because of the media, martial arts is being taught as a way to fight,” says Dr. Sung who has studied a variety of martial arts forms ranging from Chinese to Japanese style for over 50 years.  “I have been involved with martial arts all my life and never thought it would be so misunderstood.   For years, Asians have been using martial arts as a way to improve one’s health.  Practicing martial arts prevents physical injuries and can help children who may lack focus.  I teach traditional martial arts which is different than today’s modern martial arts.  The main purpose of traditional martial arts is to promote a healthy lifestyle, both physically and mentally.  Martial arts can also help prevent injuries and helps to preserve balance and coordination.  In contrast, modern martial arts is very dangerous and violent and is being glorified in the entertainment industry.  Young people are attracted to the violence, but this is wrong.  People don’t understand martial arts because they think it is television entertainment wrestling.  Then, the kids see that type of behavior and want to imitate it by choking each other out which can cause death.”

While the media has played a significant role in the misunderstanding of the sport, a lack of qualified instructors is also part of the problem.  Dr. Sung feels that today’s martial arts teachers do not have the experience and necessary certification to understand and teach the true meaning of the sport.

“Instructors always had to be a high black belt, but now it seems that anyone can open a martial arts school without the proper qualifications,” says Dr. Sung who majored in child psychology and is the highest Martial Arts Grandmaster in the area with over 47 years of experience.  “In order to be a respected martial arts instructor, you need to have a certain degree of education and training.  Many instructors are not properly qualified to teach martial arts today.  I was once proud to say that I teach martial arts, but now I am embarrassed by the way martial arts is being taught.  It is very frustrating for me.  I have grown up with this sport and I am extremely upset about how it is changing.  Modern martial arts is more harmful than beneficial.”
Though Dr. Sung can’t personally alter the image of martial arts throughout the country or monitor the way it is being taught, he is doing his best to preserve traditional martial arts.   The Master Kum Sung Martial Arts System is a balanced system of traditional martial arts blended with modern techniques, ancient philosophies, and modern psychology.   A strong emphasis is placed on positive thinking.  Students in the Kum Sung program are encouraged to do their very best, to see rewards in life, and to overcome negative thoughts and actions.   Designed to accommodate students of all levels and ages, this unique system emphasizes self-defense, positive-reinforcement psychology, physical fitness, and coordination.   Dr. Sung strongly believes that students of the Master Kum Sung Martial Arts System will develop not only into well-rounded martial artists, but secure, positive, self-confident, and emotionally and physically fit people.

Traditional martial arts offer many benefits, but the sport has seen a decrease in participants during recent years.  Dr. Sung directly attributes this to a slow economy.  During difficult financial times, families can be quick to omit certain activities from their children’s schedules.  Dr.  Sung firmly believes that this is detrimental to the kids.

“During this tough economy, parents tend to cut back on their children’s activities,” says Dr. Sung, who has instructed police academies, special law enforcement and military agencies, national martial arts champions and many recognizable martial artists. “But this is the wrong thing to do.  If they are home after school with nothing to do, they are more likely to get into mischief and then imitate the violence they see on television.  They definitely need an organized and structured activity.  I feel so strongly about this that I decided to bring my prices down to what they were thirty years ago.  This way, parents don’t have to cut back and take away the things that the kids enjoy.”

What sets Kum Sung apart from other martial arts studios is that the instructors genuinely care about the students’ mental health.  Once parents decide to enroll their children in a martial arts program, Dr. Sung says there are many benefits.   In addition to improving a child’s physical health, Dr. Sung says the instructors work to support the children in creating a positive way of thinking.

“So many parents are working full-time today, and are not home during the after-school hours,” says Dr. Sung, who has been featured on the cover of many national and international Martial Art magazines and has been the subject of several award winning photographs at national exhibitions.  “When the children are home alone, there is no social communication with the child.  The child needs to have constant attention and someone needs to be aware of their behavior.  We are able to provide that for the children.  We are educating them emotionally.  With this type of background, they will then have the confidence to become healthy and successful adults.”

During class sessions, children are also encouraged to talk about whatever is on their minds.  Kum Sung believes in open communication and wants children to feel comfortable opening up to the instructors about whatever may be bothering them.

“Every class has time allowed for kids to discuss their feelings and what they like or don’t like,” says Dr. Sung who is certified by the World Tae Kwon Do Federation, which determines Olympic eligibility in the United States.  “We have one-on-one relationships with all of the children.  We also help children who may be experiencing behavior problems and are out of control with their parents or at school.  Some of the children battle with ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder), so we get a lot of referrals from doctors who are looking to us as a way to help the children gain some control and focus.”

In the children’s classes, maintaining focus and learning discipline are two of the major skills which are addressed.  Instructors will also teach balance, coordination, self-esteem, goal-setting, memory improvement, self-defense, and concentration.  In addition, students are taught self-defense with control, not aggression, which is a key factor.  They are also taught stranger awareness as well as rolling which helps prevent sprains and broken bones.  While many martial arts schools just teach a basic way of doing a technique, Kum Sung teaches with more attention to detail for maximum effectiveness and safety.  They also constantly refine and improve on students’ techniques.   Most importantly, all classes are taught in a fun and positive environment.  During report card time, Dr. Sung asks all of his students to bring in their report cards so that he can monitor their academic accomplishments as well.

The teenage classes, for students between ages 12 and 18, emphasize self-discipline and self-respect both for themselves and for others.  The students learn how to relieve stress which is a great defense mechanism during the tumultuous teenage years.  Good habits are strongly encouraged in a nurturing and positive environment.  At this age, there is an emphasis on speed, grace, and strength.  Students are also taught self-awareness, healing, and meditation.

Adult classes differ greatly from all other age categories. Although everyone in the group is taught the same kicks, punches, weapons and forms, they are taught in a manner that will best benefit the individual. Kum Sung’s adult programs are designed to fit a student’s individual needs, interests, and health.  Adult classes specialize in: exercises for the body and mind, inner peace and harmony, the Asian culture and language, philosophy, and weight control.  The instructors at Kum Sung carefully monitor these classes to ensure that adult participants do not suffer any unnecessary injuries causing lost time from work.  The purpose of the classes is to allow adults an opportunity to improve their physical and mental well-being, and to make their health a priority, which may not have been possible earlier in their lives.

Kum Sung has various locations throughout Monmouth and Ocean counties.  Kum Sung Headquarters are located on Hooper Avenue in Toms River.  The facility includes an 8,000 square foot Martial Arts Center, which has more than 600 members, and a 16,000 square foot complete Fitness Center, which has more than 3,000 members.  There are also facilities in Brick, Manahawkin, Long Branch, Howell, Lanoka Harbor, and Middletown. Their comprehensive website, kumsungkarate.com, includes information about future events, martial arts instructors, birthday parties, special offers, and Kum Sung’s summer camp.  Your family can also make an appointment online to take a tour of one of the facilities and to meet the instructors in person.  The website also offers videos of martial arts classes online and many photographs of students in action.

Despite hearing conflicting opinions about traditional versus modern martial arts, Dr. Sung feels confident and proud of the school he has maintained for over thirty years.  Kum Sung Martial Arts has built a reputation from decades of listening to the public’s requests and helping people achieve new levels of confidence and capability.  He knows that he is providing his students with a positive, traditional martial arts education.  When you consider that Dr. Sung has now been teaching three generations of students, it is obvious that the families he serves truly respect his work.

“I have had some people come up to me and say, ‘When I was a child, I learned from you.  Then, I brought my children, and now I’m bringing my grandkids to you,’” says Dr. Sung.  “That is a very rewarding feeling.”

Kum Sung Martial Arts is much more than just punching and kicking.  It is a system that helps build confidence, coordination, and inner peace and opens up the door to a positive attitude.   The overall theme of Kum Sung Martial Arts is to provide children with a proper education.  In addition to martial arts, the family also runs Sung Star Academy which is for children ages six weeks to five-years-old.  There are state certified teachers in every classroom with registered nurses on staff to take care of your little ones, if necessary.  The directors of the school all have the highest degrees of education.  If you are interested in learning more about Kum Sung Karate, call 732-341-8800, or visit their website at kumsungkarate.com.  You can even send your questions via email at info@kumsungkarate.com.

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Your Child Today Physician’s Guide

Finding an excellent doctor is a tough task.  It’s certainly a challenge to find someone who is highly qualified and who also has a comforting andsupportive rapport with patients.  It’s one of the most important relationships you’re ever going to have, so it’s crucial for you to feel comfortable.  If you find yourself looking for a new doctor, there are a number of steps to take to find the right physician.

1.) Use the computer-

One of the easiest and fastest ways to find a physician is to search the Internet.  Simply type in the keywords “doctor” and “physician” near your address using the online yellow pages or a mapping website.  Once the list of names appears, notice if there are any positive user comments attached to each one and then conduct an individual search for each name on your list.  Or, if you would like to utilize a specific database of doctors, check out the American Medical Association’s website and use the “Doctor Finder” service to find doctors (listed by specialty) who practice near you.  Once you have a list of possible candidates, check with your insurance company to see if your visit will be fully covered.  Or, if you don’t have access to a computer, call your local hospital and ask them for a recommendation.  Explain the situation to the operator and he or she will transfer you to the right department.

2.) Word of mouth-

If you are not comfortable with a random search, ask trusted family members, colleagues, and friends for referrals.  Talk to your friends about specific experiences with the physicians and discuss the strengths and weaknesses of the doctors being recommended, too.

3.) Plan for interviews-

Once you have a specific name, call the prospective office and schedule an interview to see if a doctor’s ideas and philosophies about medicine andtreatments match your beliefs.   For example, some doctors choose to prescribe medications for everything while others choose a more holistic approach.  This will help you decide if this is the right doctor for you.  Some other factors to consider during the interview process are: whether the office is definitely accepting new patients, the average wait in getting an appointment, the demeanor and competence of reception and scheduling staff, which hospitals the doctor is affiliated with, office hours, the availability of evening and weekend appointments, the doctor’s gender, how prescriptions are generally filled, whether the doctor speaks multiple languages, the background of the doctor, and whether or not the practice is board certified.  This last factor is extremely important.  Many people just assume that each doctor’s office is automatically board certified, but that is not always the case.     In addition, you should also ask about what doctor will care for you should you be hospitalized or if there are covering doctors if the main physician is on vacation.

4.) Record keeping-

While you are in the doctor’s office, pay attention to how medical records are kept.   If a doctor’s records are disorganized, this is a sign of sloppiness and inattention to detail.  Also, take note if the doctor’s office takes electronic notes.  Many offices have switched over to this method of record keeping.  If prefer an office that is progressive and changes with the times, this may be a big factor in your decision making process.

5.) Check out the hours and the friendliness of the office staff-

Families today are busier than ever and are usually rushing from one activity to the next.  If your family needs an office with flexible hours (such as weekend and early evening appointments), this is an important question to ask during the interview process.  Also, notice how the office staff handles patient requests and questions.  If you’re a new mom with a lot of questions about infant care, you would like a doctor who is willing and able to address all of your concerns and questions.

6.) Location and the type of practice–

How far you are willing to travel to see the right doctor?  If you have received a terrific recommendation from a trusted friend, maybe it’s worth the trip an hour each way to see someone you’re comfortable with.  However, if you have young children and are looking for convenience, it might be a better idea to find someone who is close to the house and can take your child at a moment’s notice for a sick visit.  What type of practice you are looking for?  Are you looking for a large multi-physician office for convenience or a solo practice which can provide more personalized attention?  Multi-practice offices may offer more hours, but you may not always be able to see your doctor of choice.  Solo practices allow for a lot of personal attention, but the office will probably not be open as much.  These are both important factors to consider during the selection process.

7.) Go with your gut—

Even with many positive recommendations and lots of Internet research, sometimes the best way to choose a physician is to simply go with your gut and your first instinct.  During the interview session, how comfortable did you feel with the doctor and his philosophies?   Did he really listen to all of your questions?  Did you find his responses to be intelligent and informative?  Did he seem distracted while he was speaking to you?  If you have any doubt that the doctor you spoke with is not the right one for you, trust your feelings and continue your search until you find the right fit.

There are many ways to find the right doctor for you and your family.  Referrals and research both play a large role in selecting a trustworthy physician.  Ultimately, the way you feel when you meet with a doctor one-on-one will be the best indicator of how it would feel to become his or her patient.  Once you know that, you’ll be on your way to establishing a successful doctor-patient relationship.

Since 1993, Dr. Young has worked to help create beautiful smiles for his patients.  Dr. Young uses his training and skills to help transform a patient’s appearance.  He thoroughly enjoys being able to assist in boosting a person’s morale.

Dr. Young, who was voted “Top Orthodontist” by his peers in the New Jersey Monthly poll of dentists 2009-2010, works on patients of all ages, although most are primarily adolescents, and sees approximately 70-100 people per day.  The office strongly believes that early intervention and treatment are the keys to long-term dental health.  In some cases, treatment can be started before all permanent teeth have come in.

Once the course of action has been determined, patients can enjoy many advantages with straighter teeth including: healthier gums, easier cleaning,improved chewing and speech, decreased risk of dental trauma and abnormal wear, and finally, a more beautiful smile.

Dr. Young, who is also a teaching instructor at Monmouth Medical Center in Long Branch and is a member of the Regional Cleft Palate Center, encourages open communication with the patients.  Patients and their families are able to ask many questions about the best dental care options.  The main goal is to make the patient feel as comfortable as possible.

Many parents ask, “What is the best age to start orthodontic treatment for my child?”

“The American Association of Orthodontists recommends that all children have a screening by an orthodontist by age seven,” says Dr. Young.  “At this age, most orthodontic problems can be diagnosed by your orthodontist.  On the Braces @ Brick website (www.braces@brick.com), there is a special section called, ‘Is Early Treatment Worthwhile?’  This section explains the reasons why being proactive is imperative.  I am a strong advocate of early orthodontic treatment.  Diagnosis and early treatment is the key.  Starting treatment early has the following benefits: treatment is usually less complicated, it eliminates the need for extraction of permanent teeth, and kids do not go through and awkward phase, where they are ashamed to smile because of their crooked teeth or overbite.  It is much better for their self-esteem growing up.  We can finish most cases before high school.  The most important advantage of early treatment is that the stability of the final result is much better.”

Another frequently asked question by parents is, “How do I know if my child needs braces?”

“If your family dentist has not suggested it, but you notice that your child’s teeth are crooked, spaced, there’s an overbite, or generally don’t look right, you should see your orthodontist,” says Dr. Young.  “In our office, there is no charge for an initial consultation, at any age.”

Finally, one of the most popular questions asked by parents is, “Do I need a referral from my dentist?”

“A referral is not necessary,” says Dr. Young.  “Just call the office for a complimentary consultation.”

Dr. Young loves the opportunity to help his patients, especially the teenage crowd.  And, when his younger patients take an active role in their treatment by honoring their appointments and demonstrating good dental health habits, the office will offer reward incentives.  Dr. Young wants to work together as a team with his patients and really appreciates when the kids listen to his advice about taking charge of their dental health. He understands that being a young person today can be extremely difficult and that sometimes his assistance can go a long way to making the child have a better overall outlook.

“I enjoy what I do and working with the kids,” says Dr. Young.  “They really appreciate what we can do for them.”

For more information about

Braces @ Brick, check out the office’s website at www.bracesatbrick.com or call 732-477-1808.


By Tricia Berwick

Drs. Warner’s Patients Speak Out About Extraordinary Results

Walking through the doors of the Chiropractic Center for Prenatal, Infant, and Family Wellness, parents are met with newfound optimism regarding their children’s health outlook.  Prior to coming, many parents have a lack of awareness or misinformation about the important role pediatric chiropractors play in keeping the nervous system and the immune system healthy in children. Then, the parents and children listen to Drs. Stuart and Theresa Warner, pediatric chiropractors, international lecturers and co-founders and directors of the Point Pleasant practice, their children begin treatments, and their health dramatically begins to improve.  The office’s main philosophy is that regular chiropractic care is the best way to give them an advantage and keep kids healthy and strong, without the use of medications.

Michele Lassiter’s daughter, Abigail began care with the Drs. Warner in October of last year.  After countless visits to the pediatrician, an allergist, and a pulmonologist for a reactive airway (asthma for toddlers), Abigail finally started to feel better after only a few weeks of chiropractic care.

“Now Abigail is a beautifully, healthy little girl,” says Lassiter.  “At one point, she was on three or four medications at the same time, and now she doesn’t need to take anything.  There is just such a big difference in her health and in her overall personality due to Drs. Warner’s help.  She is far less jittery and anxious and is a completely happy four-year-old who plays soccer and goes to school.”

Lassiter admits that at the beginning, she was a little apprehensive about her daughter seeing a chiropractor at such a young age.  She wasn’t quite sure how the Drs. Warner could help her daughter to feel better.  But, after an initial consultation and gathering more information, she decided that it was worth a try.

“I just assumed chiropractors fixed back pain,” says Lassiter who has become a patient of the Drs. Warner herself.  “I never thought about how chiropractic treatment could improve one’s health.  Now, I don’t get sinus headaches anymore.  There has been a marked difference in how healthy we all are, including my husband, too.”

Jennifer Bellhorn and her two children, Alexis and Aaron have also been patients for almost a year.   Alexis had battled chronic colds and coughs for years with no real lasting results from medical care.  Then after suffering from a severe and painful ear infection, Bellhorn decided to take her daughter to see the Drs. Warner.

“It was so bad at one point, Alexis had almost complete loss of hearing in one ear which was quite scary,” says Bellhorn.  “We were at the pediatrician’s office once a week and then we were referred to an ENT doctor (ear, nose and throat).  We just couldn’t get the ear infection under control.  I was completely at my wit’s end.  I felt so badly for my daughter.  I just wanted to help her.  The Warners’ children went to my daughter’s school and after talking to them, I decided to bring her in to be examined.  At first, I didn’t think a chiropractor would be able to help, but I was ready to try anything at that point.”

After two months of Drs. Warner’s care, Bellhorn noticed a significant difference in the overall health of her child.

“Alexis has not been to the pediatrician for a sick visit since December,” says Bellhorn.  “Now, she rarely gets headaches and is very healthy.  Alexis remembers how sick she used to get and knows that she doesn’t want to feel that way again.  She loves going for her visits to see the Drs. Warner and understands that this is what helped boost her immune system and will continue to help her in the future.”

Rafaelina Walker’s six-year-old son, Christian also suffered from severe asthma and allergies for a number of years.  After reading about the Drs. Warner and their practice in Your Child Today magazine, Walker decided to take her son for an evaluation.  During the third week of chiropractic care, she noticed an improvement in her son’s health and took him off of his many medications.  However, even with immediate results, it took her family awhile to accept what was happening with her son.

“Our friends and family members had never heard of a chiropractor treating children,” says Walker.  ‘They kept asking me if I was going to get a second opinion.  My family was very worried about Christian especially since he was going to be outside at camp this past summer.  However, he didn’t need any breathing treatments or medications all summer.  This is normally a very rough time of the year for Christian.  In the past, he would be sick with pneumonia or bronchitis.  But for the first time, he’s not sick during this time of the year and he hasn’t missed any school or soccer games yet.”

After getting through the summer and beginning a new school year illness-free, Walker’s family has changed its opinions about what chiropractors can do for children.

“My family thinks it’s great now,” says Walker.  “My husband was very skeptical at first, but now the whole family benefits.  It has helped me a lot.  The treatments are not uncomfortable at all; in fact they are very relaxing and feel great!  I even went to get adjusted after I sprained my ankle.  I have had such a positive experience with the Drs. Warner that I want to tell all of my friends about them.  My son was on medication since he was six-weeks-old.  I wish someone had told me sooner about how they can help children become medication-free.”

All of these patients firmly believe that receiving regular chiropractic care is directly related to boosting one’s immunity and preserving good health for everyone in their families.  If you would like more information about the Chiropractic Center for Prenatal, Infant, and Family Wellness, or to be placed on their new patient waiting list call 732-295-0707.

Quick Tips so Halloween Spooks don’t Turn to BooHoos

Tips from the Experts at Ocean Medical Center

Halloween is a favorite holiday among many children. Not only do they get to dress up in fun costumes, but they also get to knock their way around neighborhoods, collecting as much candy and treats as they can. As fun and exciting a holiday as it is, parents must be aware of the dangers that can also present themselves.

According to Khoshnood Ahmad, M.D., medical director of Ocean Medical Center’s Pediatric Emergency Center in Brick, “Halloween related injuries are typically from running around the neighborhood and tripping over costumes, usually resulting in scrapes and bumps.”

While the doctors and nurses at the Pediatric Emergency Center are ready to treat children in need, they would

much rather see youngsters have a safe and enjoyable holiday. They offer the following tips for parents to keep

their kids injury free:

• If your child is wearing a mask, be sure that the eyeholes
are big enough to see out of.
• Make sure that long dresses or capes are not too long, as
they could cause a risk for tripping.
• When dealing with props, a safe rule of thumb is this:
if the child fell on the object and could be seriously
injured, it is not safe to carry.
• All costumes should be light reflecting and fire retardant.
Dr. Ahmad also offers the following tips for general safety during trick-or-treating:
• Take a flashlight if going out during dusk or night.
Use colorful glow sticks as another fun option to
make kids more visible.
• Young children should be accompanied by an adult, and
if allowing older kids to go unaccompanied, they should
be with a group of friends.
• Cross at designated cross walks and don’t run
between parked cars.
• Stay on sidewalks.
• Remember to check each piece of candy that your child
brings home and do not let them eat any candy that has
been opened or looks like it has been tampered with.

Most importantly, enjoy the holiday with your children. Remember to have fun while also being aware of the dangers and keeping your children safe.

For more information about Ocean’s Pediatric Emergency Center or the full range of resources and specialists affiliated with Meridian Pediatric Network, visit www.OceanMedicalCenter.com.

At Bosonac Orthodontics in Brick, your healthy and beautiful smile is the practice’s top priority.  From the minute you walk into the office, you will immediately notice a welcoming and caring atmosphere.  At “The New Jersey Sea of Smiles,” Drs. Stephen and Brian Bosonac will provide outstanding orthodontic care while using the most advanced techniques available, including Invisalign “invisible” braces, traditional metal braces, Series 2000 appliance, and even treatment without braces.

The office prides itself on educating patients about all of the possibilities available in the field of orthodontics.  The doctors feel it is very important to provide patients with as much information as possible so they know exactly what to expect during the course of treatment.  The first step is to have an examination which will determine the orthodontic needs of the patient.  In some cases, x-rays and digital photographs may be utilized in a consultation.  After recommendations are made, Drs. Stephen and Brian Bosonac will answer all of the patient’s questions and address any concerns.

In addition to speaking with the doctors directly, patients can also browse through the office’s website (www.bosonacortho.com) which provides detailed information in a variety of subject areas.  For example, patients can learn more about the doctors and their extensive training and affiliations.  Take a few minutes to read through the policies of the office staff so you’ll know exactly what is involved regarding payment options and scheduling appointments.  You can even look through extensive photos of the office and view pictures of before-and-after results in the “Patient Gallery.”  This is a terrific opportunity for patients to see the work of Drs. Stephen and Brian Bosonac and what they can do for you, too.

Under “Ortho 101” patients can gather information for adults and children and even skim through a glossary of terms in the “ortho-dictionary.”  Sometimes, the initial consultation can be an overwhelming experience; a lot of information is given and there may be follow-up questions.  This link on the office’s website is a great feature because it explains all of the terminology in full detail.  For example, an appliance is anything your orthodontist attaches to your teeth which moves your teeth or changes the shape of your jaw.  Even if your head is swirling with lots of information after your first visit, all of your questions can be answered with one quick click of the mouse.  Another interesting link is the “Oral Care Video” which is comprised of sixteen video segments.  During this informative piece, patients can learn about what to expect and how to care for orthodontic appliances.  Some of the topics covered include: proper brushing, caring for retainers and appliances, flossing techniques, minor emergencies, relief of discomfort and more. This is an excellent way to gain an understanding of the type of treatment available, all in the comfort of your own home.

If you are in need of orthodontic care and are looking

for a team of caring and experienced orthodontists,

call Bosonac Orthodontics at 732-920-0888 or view

their website at www.bosonacortho.com.

What Is NeuroCore Therapy? Dr. Stiso, a NeuroCore Clinician located in Manasquan NJ, explains NeuroCore Therapy is a form of EEG Biofeedback (AKA: Neurofeedback) It is a drugless approach to treating Neurological Dysregulation Syndrome (NDS) that may be associated with the symptoms of many neurological based conditions such as ADHD, Asperger’s, Tics and even Autism.

I was immediately fascinated by NeuroCore Therapy ever since attending a symposium in Hilton Head, SC,” explains Dr. Stiso.  “The science has been around for forty years, but until recently, it has only been available in large University laboratories. So far the results have been amazing! Coming from an entire family of chiropractic physicians our offices have seen thousands of patients.  And over the years there have been many new technologies and therapies to come along, but nothing compares to this.”

By using a computerized EEG (Electroencephalogram), electrical impulses known as brainwaves can be tracked and analyzed while the patient performs several different tasks such as reading or watching TV.  Ideally, the brain should switch between different brainwaves frequencies.  However if the brain cannot produce the needed brainwave it will use an alternate, less efficient wave to get the job done.  It is like taking the long country road to get to the store instead of the highway. Effective, but not efficient. Over time this inefficient wave becomes dominant causing changes in outward behavior.

ADD/ADHD: When you perform a task, like making breakfast, your brain should produce a fast brainwave (Beta wave) to keep you focused and allow for quick neurologic communication within the brain.  However, in an ADD/ADHD child, slow brainwaves (Theta waves) are used when performing a task.  Drugs like Ridalin and Aderol artificially elevate Beta waves for a short period of time. However these drugs are derived from Cocaine and, over time, can have serious adverse effects.

How Does It Work? During a typical training session sensors are placed on the scalp and brainwave activity is monitored by a NeuroCore computer.  Next, a DVD will begin playing on the computer screen.  The child is told to concentrate on the movie.  If the correct brainwaves are produced the movie will play; if the mind starts to wander, the movie will pause.  This protocol is repeated with video games, music, jigsaw puzzles and tactile stimulation (vibrating lounge chair). As the brain learns it becomes stronger and more efficient. This is called neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to adapt and open new neural pathways allowing for more efficient lines of communication. Similar to riding a bike, once the changes take place, the effects are permanent.

To learn more visit www.BrainCoreTherapy.com or (732)528-7746 to set up a free consultation.

In today’s fast-paced society, finding a doctor’s office that has flexible hours is of utmost importance to parents.  Pediatric Affiliates, which specializes in infants, children and adolescent medicine, is a place where kids of all ages and developmental stages can have access to healthcare, 24 hours a day, seven days a week.  Thanks to multiple facilities, extended hours, and a multi-lingual staff, appointments can be made for during the day, evenings, and even on weekends, 365 days a year to meet the needs of today’s active families.  This is a tremendous benefit for those families who have hectic schedules filled with school assignments, sports practices, and music lessons.

Pediatric Affiliates began forty years ago with one office in Toms River.  Since its inception, the practice has expanded immensely and now serves patients
in five other facilities in Monmouth and Ocean counties.  Principal owners Robert Shanik, M.D., F.A.A.P. and Ira Haimowitz, D.O., F.A.A.P. are proud of the practice’s growth and its long-standing reputation.  What sets Pediatric Affiliates apart from other offices is their dedication to patients.  One of the practice’s top priorities is providing one-on-one communication for its patients.  Pediatric Affiliates’ philosophy is that their patients deserve personal attention.  Therefore, questions and concerns from patients can always be answered, even after office hours.

The office of Pediatric Affiliates is comprised of 16 physicians and numerous nurse practitioners and physician assistants.  Having such a large staff allows the practice to accommodate many patients and to provide flexible hours.  One of the best features of Pediatric Affiliates is that the practice is completely self-contained.  Patients never have to worry about seeing a doctor they do not know.  Having this familiarity with the doctors is verycomforting for the patients of Pediatric Affiliates.

During a visit to the office, parents can expect to receive age appropriate information about their child’s developmental milestones, such as crawling, walking and the mastery of speech.  The staff tracks patients though their medical records and will supply parents with handouts and information when it is pertinent.   If parents have any concerns about their child’s development, they are encouraged to ask questions during office visits.  In addition, the staff will keep parents aware of when to bring their child in for timely physical examinations and other services, such as immunizations.   It’s important for parents to be actively involved in their child’s healthcare, as they are a key component in a child’s developmental progress.

Pediatric Affiliates has many convenient Shore area locations to choose from, including: River Avenue in Lakewood, 732-367-3700; Madison Avenue in Lakewood, 732-364-7770; Toms River, 732-341-0720; Manahawkin, 609-597-6200; Howell, 732-905-9166; and Brick, 732-458-0010.  Day, evening, and weekend appointments are available and most insurance plans are accepted.

The Foot & Ankle Center is pleased to be providing excellent compassionate podiatric care in Ocean County for the past 10 years. Our doctors and staff have strived to maintain clean, friendly facilities that are accessible 5 days per week. Extended hours are available to accommodate work schedules and weekend appointments are also available.

We specialize in many problems that young children have with their feet and/or ankles. Like warts ( most common pediatric foot problem) , flat feet, sports injuries, ingrown toenails, heel pain.

Dr. Killian and Dr. Paukovitz are board certified in foot surgery and are thoroughly trained in all aspects of podiatric care. We offer the most up-to-date treatment for all foot and ankle problems including skin and nail infections, ulcers, ingrown nails, nail fungus, bunions, hammertoes, heel pain (plantar fascitis), arthritis, neuropathy and neuromas (pain in the ball of the foot), as well as sprains and injuries of the foot and ankle.

As your physician our goal is not only to help you or your child back to health, but to educate you and help you to make the best choices you can regarding  you or your families foot health care.

Dr. Killian and Dr. Paukovitz are on staff at Community Medical Center and the Surgery Centers of Toms River.

The Foot & Ankle Center is pleased to participate with most insurances including Medicare, BCBS.Oxford/United and many others. Please contact Anne at 732-557-4266 to discuss your insurance coverage and to schedule your appointment.

Dentistry For Children, Adolescents

And The Handicapped

Dr. Francis H. Costello is the sole practitioner in his specialized practice treating the dental needs of children, adolescents and the handicapped.  Dr. Costello is a graduate of the New Jersey College of Medicine and Dentistry.  He went on to get his specialty degree in pediatric dentistry at St. Christopher’s Hospital for Children in Philadelphia.

Before settling in his Toms River office on a full time basis, Dr. Costello taught pediatric dentistry for ten years at St. Christopher’s Hospital for Children
and Temple Dental School in Philadelphia.

In addition to Dr. Costello, the office boasts an energetic. experienced and dedicated support staff.  The lead dental assistant and front desk receptionist have each been with Dr. Costello for over ten years, caring for the dental needs of the children and their families in his practice.

The office is conveniently located on the river in downtown Toms River, NJ.  We work with most dental plans and new patients are always welcome.  For more information or to make an appointment.



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