Now that the carefree days of summer are ebbing to a close, the Kehr family is ready to jump back into school and fall activities. Roseanne and Dan Kehr live with their daughters, Jade and Jamie, ages 11 and 10 respectively, in Pine Beach, NJ and look forward to the return to routine each autumn brings. Chief amongst the girls’ activities is their participation in the Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore (GSJS). Both girls began their Girl Scout journey as Daisy Girl Scouts while in Kindergarten. Having progressed through Daisies and Brownies, Jade is currently a Junior Girl Scout with Troop 171, and Jamie will bridge to Juniors Troop 216 later this month.
Roseanne and Dan are thrilled that their daughters have become dedicated to such an established and well-regarded organization, as local scouts prepare to celebrate the Girl Scouts centennial anniversary in 2012. “The girls get so much out of scouts – I’m so pleased that they choose to spend so much of their free time on this activity,” notes Roseanne. “The lessons and skills they learn now as young scouts will stay with them for a lifetime.” They feel fortunate that the girls are involved with the Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore and the many opportunities it presents.
While attending weekly troop meetings is a fun staple, the girls revel in all the outings their troops engage in during the year. They have attended Radio City Music Hall and Broadway shows in New York City, and last fall they toured Washington DC as a special trip. Based in cabins at a scout camp just outside the nation’s capital (including a special cabin for the fathers who attended), the girls were able to visit the Capitol building, as well as the Lincoln and Washington monuments, and several museums. They have also enjoyed overnight trips to a children’s museum in Mount Holly, NJ, and sleepovers at Amity Acres, the GSJS-owned camp in Waretown, NJ.
Jade and Jamie have taken part in various council events at Amity Acres and Camp Sacajawea, the GSJS’s Farmingdale, NJ facility, and visited many local business, including a floral designer and ice cream shop. “They love to see the inside of the stores, the behind-the-scenes aspect, and learn how people do things for a living,” says Roseanne. She continues, “I like that they get an idea of what is out there for them in the future and the careers they may find.”
Among their favorite scouting events is the “Powder Puff Derby” held each year. The girls fabricate wooden cars and race on a track, much like the “Pinewood Derby” attended by Boy Scouts. Both girls have worked together with their troop members to acquire achievement badges, and are now encouraged to work individually on the pursuits. Roseanne comments that they love the badges and “they really like looking back and seeing what they have accomplished” each time they don their multi-patch festooned vests.
Above all else, Jade and Jamie enjoy the camaraderie with their troop members. “They have invested so many years with their troop leaders, the same group of girls, and their parents that it has really become like a little family for them. They have learned how to work together as a group towards a goal, and that is something they’ll use their entire lives,” says their mom.
As a stay-at-home dad since the girls were babies, Dan mans the fort at home. In addition to ferrying the girls to many scout outings and meetings, Dan also devotes significant time to Jade’s troop’s ancillary involvement in a robotics program. Run by Jade’s troop leader’s husband, Rich Morgan, the girls make robots out of Lego®-brand toys, program the robots to perform various functions, such as kicking a ball, or putting a ball in a cup, then compete in obstacle course style events against other area groups. Dan also enjoys attending the Girl Scouts Father/Daughter Dance with Jade and Jamie every year. Since Roseanne’s job as a teacher at Freehold Elementary School makes it difficult for her to attend all the scout activities, she really looks forward to the Mother’s Day Brunch for Girl Scouts and their moms held annually at a local school.
YCT: Tell us a little about your family and the personalities of each of your children.
Roseanne: Jade is outgoing, energetic and musical – she plays the guitar, flute and piano and she sings. She started taking piano lessons when she was five, and just got her first electric guitar. Jamie is a bit quieter, more academic, and the family artist. She plays piano but doesn’t like to perform as much as Jade. Although they have their own bedrooms, they play together and get along really well like yin and yang. They get along brilliantly and I feel lucky that they are such close sisters. We are together a lot as family as we have always something going on or somewhere to go with such busy kids.
YCT: What is a typical day like in your home?
Roseanne: During the school year, most days we have something after school, but our family rule is that they have to have one day with no scheduled activities. I try to get that to be the same day for both of them, but that’s getting harder to do. On those rare free days, the girls usually have a friend over to hang out. We have dinner together every night as a family and usually at home. Right before bed, the girls and I like to read together. Sometimes we watch a show together like “American Idol” or one of the dance competition shows. If the shows are on late, we record them and they watch them before school. I have to leave for work very early but since Jamie has curly hair, she usually gets up so I can fix her hair. Since Jade has straight hair, she can style it herself. We always select outfits and make sure all notices are signed and everything is ready for school and after-school activities the night before because mornings are
hectic. Dan gets their lunchboxes ready and gets them off to school.
YCT: What activities do your children participate in after school?
Roseanne: In addition to girl scouts, Jamie takes art classes one day a week at the Ocean County Artist Guild in Island Heights. They have classes for kids and adults with a gallery downstairs and the studio upstairs. Every other week or so, they have a showing of local artists, and once a week a group of accomplished older artists meets in the studio room to do their print making. That is where they “lino-cut”, cutting up linoleum and making series of prints of their original work. Jamie likes to go watch the process and the folks are friendly and like to talk, especially to interested young artists. Jamie also takes piano lessons once a week at The Music Academy in Toms River. Other than that, she doesn’t like to be busy every day – she likes to have time to just do her art at home. Jade is the one that has to keep moving. She attends Once Upon A Dance in Toms River for ballet and is adding jazz and hip-hop lessons this year. They don’t have traditional recitals, but instead do performances of the Nutcracker Ballet at Christmas and a Spring Show. This year the theme was “Alice in Wonderland” – the show is a combination of all the dances styles performing a different scene or part of the same show – a continuous performance. The school provides all the costumes and props and the kids return them after the show. Jade also attends a combination class at The Music Academy one day each week. One week she takes piano and voice, the next week is guitar and voice. She performs there four times a year, so she is very comfortable on stage and doesn’t get nervous at all. In fact, the larger the audience, the more relaxed she is!
YCT: What is your favorite thing to do locally with your family?
Roseanne: We love to go to the boardwalk in Seaside. We start at the Fun Town Pier and walk up to Casino Pier hitting all the rides and games, and of course, all that delicious boardwalk food! We also go to the Beach Plum Festival in Island Beach every fall. We pick beach plums and stop at all the booths to see local artists and crafts, and get information about all kinds of environmental things, like saving the beaches, dunes, and animals. It’s a wonderful way to spend a beautiful Indian Summer day!
YCT: Do you have any favorite local vacation spots?
Roseanne: We always get a pass to drive on the beach at Island Beach State Park. We love to go surf fishing, fly kites and boogie board. The girls always find interesting shells and it’s great to picnic on the beach. They also have various family programs and walking tours with the rangers to identify plants and birds. One of our favorites is the seining program where families can seine on the bay side and the rangers describe what comes up in the net.
YCT: Have you ever gone on vacation without the kids?
Roseanne: No, we tend to everything together as a family. Childhood is so short and we want to be together as much as possible. Last March, I had a fun weekend in Atlantic City with my girlfriends. We got our hair done, went out to eat and saw some local bands. The nicest part for me was not having to care for or pack for anyone else!
YCT: Do you have a favorite family-friendly restaurant?
Roseanne: We like to go out a few times a month. Our favorite places are Yesterday’s in Bayville, Chili’s in Toms River and The Music Man ice cream parlor in Lavallette. Jade had her 11th birthday at The Music Man – we love the singing servers!
YCT: What is your favorite date night location and how often do you get to go out with just your husband?
Roseanne: Right now, we don’t go out alone very often, but just the other night we had a nice dinner alone at the Lamp Post Inn in Pine Beach. I’m sure we’ll do more of that as the kids get older.
YCT: What is your favorite non-mommy thing to do and how often do you get to do it?
Roseanne: I guess my favorite thing is to go to the Oxygen gym in Bayville. Although I don’t get there as often as I should, I try for three days a week.
YCT: What is your husband_s favorite non-daddy thing to do?
Roseanne: Dan likes to spend time with friends – to go out to lunch or work on a project.
YCT: Do you patronize any advertisers from our magazine?
Roseanne: The Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore is a great organization and I highly recommend it. Sometimes it’s hard to find a troop, but it is worth the wait. Jade and Jamie’s scout troops went to Sparkle Diva with some of the money they made from their cookie sale and had a fantastic time. We have been to Color Me Mine for birthday parties and once made a project for Jade’s teacher there. Of course, we really enjoy Casino Pier.
YCT: Do you have any parenting advice that you would like to offer our readers?
Roseanne: My thing is to make time to talk to your kids. I take advantage of car rides and am sure to actually listen to what they have to say. I want to hear their point of view and keep that line of communication open so as they become older and become teenagers we can still talk honestly about difficult subjects. I also swear by having dinner together and just finding as much time as possible to spend together. You know, they grow up so fast!
YCT: What is your favorite part of Your Child Today magazine?
Roseanne: Like most families, we rely on the calendar of events – we are always looking for what we can do for that rare time we do not have something scheduled.
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