Bee Mine Children’s Consignment and Specialty Boutique was invited to outfit a Fashion Show on March 5th at the Ocean County Mall.

It is at the end of a week long Dare to Care fundraiser, for Ocean of Love. Ocean of Love is a non-profit,charitable organization dedicated to helping Ocean County children with cancer and their families. Their purpose is to assist the children through their illness. They provide financial and emotional support so that they can experience the “normal” joys of childhood, knowing their lives are significant and meaningful to each and every one of us.

Bee Mine is in search of 10 boys and 10 girls ages  Newborn to 13 years old, to walk the Hollywood themed runway on March  5th. But we will also be looking for children to just wear some of our  items, such as headbands, hats and tutu’s and to be a part of the audience,  too! There is no limit for that!

In an effort to help raise funds for  Ocean of Love, Bee Mine will be conducting a Model search at our location,  1717 Route 37 East in Toms River, part of the Pied Piper Swim  School building, on Saturday, February 12th from 10AM to 3PM. There is a $10  application fee which will go directly to benefit Ocean of Love.  All kiddies interested in being a model, must be photographed by  Michael, our awesome photographer from The Picture People. If you are  interested, but not able to make it on the 12th, please call to make other  arrangements. Please call the store at 732-360-7793 or stop in, by  February 9th to fill out the application. We can also set an appointment  time for you that day!

Many activities will be taking place at the  shop on February 12th! E Video Productions (evideoproductions.net) will also  be there documenting the events of both days! Once Upon A Dream, Birthday  Parties For your Little Princess, will be polishing nails, Tracey, from  Tracey’s Funtastic Face Painting will be here from 11AM to 3PM!Designer  cupcakes will be provided by Joyful Treatz, as well as many other neat  surprises and events going on that day!

One applicant’s family will  also be chosen as The Focus Family for a month for the Your Child Today  magazine. If your child is chosen as one of our Models, you both must commit  to being at the Fashion Show at The Ocean County Mall on March 5th. We  strongly encourage all participants to attend the show on March 5th. There  will be a band and entertainment as well as other exciting activities, as well.

Please help us raise money for such an amazing organization.  They have helped Ocean County families with children with cancer since  October 1988 when it was co-founded by Linda Gillick and the late George  Goldt. In the words of the founder, “I hope that in my  lifetime we will be able to close our doors because cancer will have been  eradicated.  Until that day, we will do our best to provide the daily  needs of these children and their families.  We will hold their hands.  . . hug them tight. . . and provide the love and support emotionally and  financially to walk the road of hope”. Let’s help try to make that a  reality!

By Tricia Berwick

Imagine trying to steady yourself on a surf board as you attempt to catch the perfect wave or floating down a lazy river on an inner tube without a worry in the world for an entire afternoon.  A little hard to fathom at this time of the year?  Absolutely!  Especially with all the snow and ice that has covered the New Jersey landscape for the past month or two.  Don’t give up on those daydreams yet though.  It is possible to ride a few waves, and swim and splash, even during these frigid, frosty months.  At Sahara Sam’s Oasis Indoor Water Park in West Berlin, the forecast is 84 degrees every day, which makes it the perfect playground to chase away the winter blues.

This 58,000 square-foot water park, which celebrates summer year-round, offers many attractions for all ages.  There are thrilling water slides for older kids and grown-ups, and quiet little pools and splash areas for toddlers and babies to frolic and play too.  Between the warm temperatures and the tropical theme, this relaxing and fun atmosphere is an indoor paradise where families can take a short vacation from the every day routine without leaving New Jersey.

Although the staff at Sahara Sam’s wants all their guests to have tons of fun, Marcy Edwards, the park’s Director of Marketing, says their main goal every day is to create a safe environment.

“One comment that we always hear from the public is how safe Sahara Sam’s is,” says Edwards.  “We always have plenty of lifeguards on duty at all times to monitor all of the different play areas and even more on busy days such as holidays and weekends.”

Sam Girlya owns the water park and his son, Ilya, is the managing owner.  Because the park is a family-run business, the owners know first-hand that ensuring their guests’ safety is the first and most important step in creating an environment in which families can feel comfortable enjoy their experience.

“The owners of Sahara Sam’s Oasis take pride in making the water park a place where families can participate in the activities together with their children while having a great time,” says Edwards.  “They know what type of product the public wants.”

Since its inception, the public has been quite pleased with what Sahara Sam’s Oasis has to offer its customers.  One of the most popular attractions is the Flow Rider Surfing Simulator, the only attraction of its kind in New Jersey.  Participants need to be at least 8 to surf.  Other attractions include: Snake Eyes Tube Slides, Mt. Kilamanjaro Family Raft Ride, Tim-Buk Tu Tree Fort with Tipping Bucket, a Lizard Lagoon for younger guests, the Crocodile Flats Cargo Rope Course, Sam’s Slam Dunker Water Basketball, and the Congo Bongo Adventure River.

On a recent trip to Sahara Sam’s Oasis, my twin six-year-old daughters relished the opportunity to wear their bathing suits during the winter months.  They absolutely loved sliding, splashing, and swimming underwater.

One ride they couldn’t get enough of was the Congo Bongo Adventure River.  The girls had a blast floating down this lazy river while getting sprayed and splashed with water.  While one of my daughters was a little apprehensive about the Crocodile Flats Cargo Rope Course, the other was determined to get her little body across without falling into the pool.  Although her arms weren’t strong enough to successfully navigate to the other side of the pool successfully, she had lots of fun trying and even enjoyed falling off into the pool.

Our favorite ride together was the Mt. Kilamanjaro Family Raft Ride.  Once we climbed to the top of the water slide, the whole family piled into a circular raft and prepared ourselves for the trip down though the dark, wet tube.  Once the attendant nudged our raft into the tube’s entrance, we quickly picked up speed and raced down the chute while winding through all of its twists and turns.  Of course, there was lots of giggling and screaming from my girls, and my hubby, as we made our way down the slide and finally exited the tube with a thunderous splash in the pool at the bottom!  We loved the raft ride so much that we went down a few times throughout the course of the day.

Once your family is completely tuckered out from all of the water attractions, there are showers and dressing rooms to change back into dry clothes before the ride home.  If your crew has worked up an appetite, you can treat them to a slice of pizza or some chicken tenders at the full-service Sand Dune Café.  And for the adults, Sahara Sam’s now has a full modern lounge with bar right inside the water park.  The bar features specialty cocktails, draft and bottle beers, and signature frozen drinks.  Food service is also available at the bar.  The lounge area also has several flat screen televisions which will feature many sporting events.

In addition to all of the water attractions, Sahara Sam’s Oasis also has a 3,000 square foot arcade to entertain the kids once they’re all dried off.  The great thing about the arcade is that the kids can take a break from the water rides for a little while, play a few games, and then return to the water park.  Guests can easily go back and forth between the two areas.

Sahara Sam’s is about a 60 to 90 minute drive from the Shore area.  So if you’d like to extend your trip into an overnight or weekend getaway, take advantage of one of Sahara Sam’s “Stay and Play Packages.”   Though not connected to a hotel, the water park has great connections with some area hotels.  All of the packages offer tickets to the water park with a hotel reservation.

After your trip to Sam’s, keep it in mind for your child’s next birthday party or special occasion.  As a complete indoor entertainment center, Sahara Sam’s has private party rooms which are perfect for hosting all kinds of events, including birthday parties, group trips for schools, camps, scouts and youth groups, bar or bat mitzvahs, family reunions, company picnics, and fundraising programs.

With spring still many weeks away, you and your family can take a break from the doldrums of winter while staying right here in New Jersey.  Just pack up your pool bag and head over to West Berlin for a day of family fun at Sahara Sam’s Oasis Indoor Water Park.  Sahara Sam’s is located at 535 Route 73 North.  For more information, splash over to their website at saharasams.com, or call 856-767-7580.  Be sure to check out the online 360 degree tour of the water park before your trip.  You can even sign up for their e-newsletter which will provide exclusive offers and discounts, as well as details on upcoming events and special promotions.

Some noteworthy upcoming events at Sahara Sam’s Oasis include:

1.) Sahara Sam’s Special Needs Exclusive Nights .  Admission is only $15 per person (regularly $29.95).  Non-participating chaperones are only $5.  Tickets for these special evenings are limited, so they suggest purchasing tickets online to guarantee admission.  The evening will feature water play on Sahara Sam’s most popular attractions that offer a variety of sensory stimulation.  There will also be a quiet room available.  The lighting and sound will be modified throughout the water park and arcade.  Guests can bring their own snacks into the water park or dine from the full-service café.  Sahara Sam’s wants all of the guests to be comfortable, so T-shirts and shorts are okay to wear for swimming.  There will be plenty of seating available throughout the water park.  Guests just need to bring their own towels.  These evenings are open to all ages and there are activities for everyone.  Siblings, friends and family are welcome to attend this “no judgment zone” event.

“Our family understands firsthand what it means to have a special needs child,” says Sam Girlya, the Chairman of Sahara Sam’s.  “Our daughter Gabriella has inspired all of us to be patient, sensitive, and understanding.  One of our goals here at Sahara Sam’s is to encourage all people to come together and have fun.”

2.) During the month of February, Sahara Sam’s Oasis is hosting “Wacky Wednesdays.” All weekday tickets are only $14.95 through February 28.  These special tickets are available online or at the door.  However, if you purchase your tickets online, your family is guaranteed admission.

3.) Also during the month of February, Sam’s is featuring “Buy One Get One Free Weekends.” These tickets are also available online or at the door, but Sahara Sam’s highly recommends buying the tickets online to guarantee admission.

4.) If you travel to the water park during your child’s birthday month, their admission ticket will be just $12.  Guests must show proof of age either by showing a state issued license, birth certificate, or military identification.

By Dr. Elisa Velazquez

February is National Children’s Dental Health Awareness Month.  Each February, since 1949, the American Dental Association (ADA) has sponsored National Children’s Dental Health Month to raise awareness about the importance of oral health.  There are two great events going on in Ocean County.

To observe this month, many dental offices and clinics throughout the country are offering a day of FREE dental care for children under 12 for GIVE KIDS A SMILE DAY.  This day is Friday, February 4, 2011.  This event targets children who otherwise do not have access to dental care.  Visit NJDA.org/GKAS for all locations in New Jersey.

The doctors of Ocean Pediatric Dental Associates are volunteering in Give Kids A Smile Day for the 4thconsecutive year.  We have treated over 300 children for free and provided services such as cleanings, X-rays, and extractions.   Our goal this year is to examine and treat 100 children in need for Give Kids A Smile Day.  We want to educate families about the importance of the prevention of decay.  We will provide dental exams, cleanings and necessary urgent care for children in need AT NO COST.   Many children live each day with dental disease resulting in pain & infection.  Dental pain prevents children from concentrating & learning in school and results in missed school days.  In the current economic climate, many families push health care to the back burner.  Give Kids a Smile Day is our opportunity to help our community.   Every child deserves to live pain free and should be examined by a qualified dentist.  On February 4th, we will open our doors in Toms River to help those families in need and provide free dental care for children ages 1 thru 12.  We want to educate families about prevention and diagnose any problems that are present.  Call to reserve an appointment for your child, or refer any families that you think would benefit from this day.

There is also a dental health fair at the Ocean County Mall on Sunday,  February 13th.  This event is sponsored by the Monmouth-Ocean County Dental Society.  (www.M-OCDS.org)  We have prizes, give-aways, a magician & several local dentists, orthodontists, and pediatric dentists to answer any questions.  The Stafford Police Department is participating and will fabricate digital ID cards for children that participate.  This event has been a HUGE success in the past, and we look forward to another great day.

DENTAL FACTS

*The ADA recommends that children be seen by a dentist at AGE 1

*Cavities are a bacterial infection  & Cavities can be prevented!

*Tooth decay is the most common chronic childhood disease

*Tooth decay is dramatically on the rise for children ages 0-5 years old

For More information contact:

Ocean Pediatric Dental Associates

368 Lakehurst Road  Suite 305

Toms River, NJ 08755

732-473-1123

Visit www.oceanpediatricdental.com

By Tricia Berwick

Every year it seems like such a daunting task to bundle the girls up in all of their cold-weather gear, but even though my sister and I may grumble and complain just a little bit, we still get the kids dressed in hats, gloves, pants and boots send them into the snow to play and go sleigh riding.  How could we not?  They talk about the white stuff all year long, even during the middle of a hot and humid summer!  They really look forward to trudging through the snow, making a snowperson (we’ll be politically correct here!), and gliding down the neighborhood hill on one of our inflatable snow tubes.  It doesn’t matter if the wind is howling or the sun isn’t shining, they love to go sledding; no matter what the temperature is.  Simply put, they have the best time, so it’s our job to make it happen.  We get all of the snow gear ready and make sure the kids are as warm as possible.  Of course, dressing the kids from head to toe is not one of our favorite things to do, but we do it anyway because we are the moms.  Even though the thought of having tons of dripping wet clothes strewn throughout your house doesn’t seem all that appealing, let the kids have their fun.

If you decide to take the kids out for a spin on the new sled that Santa left underneath the Christmas tree, here are two great spots to make some winter memories.

1.)Holmdel Park, Longstreet Rd., Holmdel—Parents absolutely loves this park because it is one of the only places that has a supervised sledding area.  It is open when two or more inches of snow cover the hill.   The hill is very safe because it is free from obstacles and is grassy underneath which is extremely comforting for parents.  One of the best features of the park is the warming area with a blazing fire.  After a few runs down the hill, take a break and sip some hot chocolate by the fire before heading back up the hill for some more sledding.  Hours are from 8am-7pm Sunday through Thursday and from 8am-9pm Friday and Saturday.   However, before you head out the door, it’s always best to call Holmdel Park at (732) 946-9562 for current sledding conditions.

2.)Howell-This sledding hill can be found across the street from Oak Glen Park (245 Preventorium Road).  It is between the library and the police department.  Like Holmdel Park, the hill can get pretty busy, but there is usually room for everyone.  Just be careful with the little ones as the hill is pretty steep and long so the rides will be quite fast.  There is parking at the recreation department or at the library at the bottom of the hill.  This sledding spot doesn’t have a warming area, so bring a thermos of hot cocoa for the kids to chase away the chills.  Another good idea is to bring a blanket and place it around the kids as they race down the hill for a little extra warmth.  If you decide not to use it during your sleigh riding session, it’s a great thing to have in the car after you’re finished battling the cold temperatures.

After your family returns home from sleigh riding, it’s always a challenge to get the kids warm and toasty pretty quickly.  So, here are some helpful hints to make your post-sledding experience as stress-free as possible:

1.)Put a plastic tablecloth on the floor near the door before you head out for your sledding adventure.  When the kids come back from a spending a few hours sliding down the nearest hill, have them peel off the wet layers and place them onto the tablecloth.  This way, the drippy clothes will be confined to one spot and the other areas of your house won’t get wet.  Then when you have a free minute, throw everything into the dryer.

2.)Even though the snow pants and boots are supposed to be waterproof, sometimes your child’s clothes underneath the snowsuit get a little wet and cold.  So, put an extra set of dry clothes and socks near the front door before you head out sleigh riding.  After your children free themselves from their wet clothes, they will immediately have something warm and snuggly to put on.

3.)Get the hot chocolate and cookies ready before you leave the house.  If your kids are like mine, they look forward to sipping hot cocoa with marshmallows pretty much as soon as they get back from an afternoon of sledding.  To make my life a little easier, I try and have everything accessible to feed the hungry and thirsty troops.

4.)Have a movie ready for the kids to watch when they return.  Those little legs get mighty tired after climbing up and down a hill numerous times.  Chances are your kids will be absolutely exhausted when they get back from sleigh riding, so let them unwind while watching one of their favorite flicks.  And, if you joined the kids and climbed the hill a few times too, you’re probably pooped out yourself!  So, pop some popcorn and make it a family movie night for everyone.

5.)Or, if your kids like splashing around in the tub and playing with a few toys, run a bubble bath and let the kids relax and get warm.

The flakes are flying which means your children are automatically thinking about when and where they will go sleigh riding.  Take a few deep breaths, break out all of the winter materials and start getting the kids ready.  Just remember to dress the children in layers, have them wear extra socks, and bring lots of hot chocolate for the afternoon.  Oh, and don’t forget to bring the camera and snap a few cool pictures like this one!  Talk about priceless!

Whether it’s to play in the surf, build a sandcastle, take a dip in the pool, have a bite to eat, or indulge in a relaxing massage, the best thing about Atlantis Resort in Paradise Island, the Bahamas is that all of these things can be done right on the hotel’s unique ocean-themed property.  For those traveling with kids, this is a tremendous advantage as parents don’t have to worry about packing up the little ones and driving to the beach or other activities.  Once the family wakes up and is ready to start the day, everything is right outside the hotel room.

Shari O’Connor has enjoyed a number of vacations at the Paradise Island destination and is looking forward to a trip this year with her children.

“Atlantis is just an awesome place to vacation,” says O’Connor.   “I have been there at least 20 times but our trip in May will be the first time with the kids.  The best thing is that there is plenty to do for everyone.  Atlantis has great pools for all ages and really terrific beaches, too.  They have the aquariums and lots of things for kids which we will experience in May.   Also, it’s a relatively short plane ride from New Jersey which is extremely helpful when traveling with kids.  If parents can handle the flight to Disney World in Florida, they can make it to the Bahamas since it is a comparable trip.    My husband and I are really looking forward to our trip to Atlantis with our three-year-old triplets.”

Before your family makes a reservation this year like the O’Connors, it’s important to thoroughly research the resort’s accommodations and decide which type of room would work best.  The Cove Atlantis offers contemporary suites while the Royal Towers is situated in the middle of all the action and Coral and Beach Towers are situated in a relaxing and tropical setting.  The Reef Atlantis offers many of the comforts of home in spacious studios and one-bedroom suites.  Having additional living space may be more suitable for larger families.

Another factor to consider is whether or not to purchase one of the hotel’s two dining plans.  Your family can choose from the Value Dining Plan which is $50 per day for adults and $25 per day per child (ages 7-11).  This plan offers a full American or continental breakfast and dinner daily at Seagrapes, Marketplace, or Virgil’s Barbeque which opens in July.  Guests can enjoy a choice of appetizer, entrée, and dessert for dinner.   The Atlantis Dining Plan is more expensive but offers a wider selection of dining choices.  This plan is $95 a day for adults and $35 a day for children.  The Atlantis Dining plan offers a full American or continental breakfast at Voyagers, Seagrapes, Murray’s Delicatessen, Plato’s, Marketplace, Virgils BBQ* (Opens on July 1, 2011), Mosaic or The Pointe Restaurant & Bar and dinner daily in Seagrapes, Bahamian Club, Casa D’Angelo, Chop Stix, Marina Pizzeria, Bimini Road, Carmine’s, Murray’s Delicatessen, Atlas Bar & Grill, Marketplace, Virgils BBQ, Mesa Grill, Mosaic or The Pointe Restaurant & Bar.  Dinner includes a choice of one appetizer, entrée and dessert. Children ages 6 and under eat free.  It’s important to note that meal plans cannot be purchased on the Island, so all reservations must be made prior to arrival.

Lisa Tozzi spent five days at Atlantis over the summer with her husband, two kids, and parents.  They purchased one of the dining plans before the trip and found it be well worth the money.

“Buying the dining plan was very helpful,” says Tozzi.  “It seemed expensive at first, but it was cost effective in the long run.  We enjoyed a full breakfast buffet at many of the resort’s restaurants and dinner in the evenings.  The dinner was an appetizer, entree and dessert and a non-alcoholic beverage for both adults and kids.  The breakfast buffets were phenomenal as were the dining choices.  Like any resort, alcoholic drinks were fairly expensive as was food a la carte at both the casual dining places and the take-out concessions by the pools and restaurants.”

Allison Vogel and her family also purchased one of the meal plans which they would highly recommend to other guests, as well.

“We purchased the meal plan which was worth it to us,” says Vogel.  “It included breakfast, a snack and dinner.  The breakfast buffet was huge and we ate later in the morning so that we really didn’t need lunch.”

As those with kids know, children are always thirsty and hungry, so Vogel says it’s a good idea to have some additional drinks and snacks handy throughout the day.

“Just remember, that everything you buy there is very expensive, so pack as much water, snacks, and sunscreen that you need and then some,” says Vogel. “Another tip is to bring cups with lids for the kids to the breakfast buffet.  They can fill them up there and then have adrink later in the day.   If possible, pack a soft cooler that can fold up in your suitcase for the trip and fill it with ice and drinks for the day.”

After a restful night of sleep and a bountiful breakfast, the next item on the agenda is to decide how your family will spend the day since there are countless activities and things to do.

One of the most popular attractions is the resort’s Aquaventure Water Park which is a unique 141-acre waterscape.  It is available to every guest of the Atlantis Resort.  The water-park features thrilling water slides, a mile-long river ride with rolling rapids and wave surges, 20 swimming areas, a water-play fort made especially with kids in mind, and 11 different pools.  This sprawling water area uses over 20 million gallons of water.

Lisa Tozzi’s two children thoroughly enjoyed every aspect of Aquaventure which is one of the largest water parks in the Eastern Hemisphere.

“There were two lazy rivers, and lots of water slides, some of which were more appropriate for older kids and adults,” says Tozzi.  “The kids spent a lot of time playing in the water-play fort since it offered a lot for them to do.  In addition to this play area just for kids, there were also other mini-water slides throughout the resort.  The kids also really enjoyed seeing many live animals in various pools throughout the resort.  One pool was full of sea turtles and another with stingrays and sharks.  Each pool had designated feeding times which was fun for the kids to see.  Since Atlantis offers so many activities and things to do, I found the daily “activity list” which was in our hotel room every day to be extremely helpful.   This way I knew exactly where things were being held and the specific times for each activity such as arts and crafts, feeding of marine life, or cooking classes.”

Vogel’s children also enjoyed the resort’s water-based activities, but she could see parents of really small children having a problem with some of the water rides.

“They were very strict about height requirements,” says Vogel.  “The lazy river was not lazy.  It was more like white water rafting on a tube.  They did have a pool and a slide area for children 48 inches and under but I think it is a vacation that you would enjoy most with school age children.”

In addition to the Aquaventure Water Park, there are countless water adventures for your family to choose from.  The snorkel excursions take place aboard a 45-foot catamaran and are two and a half hours long.  Guests will learn from an Atlantis Aquarist about coral reefs and fish.  The Bahamas is also a great place to scuba dive.  For over ten years, it has been named “Best Place to Dive with Big Animals.”  This is for certified divers who want to explore walls, reefs, and wrecks.  Snuba is also offered which is a terrific way to experience the undersea marine life without being scuba certified.

If your family is really looking to enjoy a different type of water activity, check out Dolphin Cay which is situated on 14 acres and uses 6.6 million gallons of crystal clear seawater.  It is one of the largest and most sophisticated marine habitats and dolphin rescue-rehabilitation facilities anywhere in the world.  In this attraction, vacationers have the unique opportunity to swim with dolphins.  Guests are provided with all-day access to Dolphin Cay’s private beach.  Wet suits and lockers are provided and souvenir photos of your experience are available for purchase.  Guests can wade in waist-deep waters for an up-close experience with the dolphins or they can take part in a deep water swim which allows participants to snorkel and glide alongside a dolphin with your very own water scooter.  Tozzi’s family found this part of the vacation to be extremely exciting and memorable.

“Dolphin Cay was a wonderful experience for my family,” says Tozzi.  “We were ‘suited up’ in short wetsuits which the resort provided so we could all get into the tanks and swim with the dolphins.  My kids absolutely loved it.”

There’s also ’ The Dig which features habitats for 100 venomous Indo-Pacific Ocean Lionfish, 500 piranhas, iridescent jellyfish and six-foot Moray Eels.  Your family can take an exciting journey through the streets and tunnels of the lost city of Atlantis while viewing marine life exhibits.  There is also an interactive touch tank aquarium, filled with conch, starfish, sea urchins, sea cucumbers, crabs and horseshoe crabs.

Tozzi’s family enjoyed this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

“A big attraction is their ‘Dig’ which is an underground Mayan dig ground,” says Tozzi. “We walked through and saw gigantic underground tanks with thousands of sea animals, stingrays, sharks, turtles, and exotic fish.  We were able to visit a touch tank to touch sea urchins and starfish which the kids really liked.”

All of the activities are a lot fun and will definitely keep your family busy throughout the day, but don’t forget to spend some time just relaxing on the sand, too. There are three beautiful beaches available to guests of Atlantis, Paradise Island.  Seven-acre Paradise Lagoon offers snorkeling, paddle boats, and other water sports in a protected environment which is great for those with kids.

Lisa Tozzi made it a priority to enjoy the white sandy beaches for part of the trip.

“Of course, we spent a lot of time on the beach where the water was so blue, clean and calm,” says Tozzi.  “The beaches were just beautiful.”

After the sun sets each evening, there are various ways to relax and enjoy the nightlife.  Atlantis has over 40 restaurants, bars and lounges, a comedy club, theatre, nightclub, and casino.  There are even options for families.  Kids can enjoy a few arcade games at Gamer’s Reef or build a stuffed animal from scratch at Atlantis Pals.  The Earth and Fire Pottery Studio offers kids a chance to explore their creative sides.  There is also the Atlantis Kids Adventures program, Club Rush for pre-teens and a brand new nightclub, CRUSH, just for teens.

Whether you are soaking in the sun or splashing in the surf, there are many ways to spend your time at Atlantis, Paradise Island.  In addition to the many amenities the resort offers, it’s also a short flight from the Jersey Shore which makes it a very desirable vacation destination for area families.

Tozzi’s family had an early morning flight which enabled them to kick off their shoes and relax around lunchtime.

“Continental Airlines offered a direct flight to Nassau from Newark Liberty International Airport early in the morning when we traveled,” says Tozzi.  “This was great because it gave us a good portion of the day to enjoy the beach and the resort.  The flight was a little under three hours, which is just slightly longer than going to Disney World.  Overall we gave the resort a high rating since there was so much to see and do.  There were many other families vacationing at the resort, too.  In fact, we even bumped into a family we knew from back home!”

For more information or to make a reservation, visit atlantis.com.  The website provides comprehensive information about special events and packages.  You can also view photos and videos of the resort, browse through maps, or see the current weather.  Or call 1-800-atlantis for additional information or reservations.

Noteworthy Events for 2011 at Atlantis, Paradise Island:

1.)   CRUSH, the ultimate nightclub for teens ages 13 to 17 vacationing on Paradise Island, will be having their grand opening January 1, 2011. CRUSH is a 14,000 square-foot space that boasts an Internet Lounge—complete with multi-touch computers and surface tables with photo editing and publishing interfaced to Facebook, a Gaming Room stocked with state-of-the-art technology ranging from the new Microsoft flagship motion sensor product Kinect for Xbox 360 to a floor-to-ceiling gaming tree with 24 gaming consoles, ten private gaming cabanas, and even a selection of iPads for internet browsing. Multi-purpose video walls decorate the Dance Club’s VIP sections and a live DJ is accessible via a touch screen song request system. There’s also a bar serving non-alcoholic drinks and the CRUSH Café serves up snacks, from pizzas to smoothies to ice cream and more.

2.)   Rock and Roll Fantasy Camp, President’s Day Weekend, February 17-20, 2011.  Adult rockers will be mentored by world-renowned music rock star “counselors” including Tommy Lee, solo artist and founding member of the metal band Mötley Crüe, Ace Frehley, an original member of the rock band Kiss and Lita Ford, formerly the lead guitarist/singer of The Runaways.  A special “Young Rockers” program for teens aged 12-16 is also available.  Campers will write and record original music, participate in jam sessions and rehearsals and conclude the weekend with a finale concert where the rock-legends will perform live on stage with each camper’s band.

3.)   Atlantis Kids Adventures is now available at the resort.  Resort guests ages 3-12 are able to choose their own adventure at AKA, with staff Adventure Guides available to help with culinary lessons, interactive electronic art, theater and outdoor play.  All of the activities are customized to each child’s own personal interests.  The 8,000 square-foot area features interactive touch-screen walls, tables and floors.  Projections on the walls and floors feature schools of fish and other creatures that follow fingers and swim away from the touch of hands; lizards may chase their feet across the floor or beach balls may bounce around them.  Children, also known as Adventurers, are matched with an Adventure Guide for their day of exploration at AKA, which features themed spaces designed specifically for children’s imagination and enjoyment.  Some of the activities include: a culinary kitchen, game room, Wizardology reading room, fully stocked “grocery store”,computer area, performance area, and a LEGO construction area.  Adventurers can send a postcard with a personalized message and picture directly from their table to their grandparents, teachers and friends at home.  The fully stocked crafts area provides a variety of tactile painting, drawing, designing and decorating activities.  AKA has also employed modern technology for the safety and security of all young guests.  Upon arrival at the club, parents electronically register their children, at which time a digital picture of each is taken.  The child is outfitted with a coded bracelet and when parents return, AKA Adventurers are able to locate their child immediately using a Radio Frequency Identification system which pinpoints exactly which area of the club they are currently exploring.   Partial and full-day participation at AKA is available, as well as special evening programs, including Candy Carnival and Buccaneer’s Bash themed nights.  Prices for AKA programming range from $45 to $65 per session.  For more information about Atlantis Kids Adventures, or to make a reservation for Atlantis, Paradise Island, please call 1-800-ATLANTIS or visit atlantis.com.

By Jennifer Enright

The third time was the charm for Janice and Patrick Farrell of Manchester Township.  Having met, and briefly dated, twice before deciding to go their separate ways, they did not seem destined to spend their lives together.  Yet when a mutual friend suggested they go on a date several years later, something clicked and they have been together ever since.  They married in 1998, originally settling in Pat’s hometown of North Brunswick before moving to their current home in Manchester in 2002.  “I don’t know why it didn’t work out the first two times we dated.  I guess it just wasn’t the right time,” Janice describes.  “Something was pulling us together, though, because it was my co-worker’s boyfriend, who was also a good friend of Pat’s, who suggested we go out that third time.  It really is a small world – with so many possible connections,” she notes.

The couple were blessed with two daughters, eight-year-old Kiley, and Bailey, age 10.  Rounding out the family is a six-year-old Maltese named Archie.  “He’s a real mama’s dog, the son I never had,” quips Janice, adding that Archie loves to be on Janice’s lap when he’s not delighting the kids by dancing on his back legs.

Janice left her job as a manager at Verizon to stay home when the girls were small.  About two years ago, she found a job as aparaprofessional at Manchester Township Elementary School aiding children with challenges.  “I have the best job in the world.  I make less money than I used to, but I get so much joy from my job and the kids,” she claims.  Pat has worked for the NJ Department of Corrections for the past 11 years.  Since he often has to work on weekends, the family tries to “seize the moment,” says Janice, and spend as much time together as possible.

The active family likes to take spontaneous trips, often to locales complimenting the girls’ school curriculum.  They have traveled to the historic village in Allaire State Park in Farmingdale and Monmouth Battlefield to tie-in with the girls’ studies of colonial times and NJ history.  Since Janice considers herself “directionally challenged”, the advent of GPS has been a boon to the family’s journeys, noting, “I just yell ‘road trip!’ and everyone is ready to go in 15 minutes for a surprise adventure.  In the past, I wouldn’t tell them where we were going in case we got lost, but now we have GPS and sometimes still keep it a secret just so it will be a big surprise when we get there.”

YCT: Tell us a little about your family and the personalities of each of your children.

Janice: Bailey is kind and confident, and wants to be a lawyer.  She loves to write and scored advanced proficient on her NJAsk Language Arts test last year.  She often writes about our road trips in her journal.  A very serious student, she has a really great sense of humor.  Her classmates have even commented on how funny her written stories are.  Kiley, on the other hand, is very different.  She’s very free-spirited, our ‘hippie’ child, and loves nature and being outside – she’d rather climb a tree or ride on her scooter than do her homework.  She wants to be a chef and recently told me she is going to open a five-star restaurant in Paris right under the Eifel Tower!

Patrick is a casual guy, both in the way he dresses, and in his attitude.  A history buff, he loves to watch the History Channel on TV.  He’s very family-oriented and would rather spend his free time with his family than be off by himself.  He can be silly and likes to be the ‘fun dad’, so I sometimes have to reign him and the girls in to get homework and chores done.  I love to laugh and strive to maintain a harmonious balance between work and play.

YCT: What is a typical day like in your home?

Janice: Since I work at the school the girls attend, I usually drive them in.  But because I want them to have their own identities at school, I try not to have too much contact with them once we are all there.  After school, we talk about our days while the girls have a snack and do homework.  Then we’re off to activities or the girls play with friends before we reconnect at dinner time.  Bailey loves to read in her room at bedtime, and I often read with Kiley, since it is not her favorite thing to do!

YCT: What activities do your children participate in after school?

Janice: Their absolute favorite activity is to go to Mathnasium in Toms River.  I was really bad at math as a kid – I actually used to cry because it was so difficult for me.  When Bailey was in third grade, she started to struggle a bit with her math lessons, and I didn’t want her to get frustrated like I had been.  So we signed her up for Mathnasium and she thought it was fantastic.  Kiley saw how much Bailey enjoyed it, and asked to go, too.  They incorporate fun games and activities to teach math concepts.  All the tricks and methods they teach make it easy for the girls to be successful at math, which builds their confidence so much.  Even though facts and figures haven’t changed since I was a kid, the way the concepts are taught is so different that there are times that I really can’t help them with homework.  At school, the kids are in large classes with other students of all different levels of math abilities.  Mathnasium gives them individual attention, geared to their own aptitude – a proven recipe for success!

Bailey has taken Irish stepdancing lessons for the past three years.  She performs in the winter concert in December and the June recital.  This year she is looking forward to participating in some St. Patrick’s Day events.  Kiley has gone to gymnastics for several years.  Since third grade is such a challenging academic year, she is not taking lessons this year, but plans to return to classes next year.  And both girls go to CCD at St. John’s Church in Lakehurst.

Kiley loves to swim in our pool in the summer – she’s such a natural and started swimming when she was just two years old.  But both girls are really looking forward to snow!  Last year they built two snowmen – Snowy and Snowy Jr. – in our yard.  They spent a lot of time sledding at Christ Episcopal Church in Toms River.  We can’t wait to take them snow tubing and skiing in the Poconos this year.

YCT: What is your favorite thing to do locally with your family?

Janice: We love to go to Great Adventure and always get season passes.  The girls are fearless on roller coasters.  They also enjoy thesafari, and their favorite thing is Fright Fest where they watch all the dancers perform spooky routines.  The beach is a favorite spot in the summer.  We often go to Seaside’s Casino Pier and Jenkinson’s Boardwalk and Aquarium in Point Pleasant.  The girls also love to go to Castle Park in Toms River when the weather is nice.

YCT: Do you have any favorite local vacation spots?

Janice: During the summer, the girls attend week-long camps at Ocean County College.  Last summer, Kiley did a CSI detective session and Bailey did a “make your own movie” class.  This summer, Bailey plans to attend a writing workshop.  Summer is a big time for our road trips.  We’ve gone to see Lucy the Elephant in Margate, Ripley’s Believe It or Not Museum in Atlantic City and the Barnegat Lighthouse.  We go to Florida to spend a few weeks every summer with my mother and are really looking forward to planning a European vacation to Ireland and Scotland in 2012.

YCT: Have you ever gone on vacation without the kids?

Janice: We really wouldn’t want to.  We enjoy experiencing new things with our kids and seeing things through their eyes.  It’s so interesting to get their take on things and what it all means to them.

YCT: Do you have a favorite family-friendly restaurant?

Janice: We don’t go out that much, but the Golden Dragon Chinese Restaurant on Route 37 in Toms River and Chevy’s in Brick are our favorites.  And we all love Dairy Queen – Bayville, Tinton Falls, Millstone or Toms River – it doesn’t matter – we will drive for Dairy Queen!

YCT: What is your favorite date night location and how often do you get to go out with just your husband?

Janice: Now that the girls are older, we can get away to the Renault Winery in Egg Harbor or the casinos in Atlantic City for a few hours once in a while.

YCT: What is your favorite non-mommy thing to do and how often do you get to do it?

Janice: Most of my girlfriends are single without children and every couple of months, we will go to dinner and not talk about kids!

YCT: What is your husband¹s favorite non-daddy thing to do?

Janice: He enjoys taking a nice long motorcycle ride towards New Egypt, or going trap-shooting.

YCT: Do you patronize any advertisers from our magazine?

Janice: Besides Mathnasium, Jenkinson’s and the Casino Pier, the girls have gone on the Jersey Shore Pirate Adventure.  We are planning a day at Sparkle Diva and also at Color Me Mine.

YCT: Do you have any parenting advice that you would like to offer our readers?

Janice: My husband would say “you gotta let them be kids” and I would add that it’s so important to spend time with them and hug them.  Especially working with so many kids at school, I can tell you that a little hug can go a long way.

YCT: What is your favorite part of Your Child Today magazine?

Janice: Of course it’s the Calendar of Events.  We are always looking for the next Farrell family adventure!

By  Tricia Berwick

We have officially flipped the calendar to 2011 which means it’s time for a fresh start.  The beginning of a new year is the perfect opportunity to make some improvements in your life.   Commonly called New Year’s resolutions, these commitments or promises often reform lifestyle changes.  Here is a list of some of the most popular New Year’s resolutions:

1.) Improve Health- After enjoying lots of holiday goodies from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Day, many people use this time to get back on track and resume a healthy lifestyle of diet and exercise.  If you need to lose a few pounds this year, closely look at your daily diet to see exactly what types of food you are eating.  One of the best ways to monitor food consumption is to keep a food journal.  By writing down what you eat, you will be able to hold yourself more accountable.   If you need a little help shedding a few pounds, join a program such as Weight Watchers to help achieve your goals.  Another popular pledge is to exercise more, too.  Fitness centers offer numerous specials and deals during the month of January, which makes it the perfect time to join a health club.  However, if the monthly membership doesn’t fit your budget, make plans to walk with a friend a few days a week.  Having a partner to exercise with on a regular basis will motivate both of you to follow through with your commitment.  The other health-related old standbys are to quit smoking and drink less alcohol.

2.) Improve Finances- After the last holiday gift bill is paid in full, resolve to design a new budget for the family and then stick to it.  Only buy presents for a specific holiday or birthday this year and avoid impulse shopping.  Eat out less and make more meals at home, also.  This will save a significant amount of money throughout 2011.  Instead of buying books and movies, take them out of the library for free. Or, take advantage of the low interest rates, and refinance your mortgage.

3.) Improve Career- Are you stuck in your current job?  If you feel it’s time to look for a new job, polish your resume and market yourself.   Or, use some of your industry contacts to secure a different position.  Networking is very important when looking for a new job opportunity.

4.) Improve Education—If you need to take a few classes to move up in your job or perhaps it’s time to switch careers, research communitycolleges in your area.  Check out the available courses and see if they match your interests.  Another option is to take classes through local adult education centers.  If your schedule is super-busy, look into taking a few classes online.  These days, there are many options and opportunities available.

5.) Volunteer More- Find time in your schedule to volunteer, whether it’s through your religious organization, a local library, or a recreation center in your area.  There are many non-profit volunteer organizations that could use your help.  There’s always a child who can be mentored or a family who may need help with some household repairs.  If your time is limited, maybe you can donate some items to a worthy cause.

6.) Quality Time with Family and Friends– This year, resolve to slow down and spend more quality time with your family and friends.  Create a weekly family activity such as a movie night, pizza night or let the kids select one of their favorite pastimes on the weekends.  Have you been trying to get together with a friend, but just can’t manage to find time to squeeze in a cup of coffee?  Between email, cell phones, and text messages, there’s no reason you can’t keep in touch.  Find a way of communication and set a date to meet for lunch, a drink or even a walk.

7.) Manage Stress- Enjoy your life more.  Stop stressing out about the small stuff and you will notice a definite improvement in your physical and mental health.  Resolve to take a “me” day.  Schedule a vacation day from work or arrange for your husband or a relative to watch your children.  Then, do whatever you want.  Go to a matinee movie, spend the day shopping, or just relax on the couch with a good book.  The important thing is to make one of these dates a few times a year.  It will do wonders for your mental state.

8.) Learn Something New- Maybe it’s time to explore a new hobby or enjoy the fun of learning a new language.  Taking a course through a local adult continuing education center is one of the best ways to keep a resolution.  Once you have signed up and paid your money, you will be more motivated to continue.

9.) Do More Fun Things-Have you been meaning to take a trip?  Research a destination, start saving money, and make the reservations.  If taking a long vacation is not feasible, mark the calendar with a few local day trips.  Having something to look forward to always helps to get through the day-to-day routine.  Another idea is to entertain more.  Throw a party in your home.  It could be to celebrate a holiday or just a chance to gather with friends for some good food and a few laughs.

10.) Keep Your Resolutions - This is perhaps the most challenging resolution of all.  Usually by mid-January, the enthusiasm and excitement about enjoying a fresh start usually begins to fade and many people often resort to their old habits.  One way to avoid this mid-month meltdown is to type up your resolutions and post them on the refrigerator or another central area where the list will be visible and accessible.  Refer to the list of resolutions often and reward yourself when you have accomplished one of your goals.

Hopefully 2011 will be the year you are finally able to try some of the things you’ve been meaning to, but haven’t been able to, in years past.  Good luck!

By Tricia Berwick

If you and your family are thinking about visiting New York City this year for the holiday season, there are certain stops along the way that are not to be missed.

1.) The Radio City Christmas Spectacular—For over 75 years, this classic American holiday show has been entertaining audiences in the heart of New York City.  The Christmas show includes the world-famous Radio City Rockettes and a cast and crew of hundreds.  The show features a Living Nativity with live animals, a surprising indoor snowfall, fireworks, and Santa Claus flying high above the audience.  In addition, there is also a 3D movie which is one of the highlights of the Christmas Spectacular.  Santa and the Rockettes take the audience on a thrilling ride visiting New York City landmarks before arriving at Radio City Music Hall to start the show.  The show runs for ninety minutes and does not include an intermission.  The show is so breathtaking that many people never get up from their seats for the entire performance.  If you would like to order tickets for this year’s show which runs through December 30, call the Christmas Spectacular Hotline at 866-858-0007.

2.) St. Patrick’s Cathedral—Located on Fifth Avenue between 50^th and 51^st Streets in New York City, it is the largest gothic-style Catholic Cathedral in the United States.  As people enjoy the sights and sounds of the holiday throughout the streets of New York, some decide to stop in to say a quick Christmas prayer, attend mass, or light a candle.  For over 125 years, the Cathedral of Saint Patrick has provided a beautiful spiritual place for New Yorkers and tourists and visitors.  In fact, over five and a half million visitors come to the St. Patrick’s to worship and pray each year.  If you time and would like to learn more about the church’s origin and history, arrange to schedule a tour before your visit to New York City.  Tours can be conducted by appointment for groups of ten or more, Monday through Friday around the Mass schedule. For more information about St. Patrick’s Cathedral, visit their website at www.saintpatrickscathedral.org.

3.) FAO Schwarz—For almost 150 years, this company has been creating toys to delight children of all ages.  The world-famous FAO Schwarz Fifth Avenue store is one of the most famous stores in the world.  During the holiday season, many New Yorkers, and tourists from around the globe, line up to daily to see this children’s wonderland.  Upon entering the store, guests will marvel at the Grand Hall which is which is adorned with more that 20,000 computer-controlled colored lights, a giant dance-on piano keyboard (which was featured in the film “Big” with Tom Hanks), and “FAO Schweetz” which is a classic New York candy shop that features hundreds of sweet treats.  In addition, guests can view “The Muppet WhatNot Workshop” which is only available at FAO Schwarz.  Kids will also love the “Styled by Me Barbie” section, the “Middleton Doll Newborn Nursery,” and the “Madame Alexander Doll Factory.”  For more information about the store, call (212) 644-9400 or visit the store’s website at www.fao.com.
4.) Horse and Carriage Rides in Central Park- These rides can be found al year long lined up along Central Park South between Fifth and Sixth Avenues.  It is a terrific way to relax and see the beauty of Central Park, especially during the holiday season. A standard carriage ride through Central Park costs approximately $50, plus tip forthe first 20 minutes.  If you decide to extend your trip, it will cost $20 more for each additional 10 minutes.  Things seen on the tour include:  The Wollman Rink, Pond, Zoo, Sheep Meadow, Mall (statues), Dairy (tourist information center), the Carousel, and the Dakota (where the former Beatle John Lennon lived).  If you would like to see the sights and sounds throughout Central Park, while snuggling up next to your loved one, this is one activity not to be missed and is certainly a holiday treat.  For more information, visit www.centralpark.com.

5.) Wollman Rink—While in Central Park, lace up someskates and hit the ice at Wollman Rink.  As you are twirling around and practicing a few figure eights, enjoy the beautiful New York City skyline which surrounds the skating rink.  For more information about specific hours and rates, call (212) 439-6900 or visit their website at www.wollmanskatingrink.com.

6.) Christmas Tree at Rockefeller Center—The Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree, which is located at 30 Rockefeller Plaza, is a world-wide symbol of the holidays in New York City.  The tree is illuminated by 30,000 environmentally friendly LED lights on five miles of wire.  Sitting atop the Norway Spruce is a Swarovski crystal star.  The tree has provided Christmas cheer for the people of New York for over 75 years.  The tree is lit daily from 5:30 AM to 11:30 PM.   After your family has spent some time gazing at the beautiful Christmas tree, spend some time ice skating at The Ice Skating Rink at Rockefeller Center.  It is truly a magical and memorable experience to skate around the rink while looking up at the majestic tree and the dazzling urban backdrop.   The rink has room for only 150 skaters at a time which makes it an intimate experience.  However, since this is such a popular winter attraction, be prepared to wait awhile before you hit the ice.  If you are interested in ice skating, enter from Fifth Avenue (between 49^th and 50^th Streets).  For more information, call (212) 332-7654.  Before you leave Rockefeller Center, go underground for a quick bite to eat at The Concourse.  This underground city experience offers shops, fine restaurants, and casual places to get light meals.

7.) Chanukah on Ice at Wollman Rink–Come celebrate the Jewish Festival ofLights on Monday, December 6 from 6-9 PM.  Skate to Jewish music, light a giant ice menorah and have Chanukah treats.  For more information, call (212)-864-5010.

8.) Kwanzaa Events–Kwanzaa is an African-American holiday that has been celebrated since the 1960s from December 26th – January 1^st.   On December 26, head to the American Museum of Natural History.  This all-day celebration will honor the seven African-based principles of Kwanzaa with performances of song, dance, and spoken word presented beside an international marketplace.  This year’s event features a traditional “Second Line” parade led by the McCollough Invaders Band; empowering dance performances by Kotchegna Dance Company, Allen Liturgical Dance Ministry, and Gestures Dance Ensemble; and homage to the traditions of African culture performed by the Restoration Dance Theatre Company.  For more information, visit the museum’s website at www.amnh.org.

9.) The New York Botanical Garden—Come check out the Holiday Train Show which is on display through January 9.  Spend time gazing at all of the sights in the illuminated winter wonderland in the Enid A. Haupt Conservatory.  This show offers visitors a chance to see New York City in a completely different way.  There are 140 NYC landmarks along the tracks, including the original Yankee Stadium.  Take some time to check out Gingerbread Adventures in the Everett Children’s Adventure Garden.  Everyone will have a chance to learn about the plants that give gingerbread its distinct flavor and smell.  For information about tickets and hours, please visit their website at www.nybg.org.

10.) Holiday Windows–-No trip to New York City during the holiday season would be complete without some time admiring the beautiful windows in some of the city’s most famous stories.  Macy’s Holiday Window Displays always feature scenes from the classis Christmas movie Miracle on 34^th Street, in addition to other holiday-themed windows.  The Saks Fifth Avenue Holiday Window Displays are very popular with children because they are designed around a seasonal book and feature playful animations.  After you have visited the tree at Rockefeller Center, just head across the street to see the sights at Saks Fifth Avenue.  If you find yourself on Madison Avenue, be sure to check out the stylish windows at Barneys New York Holiday Window Displays.  If you have kids in tow, make sure to stop by the windows at Bloomingdales which are always family-friendly and interactive.

11.) Visiting Santa Claus—If you would like your children to sit on Santa’s lap and tell him all of their Christmas wishes, there’s no better place to see the guy in the red suit, than Macy’s Department Store.  Of course, be prepared to wait a little bit on lines as this is one of the most popular places to see Santa in the city.  In addition to having your child’s picture taken with Santa, your little one can visit Santaland.  While your child is waiting on line to get a picture taken, he or she will love looking at all of the dancing bears, lights, and animated displays.  After a stroll through Santaland, your child has a chance to talk to the big guy himself in his very own cottage.  You can enter Macy’s on 34^th Street at either Broadway or 7^th Avenue.  For more information, visit their website at www.macys.com.

Thanksgiving is on it’s way, and Color Me Mine is the place to be. What a great opportunity to spend quality time with your children creating a special  platter with turkey handprints on it. Bring your children to Color Me Mine and use their handprints to make a special Thanksgiving platter that can decorate your holiday table. We offer a variety of platters for you to choose from, or let your child design a special plate for them to eat off of. Having this business for over ten years and seeing the excitement on the faces of children when they pick up there pieces is priceless. Our knowledgeable staff is there to help with everything from choosing your piece to adding those special finishing touches. Color Me Mine has a variety of holiday items that can be painted and given to everyone in the family and will be treasured forever. An appointment is not necessary but recommended due to parties on the weekends. With the holidays approaching don’t waste another minute come in a create that platter that everyone can enjoy at dinner.

For kids holidays usually mean time off from school, on the other hand for parents it’s finding a way to spend time with their kids doing fun activities. Most parents enjoy the down time, and try to relax after finally having a little break from the busy school week schedule. On the other hand kids are always looking for something exciting to do. With the weather changing at a fast pace in New Jersey outdoor activities like going to the park become a thing of the past. When looking for a different activity where you could spend time with your kids, and stay warm bring your family to Color Me Mine, a paint-your-own ceramics studio in Toms River.  Color Me Mine welcomes all ages, and gives you the ability to do a family activity all while being creative. It’s a way for your children to express their imagination, and have fun doing it. This month’s feature activity is a Thanksgiving platter. The original creation can be used for the turkey holiday in a few weeks and then will become a treasured tradition in your family.

On November 19th at 6:00 pm, Color Me Mine will have a children’s turkey handprint plate painting party.  The studio’s friendly staff will help each child create their handprint to resemble little turkeys. All children must sign up for the event which costs $20 per child. There are only 30 spots available, so it’s a good idea to call the studio early to reserve your spots.

While family members create a wonderful keepsake for the holiday, Color Me Mine owner Irene says they’re also, enjoying spending time together, laughing, and creating memories. It’s a time to be creative, and relax.

“Creating a Thanksgiving platter together as a family will become a cherished memory,” says Irene. “Families can come to the studio and enjoy themselves. They can be relived from their usual hectic schedules, and express their inner creativity.”

“From experience people usually find that creating a piece seems intimidating, but there’s no need to worry about that ,” says Irene. With our staff who are always eager to help, and the tools we provide anyone can create a work of art in no time.

“What everyone needs to be aware of is that Color Me Mine is a place where everyone can get involved and have fun,” says Irene. “Most people don’t consider themselves artistic, and sometimes have a hard time coming up with an idea for their piece. We’ve got that covered with stencils, stamps, and plenty of ideas from our staff.”

Customers are more than welcome to bring items from home to help with the creative process. Customers come in all the time wanting to create a beautiful piece, but seem to be stumped on how to make that happen. “That’s where my staff comes in.” says Irene. The staff takes time to discuss what the customer is looking to create, and then helps with every step along the way to make sure the customer is happy. “Sometimes all it takes is a good idea from the staff, and the customer can add to the idea to make it personal,” says Irene.

“When doing an activity parents are always concerned when it comes to their children’s clothes, but there’s no need to worry about attire at Color Me Mine,” says Irene. All paints are washable, non-toxic and lead-free, so parents don’t have to be concerned about the kids inhaling harmful fumes. Color Me Mine’s paints and glazes are completely 100% friendly to the environment.

Color Me Mine isn’t only for the holidays. It’s a fun activity to do with your children any time of the year. You can come in and let your child create a piece to display in their room, or even a special gift for a loved one. A handmade gift from your child is always a great idea. Especially when your shopping for a person who is hard to buy for. And dads there is nothing your wife will love more then a gift made with love by your children for Mother’s Day, or even her birthday.

Ceramic pieces range from $6.00 and up and the paint fee is $6.00 for children and $8.00 for adults. The prices include glazes and firing.  After all of your projects are completed, the staff of Color Me Mine will fire and glaze the items and then notify you when everything is ready for pick-up.

With the colder months ahead days off from school are also approaching and kids will be asking the same question, “What are wedoing today?” If you’re looking for something to entertain the kids, plan a creative day out at Color Me Mine ceramics studio in Toms River. Your kids will be proud of their creation. Were sure when your guests arrive on Thanksgiving the first thing your kids will do is show everyone the platter they made.

You can even get a head start on your shopping list for the December season. With so many pieces to choose from, there is something for everyone on your list. For more information, call (732) 864-9300 or visit the website at www.colormemine.com

The benefits of participating in the martial arts include developing discipline and coordination, improving one’s self-esteem, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.  The martial arts are not meant to be violent or to purposely inflict bodily harm upon others.  Although they may be portrayed this way in movies and on television, Dr. Kum Sung, of Kum Sung Martial Arts in Toms River, feels this is not an accurate depiction of martial arts.  He strongly believes that the mass media is severely tarnishing the martial arts’ image.

“It is not meant to hurt or disrespect others, but because of the media, martial arts is being taught as a way to fight,” says Dr. Sung who has studied a variety of martial arts forms ranging from Chinese to Japanese style for over 50 years.  “I have been involved with martial arts all my life and never thought it would be so misunderstood.   For years, Asians have been using martial arts as a way to improve one’s health.  Practicing martial arts prevents physical injuries and can help children who may lack focus.  I teach traditional martial arts which is different than today’s modern martial arts.  The main purpose of traditional martial arts is to promote a healthy lifestyle, both physically and mentally.  Martial arts can also help prevent injuries and helps to preserve balance and coordination.  In contrast, modern martial arts is very dangerous and violent and is being glorified in the entertainment industry.  Young people are attracted to the violence, but this is wrong.  People don’t understand martial arts because they think it is television entertainment wrestling.  Then, the kids see that type of behavior and want to imitate it by choking each other out which can cause death.”

While the media has played a significant role in the misunderstanding of the sport, a lack of qualified instructors is also part of the problem.  Dr. Sung feels that today’s martial arts teachers do not have the experience and necessary certification to understand and teach the true meaning of the sport.

“Instructors always had to be a high black belt, but now it seems that anyone can open a martial arts school without the proper qualifications,” says Dr. Sung who majored in child psychology and is the highest Martial Arts Grandmaster in the area with over 47 years of experience.  “In order to be a respected martial arts instructor, you need to have a certain degree of education and training.  Many instructors are not properly qualified to teach martial arts today.  I was once proud to say that I teach martial arts, but now I am embarrassed by the way martial arts is being taught.  It is very frustrating for me.  I have grown up with this sport and I am extremely upset about how it is changing.  Modern martial arts is more harmful than beneficial.”
Though Dr. Sung can’t personally alter the image of martial arts throughout the country or monitor the way it is being taught, he is doing his best to preserve traditional martial arts.   The Master Kum Sung Martial Arts System is a balanced system of traditional martial arts blended with modern techniques, ancient philosophies, and modern psychology.   A strong emphasis is placed on positive thinking.  Students in the Kum Sung program are encouraged to do their very best, to see rewards in life, and to overcome negative thoughts and actions.   Designed to accommodate students of all levels and ages, this unique system emphasizes self-defense, positive-reinforcement psychology, physical fitness, and coordination.   Dr. Sung strongly believes that students of the Master Kum Sung Martial Arts System will develop not only into well-rounded martial artists, but secure, positive, self-confident, and emotionally and physically fit people.

Traditional martial arts offer many benefits, but the sport has seen a decrease in participants during recent years.  Dr. Sung directly attributes this to a slow economy.  During difficult financial times, families can be quick to omit certain activities from their children’s schedules.  Dr.  Sung firmly believes that this is detrimental to the kids.

“During this tough economy, parents tend to cut back on their children’s activities,” says Dr. Sung, who has instructed police academies, special law enforcement and military agencies, national martial arts champions and many recognizable martial artists. “But this is the wrong thing to do.  If they are home after school with nothing to do, they are more likely to get into mischief and then imitate the violence they see on television.  They definitely need an organized and structured activity.  I feel so strongly about this that I decided to bring my prices down to what they were thirty years ago.  This way, parents don’t have to cut back and take away the things that the kids enjoy.”

What sets Kum Sung apart from other martial arts studios is that the instructors genuinely care about the students’ mental health.  Once parents decide to enroll their children in a martial arts program, Dr. Sung says there are many benefits.   In addition to improving a child’s physical health, Dr. Sung says the instructors work to support the children in creating a positive way of thinking.

“So many parents are working full-time today, and are not home during the after-school hours,” says Dr. Sung, who has been featured on the cover of many national and international Martial Art magazines and has been the subject of several award winning photographs at national exhibitions.  “When the children are home alone, there is no social communication with the child.  The child needs to have constant attention and someone needs to be aware of their behavior.  We are able to provide that for the children.  We are educating them emotionally.  With this type of background, they will then have the confidence to become healthy and successful adults.”

During class sessions, children are also encouraged to talk about whatever is on their minds.  Kum Sung believes in open communication and wants children to feel comfortable opening up to the instructors about whatever may be bothering them.

“Every class has time allowed for kids to discuss their feelings and what they like or don’t like,” says Dr. Sung who is certified by the World Tae Kwon Do Federation, which determines Olympic eligibility in the United States.  “We have one-on-one relationships with all of the children.  We also help children who may be experiencing behavior problems and are out of control with their parents or at school.  Some of the children battle with ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder), so we get a lot of referrals from doctors who are looking to us as a way to help the children gain some control and focus.”

In the children’s classes, maintaining focus and learning discipline are two of the major skills which are addressed.  Instructors will also teach balance, coordination, self-esteem, goal-setting, memory improvement, self-defense, and concentration.  In addition, students are taught self-defense with control, not aggression, which is a key factor.  They are also taught stranger awareness as well as rolling which helps prevent sprains and broken bones.  While many martial arts schools just teach a basic way of doing a technique, Kum Sung teaches with more attention to detail for maximum effectiveness and safety.  They also constantly refine and improve on students’ techniques.   Most importantly, all classes are taught in a fun and positive environment.  During report card time, Dr. Sung asks all of his students to bring in their report cards so that he can monitor their academic accomplishments as well.

The teenage classes, for students between ages 12 and 18, emphasize self-discipline and self-respect both for themselves and for others.  The students learn how to relieve stress which is a great defense mechanism during the tumultuous teenage years.  Good habits are strongly encouraged in a nurturing and positive environment.  At this age, there is an emphasis on speed, grace, and strength.  Students are also taught self-awareness, healing, and meditation.

Adult classes differ greatly from all other age categories. Although everyone in the group is taught the same kicks, punches, weapons and forms, they are taught in a manner that will best benefit the individual. Kum Sung’s adult programs are designed to fit a student’s individual needs, interests, and health.  Adult classes specialize in: exercises for the body and mind, inner peace and harmony, the Asian culture and language, philosophy, and weight control.  The instructors at Kum Sung carefully monitor these classes to ensure that adult participants do not suffer any unnecessary injuries causing lost time from work.  The purpose of the classes is to allow adults an opportunity to improve their physical and mental well-being, and to make their health a priority, which may not have been possible earlier in their lives.

Kum Sung has various locations throughout Monmouth and Ocean counties.  Kum Sung Headquarters are located on Hooper Avenue in Toms River.  The facility includes an 8,000 square foot Martial Arts Center, which has more than 600 members, and a 16,000 square foot complete Fitness Center, which has more than 3,000 members.  There are also facilities in Brick, Manahawkin, Long Branch, Howell, Lanoka Harbor, and Middletown. Their comprehensive website, kumsungkarate.com, includes information about future events, martial arts instructors, birthday parties, special offers, and Kum Sung’s summer camp.  Your family can also make an appointment online to take a tour of one of the facilities and to meet the instructors in person.  The website also offers videos of martial arts classes online and many photographs of students in action.

Despite hearing conflicting opinions about traditional versus modern martial arts, Dr. Sung feels confident and proud of the school he has maintained for over thirty years.  Kum Sung Martial Arts has built a reputation from decades of listening to the public’s requests and helping people achieve new levels of confidence and capability.  He knows that he is providing his students with a positive, traditional martial arts education.  When you consider that Dr. Sung has now been teaching three generations of students, it is obvious that the families he serves truly respect his work.

“I have had some people come up to me and say, ‘When I was a child, I learned from you.  Then, I brought my children, and now I’m bringing my grandkids to you,’” says Dr. Sung.  “That is a very rewarding feeling.”

Kum Sung Martial Arts is much more than just punching and kicking.  It is a system that helps build confidence, coordination, and inner peace and opens up the door to a positive attitude.   The overall theme of Kum Sung Martial Arts is to provide children with a proper education.  In addition to martial arts, the family also runs Sung Star Academy which is for children ages six weeks to five-years-old.  There are state certified teachers in every classroom with registered nurses on staff to take care of your little ones, if necessary.  The directors of the school all have the highest degrees of education.  If you are interested in learning more about Kum Sung Karate, call 732-341-8800, or visit their website at kumsungkarate.com.  You can even send your questions via email at info@kumsungkarate.com.